A sign of one's good fortune: anticipating a disaster. 01 No one knows which tomorrow or accident will come first. It seems that for the future, we can only wait, let nature take its course, but we cannot take the initiative to grasp it. Folk

A sign of one's good fortune: anticipating a disaster.

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No one knows which tomorrow or accident will come first.

It seems that for the future, we can only wait, let nature take its course, but we cannot take the initiative to grasp it.

There is a folk proverb: "If you foresee danger, you can avoid half of it."

It can be seen that there are always some things that we can prepare in advance, and through thinking, we can see the whole story and various unexpected situations.

We all know the idea that "blessings and misfortunes are present," but many people only remember where the blessings are after the disaster came, and then quickly adjust the direction and try to get it back.

In fact, when disaster strikes, the blessings are almost consumed. Truly fortunate people are able to foresee disasters and keep evil things in the bud.

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First, be good at observation, disasters have nowhere to hide.

There is a saying in "Summer Tree": "If you are alone in three mistakes, do you know that you are complaining?" If you don't see it, it's a painting. ”

That is, if a person makes a lot of mistakes, his hatred will not be in the light, but in the darkness, so he should be careful before the resentment is exposed.

At the end of the Spring and Autumn Period, Zhi Xiangzi, one of the four Qing dynasties of the Jin Dynasty, was very unfriendly to the ministers around him, Han Kangzi and Wei Huanzi, and said some insulting things.

Afterwards, he did not know how to repent, saying: "According to my position, whether there is a disaster or not is up to me." What can I do for my people? ”

After some time, Han Kang and Huanzi of the State of Wei united against ZhiXiangzi, leading to the disintegration of the Jin State.

This bug can damage the levees. At first, we didn't care about the harm of bugs, we laughed at the inadequacy of bugs. I only sigh when I can't get it back.

On the road of life, we will inevitably encounter villains, quarrel with others, and the forces of nature will follow us everywhere. If we don't find the clues in time, it is likely that we will cause a catastrophe in the dark and grow slowly.

Therefore, lucky people will always lower their posture, observe everything around them, resolve conflicts in time, repair relationships, sort out some factors that may bring trouble in time, and carry out dynamic management.

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Second, caring for others at all times can improve the living environment.

People often complain that the people around them are not friendly to themselves and live in a neighborhood that is very untidy. If you have money, you have to move.

In fact, any community has an unfriendly and dark side.

As small as a family, as large as a country, it is impossible to be perfect. As long as you are good enough and take the initiative to care for others, your family, community, and country will become better, and the people around you will help you.

During the Spring and Autumn period, Qi Jinggong put on a fox fur coat, walked into the snow, and said, "It snowed for several days in a row, but I don't feel cold."

Minister Yanzi said: "Wise people, when they are full of food and warmth, they still care about whether others are full of food and warmth."

Qi Jinggong immediately realized his mistake and distributed the clothes and food in the warehouse to the poor.

Confucius said, "YanZi can know what he wants, and Gong Jing can do what he can."

The reason why qi can grow and develop is not on its own, but because the people at the top care about the people at the bottom, and the people at the bottom who support the people at the top, so it is realized.

Take history as a mirror and you'll find that many monarchs were overthrown because they weren't good enough, not too many unruly people.

If you respect the people around you, the people around you will naturally respect you. Over time, a harmonious environment is formed, and everyone can work together to overcome the difficulties and give disasters no chance to take root.

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Third, learning to listen to opinions can correct mistakes in a timely manner.

There is a French proverb: "Truth likes criticism, and after criticism, truth will triumph; "Fear of false criticism, because after criticism, error will fail." "

A lot of disasters, you don't see, but the people around you see it and point it out. You just don't think so, or you're used to hearing lies and seeing criticism as a thorn in the eye. And so the disaster came.

With the help of the public eye, you can see everything clearly.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Yan Zi, the minister of the State of Qi, lived near the market. He often went to the market and found that many people lost their soles after being tortured, so the number of merchants selling fake soles increased, and the number of merchants selling shoes decreased. He immediately suggested that Qi Jinggong change the punishment rules.

The ancients said: "The overall situation is hidden in the city." In a crowded place, quietly observe, calmly talk to everyone, then the real situation in society will be smooth, you can quietly improve yourself.

If you get into the habit of listening with an open mind, there will be someone to help contain the disaster from the start. On the other hand, it's about keeping good luck.

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Fourth, insisting on independent thinking can enhance the vision of being a person.

Bacon said: "We have to always pay attention, courage is often blind, because it can't see hidden dangers and difficulties. Courage, therefore, is not conducive to thinking, but is conducive to practical work. ”

Many people, acting bravely, will reap the benefits or become stronger over time. But before long, it will go downhill.

For example, a person who has been mixed in the workplace for a long time is very distressed and resigns in a huff. For several years in a row, he lost his job because he did not find a good way out; he wanted to start a business, but there was no capital.

There are some things that you have to think about before and after. Think about it, straighten out the relationship that can't be solved, and then do it, you have rules and regulations, and you can accurately handle errors in the middle of the way.

Think about anticipating danger and planning to save people in advance. The more a person thinks, the more he can grasp the outcome of the matter. Even if he encounters disasters along the way, it is only an episode.

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As the old saying goes, "The magpie takes the lead, and the good fortune takes the lead."

The magpie is coming, which is unintentional, but if you think along with it, your mood will get better, so your enthusiasm for doing things will increase and good luck will come.

Those who continue to have good luck will not only observe the magpies, but also plant plane trees to attract the magpies.

The process of "planting trees" is the process of benefiting: borrowing external forces to achieve oneself; being oneself and attracting external forces.

May you and me, but do good deeds, there is always good luck.

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