Some of your post-70s peers, what are you called when you first meet your children and relatives? Is it directly called the pro-family? Or do you call your brothers, sisters, brothers, sisters, brothers, and sisters Or Mom and Dad named XXX? Awkward isn't it? Emma, I met with my relatives for the first time during the Spring Festival this year, so what should I call this question? But I can be embarrassed and embarrassed to not want to [cover my face] [cover my face].
The daughter and the son-in-law are high school classmates, in love for 6.7 years, and the relationship has been very stable. This year's Spring Festival agreed that the parents of both sides would officially meet.
The son-in-law spent Chinese New Year's Eve at my house and went to his house with him on the first day of the Chinese New Year and the second day of the New Year. His parents are exquisite people, and they have to drive more than 300 kilometers to our house to meet us personally.
That's what makes me embarrassed here. The first time my mother came to my house, the visitor was a guest, and the owner had to call the guest first, so what should I call it? Calling the family can't be exported! If we go to their house first, what do they call when we enter the door? I'll just follow what I call it. But they came to our house first! What is it called? Can make me sad [cover my face] [cover my face]
I consulted with friends around me, they said it was called the family, but I always felt that calling the family was the name of my parents' generation, and the post-70s people called the family feel very old. And after the 70s, I have not calmly accepted the old age in my heart, and I always feel that I have been classified as an elderly person with a family .
I asked the son-in-law what they called that? He was a nerd who said he didn't know. Asking is the same as not asking.
My husband said that he would call him a pro-family directly, and I smiled shyly, and I wanted to call you, but I couldn't call it out anyway.
Early in the morning of the second day of the Chinese New Year, I was busy cleaning, sorting out the housework, preparing various pastries, fruits, making tea... Welcome to the arrival of the mother of the family. While busy, while tangled, what is the name? What's the name? What about a meeting?
The more entangled, the more nervous, the more I don't know what to call? But hundreds of kilometers away, the mother and family are almost home.
Forget it, don't think about it, see the tricks. Maybe after opening the door, they called us first?
The husband and the son-in-law went downstairs to pick up the mother of the family. My daughter and I lined up at the door to welcome us neatly with their slippers.
The daughter has long joined their family group, and they are very familiar with their families, and they are very familiar with each other. It was me who was embarrassed.
It is estimated that my mother also has the same entanglement and embarrassment as me. When I entered the door, both sides greeted me politely and warmly, but I never waited for them to call me. Hahaha, thanks to the relatives or in the official arena to mix with the characters, the result of seeing the relatives of the family he will also be embarrassed and entangled [laugh] [laugh].
After repeated ideological struggles and repeated ideological construction, I finally did not call out a family, but said: "Hello! Please drink tea. "Hello! Please feel free. "Hello! Please..." [laughs] [laughs]
The last to resolve the embarrassment is my husband, who has no heart and no lungs at this moment. He picked up the teacup very crisply: "Dear family, please drink tea." Then, the family immediately picked up the teacup and crisply said, "Dear family, you're welcome." ”
Hahaha, a pro-family called out, the atmosphere was instantly relaxed, a pro-family came, a pro-family went, and after a while, the pro-family mother called Shunkou [I want to be quiet] [I want to be quiet].
alas! I'm just a blunt-mouthed person. Later, when I got to my own side, I was embarrassed again. The family is older than us, and the mother is smaller than us. My youngest sisters are older than me.
Two sisters called me sister according to his brother. I call my sister by my own family, right? Someone else is older than me; is it important to call someone else's sister by age? It doesn't seem right. Two days ago they gave a toast and called me sister, and I awkwardly called them sister. Until later, when we played mahjong together, I saw that the two younger sisters were called their own mother-in-law, who was several years younger than them, and the mother-in-law called them the eldest sister and the second sister. I suddenly became enlightened, and followed my mother to call the eldest sister and the second sister.
Oh my! Those few days embarrassed me. Finally, the title was straightened out. Then every day for the next day, the eldest sister and the second sister of the mother of the family called it smoothly [yay] [yay].
Some of the peers after the 70s, the children should almost talk about marriage and get married, the first time you meet with your relatives, do you have the same entanglement and embarrassment as me? Let's listen to [little applause] [little applause].
#70 #Parents short # #这就是年味儿 #
