At the recording site of Hubei Satellite TV's "Wonderful Chinese Characters" in 2019, there were three contestants with very similar looks that attracted a lot of attention. Each of these three lads was very intelligent and polite, and they turned out to be triplets. Although the boss was eliminated in the first round of the competition, the second and third elders quickly topped the top and finally won the second place with a slight gap. The wonderful performance of the three brothers has attracted the attention of many viewers and journalists.
Xu Zhenqin was at the scene of the show
After the game, the reporters surrounded the three brothers and Xu Zhenqin, a single mother watching the game below. This thin, and somewhat shy woman has single-handedly raised three such excellent sons, so her parenting style has made many viewers very curious.
As a single mother, xu Zhenqin has paid a lot of hardships in the process of raising her three sons? How did the three sons do this well?
The good news came out of the middle school entrance examination and was interviewed by reporters
In 2018, a mother from Hongshan District, Wuhan City, Hubei Province, became famous in the media, this mother named Xu Zhenqin, she is a single mother, she is a single mother with triplets.
This year, it is exactly the year of Xu Zhenqin's three sons' middle school entrance examination, in the growth process of the three sons, Xu Zhenqin is a father and a mother, almost can be regarded as a bloody blood, and the three sons are also very competitive, with excellent results to comfort the mother's heart, so that Xu Zhenqin feels very proud.
Xu Zhenqin and three sons
Among the three sons, the eldest Lu Wenyi's chinese test played a little abnormally, resulting in an overall score lower than the estimated score, but he was still admitted to The East Lake Middle School in Wuhan. The second eldest Lu Wentian and the third lu Wenyi played very well in the examination, and both were admitted to the experimental middle school in Hubei Province.
On the day when the middle school entrance examination ended, Xu Zhenqin left the matter at hand, bought many dishes, and made a large table of hearty dishes. In the afternoon, she personally came to the school and took her three sons back home. At the dinner table, Xu Zhenqin asked her three sons where the ideal school was, and they all said that they wanted to enter the best high school experimental school in Hubei.
Looking at the energetic faces of her three sons, Xu Zhenqin quietly wiped her tears in the backlight and felt extremely relieved. After the results came out, the three sons did not disappoint her, and all of them got good results.
Not long after the Lu family boy's results came out, one morning, the door of Xu Zhenqin's house was knocked. The boss opened the door, and the other party said that he was a reporter for Chutian Metropolis Daily and wanted to interview the three brothers and his mother Xu Zhenqin.
"Sit down and drink some water." My mom was still selling things on the street, and I called her and waited a little longer than half an hour to get home. ”
The reporter replied: "Okay, thank you Lu Wenyi." ”
More than half an hour later, Xu Zhenqin returned gasping for breath, facing the camera and the reporter's microphone, she looked a little confused. Before the interview, Xu Zhenqin deliberately went to the bathroom to wash her face and comb her hair, and then sat down solemnly. Facing the camera, she slowly expressed her bitterness, difficulty and satisfaction over the years.
Xu Zhenqin
Wuhan worked and started a family, and even gave birth to triplets
"I'm not a native here, my hometown is from rural Anhui." Let me think about it, it was 2000, because the family conditions were not very good, I did not have any culture, so I came to Wuhan to work and earn a living. In Xu Zhenqin's slow narration, the picture of her past life slowly unfolded.
In 2000, Xu Zhenqin came to Wuhan, carrying a large bag and a small bag, and barely found a foothold. Because of her low education, she could not find an easy and decent job, so she could only go to the construction site to move bricks, go to restaurants to wash dishes, and do some manual work. On the construction site, she got to know Lu Mou, who is very able to bear hardships and usually takes good care of Xu Zhenqin.
Back and forth, the feelings of the two young people heated up sharply in frequent exchanges. The two people who were in love got married, found their own support for the second half of their lives, and formed a warm and happy family.
2003 was a very pleasant and happy year for Xu Zhenqin and her husband. This year, Xu Zhenqin became pregnant. Her husband is very happy, and he is even more considerate of her, usually reluctant to let Xu Zhenqin go out to do heavy work, and when he returns home, he does not allow Xu Zhenqin to do housework again.
Under the careful care of her husband, Xu Zhenqin successfully ushered in the delivery period. Although it was painful, the three sons who had just been born healthy and healthy gave Xu Zhenqin and her husband great surprise and relief. The couple decided to work harder in the future, raise their three sons to grow up, and train them to become talents.
