Reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", we can't help but sigh for the deep love between Baoyu and Daiyu and the shallow sad ending, complaining about the decaying society, the snobbish family, and the unguated people's hearts. People often say that the details determine success or failure, in fact, the details are more hidden "devil", perusing "Dream of the Red Chamber", the ending direction of Baoyu and Daiyu has long been hidden by Cao Gong in the details between the lines.
When Bao Dai first met, both of them had a familiar and surprised acquaintance and reunion after a long absence. In the process, Baoyu first took the word "颦颦" for Daiyu, and then threw his own psychic baoyu because Daiyu had no jade, and also strongly demanded to live outside Daiyu's bisha cupboard.
On the surface, this is all Baoyu's infatuation and willfulness, in fact, Cao Gong first let Baoyu fight for the "wooden stone former alliance": it is the husband's privilege to give a woman a word, the jade can only break the "golden jade good relationship", and living outside the bisha cabinet can achieve the intimate day and night of "Lang riding a bamboo horse around the bed to get green plums".
Needless to say, at first Bao Yu was proactive, but later Cao Gong let Dai Yu show that he seemed to be "resistant".
Throw the bracelet. On the way to the Funeral Ofe Simp Temple for the Qin clan, Baoyu met the Prince of Northern Jing, who came to participate in the road festival, and the prince gave Baoyu a skewer of wagtail incense given by the emperor as a greeting gift. As soon as Bao Yu heard that Dai Yu had returned from Suzhou, he excitedly gave this precious bracelet to Dai Yu, and Dai Yu did not appreciate it, "What stinky man has taken it, I don't want it", and "throw it without taking", which means that it is too late to throw it aside.
All along, we felt that this move was a manifestation of Daiyu's purity, and on the surface it was true. However, from the perspective of the act of giving away the bracelet alone, it is completely with the meaning of certainty. Whether it's "Why ChiKuo?" Jump around the wrists" bracelet, or "Why fist fist?" The wrapped arms of the double gold ring, bracelets, bracelets, bracelets, etc. are regarded as love keepsakes. For example, in the "Biography of Zhen Huan", the red coral bracelet sent by the King of Guojun after Zhen Huan gave birth to the dragon and phoenix fetus, zhen Huan immediately carried it in her hand. Dai Yu threw this bracelet of letters.
Cut the sachet. In the seventeenth time, the Grand View Garden, which was prepared for yuanchun province, was first built, and Bao Yu accompanied Jia Zheng to explore the garden, and after the test was tested, the naughty boys who begged for the color head untied the purse fan bag and other pendants that Bao Yu carried with him. Dai Yu mistakenly thought that the purse she had given to Bao Yu had also been untied, and she was very angry, and without saying a word, she cut the sachet carefully made for Bao Yu.
Bao Yu was also a little angry, and took out the treasured bag from the red jacket and threw it into Dai Yu's arms, and Dai Yu was difficult to get down the steps, and she had to cut the purse. The purse and bracelet are all promise gifts, so that the small Dai Yu is invisibly "destroying" the keepsake.
Do not share the pillow. In the "Augmentation of the Sages", it is said: A hundred years of cultivation came to cross the same boat, and a thousand generations of cultivation came to sleep together. Sharing a bed is synonymous with the marriage of husband and wife. In the nineteenth time, Baoyu went to Daiyu to look at her and saw that Daiyu was taking a lunch break, and Baoyu was afraid that Daiyu would cause discomfort after eating, so he teased her and relieved her. Baoyu also wanted to be crooked on the bed, and when he saw that there was only one pillow, he said to Daiyu, "There is no pillow, let's be on a pillow." Dai Yu refused, gave her own pillow to Bao Yu, and took another pillow of her own.
In terms of the relationship between the two, since Dai Yu entered the Rongguo Mansion, the cousins "have a close friendship between the two, and they are also different from each other, the day is sitting together, the night is the same breath, it is really smooth and smooth, there is no business", Baoyu's intimate behavior is also normal. From a common sense, there is a difference between men and women, and Dai Yu has nothing wrong with it. However, from the meaning of "sharing a bed and a pillow", Dai Yu inadvertently rejected the "Wooden Stone Former Alliance" again.
Reject "Unicorn". In the twenty-ninth time, Jia Mu led the crowd to the Qingxu Temple, and the Daoist people in the temple presented Baoyu with some gold and jade gadgets. Bao Yu picked out a red gold-dotted qilin and left it for Dai Yu, who directly said, "I am not rare."
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Shi Xiangyun has a golden qilin, and Dai Yu has also eaten the "vinegar" of this golden qilin. In the thirty-second time, there is a description like this:
It turned out that Lin Daiyu knew that Shi Xiangyun was here, and Bao Yu came again, and must have said that Qilin was the sake. Therefore, I thought in my heart: In the recent wild history that Baoyu has brought, most of the talented and beautiful people have been matched by small playthings, or mandarin ducks, or phoenixes, or jade ring golden pendants, or fish pa luan qi, all of which have died because of small things, and now that they suddenly see that Baoyu also has a unicorn, they are afraid that there will be a gap, and Shi Xiangyun has also done that good thing, so he quietly comes and sees the opportunity to act in order to detect the intentions of the two."
It can be seen that the golden qilin is also a love relic, but Dai Yu refused to accept this relic.
Moreover, from the perspective of "Golden Jade Good Fortune", if Dai Yu accepts the "Golden Qilin ", isn't it also a "Golden Jade Good Relationship" with Bao Yu? Unfortunately, Dai Yu missed it again. Next, Baoyu smashed the jade again, and also tried to break free of the "golden jade good fate" to achieve the former alliance of wood and stone. However, Dai Yu cut the spike on the Psychic Treasure Jade again, and the only connection with the Psychic Gem was also broken.
Don't drink a glass of wine. From ancient times to the present, there is a traditional ceremony in the mainland wedding procedures: husband and wife drinking, which is commonly known as "cup wine", in ancient times, it was also called "hezuo", and "hezuo" was extended to the meaning of marriage. In the sixty-third time, Baoyu held a birthday feast in the Yihong Courtyard of the Grand View Garden, and all the people gathered together. In the lottery drinking link, Xiangyun shook a sign that "ordered the upper and lower families to drink a cup", it happened that Dai Yu was the upper family, Bao Yu was the lower family, and the two needed to drink, but the two did not abide by the "activity rules" - "Bao Yu drank half a cup first, saw that the people did not see, handed it to Fang Guan, and lifted his neck." Dai Yu just talked to people and folded all the wine in the gargle." Of these two glasses of wine, Bao Yu also drank half a cup, and Dai Yu was a little untouched. This implicit marriage drink, Dai Yu also abandoned.
In fact, the repeated abandonment of the "Mushi Qianmeng" move is not Daiyu's fault but Cao Gong's "intention", because the "Mushi Qianmeng" itself is a journey to return tears on the grounds of repaying favors, when the tears are exhausted, it is the fate that is broken, and the ending is already doomed at the beginning, Cao Gong can't bear to tell it bluntly, and has adopted a roundabout expression that implies it.
Author: Warm Forward, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.