Three sons, each waiting to be fed, each waiting to change diapers, the sons waiting to be fed, so that Xu Zhenqin and her husband are more motivated to earn money. During the day, her husband went to work at the construction site, and Xu Zhenqin went to the rich man's house to do housekeeping. In the evening, before her husband leaves work, Xu Zhenqin will return home and prepare the family's dinner. Although the three sons are small, they do not bother their parents at all, usually do not cry or make trouble, and only hum twice when they are hungry.
Neighbors are very envious of Xu Zhenqin, a big son, the three sons are well-behaved, the husband is industrious and can endure hardships, the wife is diligent and thrifty, in the eyes of the neighbors, Xu Zhenqin's family is synonymous with happiness.
Her husband died of illness and was alone to carry the burden
However, for Xu Zhenqin, happiness is always short-lived. In 2005, my husband fell ill and went to the hospital for a detailed examination and found that he had diabetes and heart disease, and his condition was already very serious. In order to treat her husband's illness, Xu Zhenqin spent almost all the family's savings and stayed with her in the hospital day and night. Even after spending all her financial and mental resources, Xu Zhenqin still had no way to keep her husband. Xu Zhenqin's husband died in a cold night, leaving Xu Zhenqin and the triplet son, orphans and widows, pitiful to the extreme.
When her husband left, the sky at home collapsed by more than half, but looking at her three well-behaved sons, Xu Zhenqin could only grit her teeth and wipe away her tears and force herself to be strong. The children were already pitiful without their fathers, and if even they fell, Xu Zhenqin could not imagine what kind of life these three children would live.
Xu Zhenqin, who perked up, filled every minute of herself. In the morning, when it was not dawn, she would get up to prepare her sons' breakfast, and then eat a few bites of her own hastily, and then she would have to rush to the slaughterhouse to help the butchers watch the pigs. When it was time to go to work, the work of the slaughterhouse was finished, and Xu Zhenqin had to rush to the housekeeping company to take orders to do housekeeping.
After the end of the housekeeping work, Xu Zhenqin immediately went home to prepare vegetables, and then set up a stall next to the square to sell brine vegetables. It was already midnight after the busy finishing of the stall, and Xu Zhenqin had to hurry home again, first to see her three sons, and then simply clean herself up and prepare tomorrow's meal.
Day after day, day after day, Xu Zhenqin's life is squeezed by the word earning so that there is no personal space, she will also be tired, she will also cry secretly in the middle of the night, but looking at the three sons who are growing up, she feels that everything she has paid is worth it.
By the time their sons are four years old, they can help their mom with a little bit of housework. The eldest Lu Wenyi is particularly sensible and precocious, he knows that he is the eldest brother, so he will always ask himself to take on more responsibilities. In the morning, in order to let her mother sleep a little more, Lu Wenyi would rub her sleepy eyes and get up to prepare breakfast for her mother and brothers.
After kindergarten in the afternoon, the three boys will not run around with their classmates, but come to Xu Zhenqin's brine stall together to help their mother. On weekends, the three sons never asked to go to the amusement park, did not ask to buy toys, but sensibly stayed at home to share the housework. The neighbors around them all said that these three little guys were the little angels who came to repay the favor.
Once, it was raining heavily, Xu Zhenqin was trapped in a brine stall and had no way to go home, she had thought about it, it didn't matter if she was hungry for a while. Just when Xu Zhenqin was cold and hungry and trembling, she suddenly saw a figure holding an umbrella running in the distance, very familiar.
When the other party ran closer to see, this was actually his eldest son, Xu Zhenqin was surprised and happy to see Lu Wenyi take out a lunch box from his arms, and said to her: "Mother eat it while it is hot, I specially nest it, it must not be cold." Tears filled Xu Zhenqin's eyes, and she choked up and replied, "What a good son of my mother!" ”
The mother and son have been dependent on each other for their lives, and after her son went to school, Xu Zhenqin did not have so many axes, and she could take out more energy to care about the lives of her sons. "Mom, today we took the monthly exam, and I took the first place." "Mom, we had a school sports day, and I ran the fastest." "Mom, I learned to swim!" The sons will let their mothers participate in their own lives in every detail, and Xu Zhenqin will also do her best to care about the growth of her sons.
There have been successive car accidents, and the school teachers have cared
Although the mother and son four have always relied on each other and worked hard to live, the four mothers and sons who have not paid special attention to their lives in heaven have once again dealt them a blow.
In 2016, the third elder of the family, Lu Wenjie, had a car accident, on the way to school, Lu Wenjie was hit by a car, although the injury was not serious, but it hit Xu Zhenqin's heart completely. The three sons are the people Xu Zhenqin cherishes the most, so when she received a call from her teacher on the way to do housekeeping, saying that Lu Wenjie had a car accident, Xu Zhenqin almost fainted.
She hastily put the housekeeping tools aside and stumbled to the hospital to see the third elder. The moment she saw her son, Xu Zhenqin's heart let go, and tears came out of her eyes. Lu Wenyi originally wanted to raise a big smile to comfort his mother, but he didn't expect that his mother was crying bitterly when she held herself, and Lu Wenyi himself was frightened and helpless.
Since then, Xu Zhenqin has fiercely reflected on her lack of concern for her son. The three sons are currently in the critical period of growth, Xu Zhenqin decided that she must take a day out of the week to take good care of the situation of the three sons this week. When she told her sons about this decision, all three were happy, and in their hearts, it meant that the company was finally a little more.
Also in 2016, Xu Zhenqin's family had another accident. This time, it was Xu Zhenqin herself. She was hit by a car when she went out in the morning, and her injuries were much more serious than those of the previous third, and she had to go to the hospital. This hospitalization means that there is no one in the family to earn money, and it also means that the three sons are not taken care of, which makes Xu Zhenqin extremely worried.
However, this time, she has received help from many people in the difficult situation, and she is no longer alone. First, Zhang Jurong, the homeroom teacher of the three lu brothers, called on the whole class to donate money to the Lu family, and after Xu Zhenqin refused the donation, Zhang Jurong brought milk and fruit to Xu Zhenqin, who was hospitalized.
In the ward, Xu Zhenqin couldn't stop thanking Zhang Jurong, and Zhang Jurong replied: "Mother Lu, you are too polite, don't worry about the children's affairs, I will take care of them more at school, you take good care of your illness, get better as soon as possible." ”
Not only did the school and teachers show concern for Xu Zhenqin, but her employer when she was doing domestic work also sent gifts and greetings to Xu Zhenqin. Xu Zhenqin is honest and hardworking, and these employers appreciate her very much, and this time they also come to care for her.
The care of everyone made Xu Zhenqin very moved, and what moved her most was the understanding of her sons. During her hospitalization, the three sons took turns to accompany her to the bed, and while taking care of her, they did not slack off their studies, ranking at the top of the exams, and the teachers praised the three brothers.
When Zhang Jurong came to visit his home once, he also praised Lu Wenyi in particular: "This child has not only been making progress himself, but also has a very sense of responsibility, can assume the responsibility of class cadres, cares about the classmates around him, and has a very strong sense of collective honor." Xu Zhenqin also replied: "Probably because he is the eldest brother, he has given himself a lot of pressure since he was a child, and he has to take good care of me and my brothers." This character is probably formed in this way. ”
The three of them got good grades on the test, and thanked their mothers on the show
In a flash, it was 2018, when the three brothers participated in the middle school entrance examination, and the second lu Wentian and the third lu Wenyi both achieved their goals and were admitted to the experimental middle school. Although the elder Lu Wenyi played abnormally and only went to East Lake Middle School, it was also a very good school.
In an interview, Lu Wenyi also told reporters: "I am now one section worse than my two younger brothers, but I will not give up, I will always chase them, and we all have to be admitted to a good university." When Lu Wenyi said this, Xu Zhenqin looked at him with relief.
In 2019, the three xueba brothers who have already entered high school participated in the program recording of "Wonderful Chinese Characters", and when the three brothers "waved the fang" on the stage, their mother Xu Zhenqin sat under the stage and watched them. The excellent performance of the three sons made Xu Zhenqin very proud, and while she told herself to keep a low profile, she couldn't help but want to tell the people around her: "See? This is My Sons! ”
At the end of the show, the boss was eliminated because the language foundation was relatively not so good, and the second and third elders became the second place with a slight disadvantage. At the end of the game, when the contestants spoke, the three people confessed their mothers sitting on the stage.
They said: "If it wasn't for mom who gave so much, we wouldn't be where we are today." My mother got up early and greedily earned money to support the family, and she was busy and tired and cared about the growth of our three brothers. Mom has lost herself in life, and we dare not say how good we will become, but we can guarantee that we will be filial to our mother and will repay the society. ”
Xu Zhenqin in the audience, hearing these words, was already in tears. Xu Zhenqin said slowly: "I have never put pressure on the children, I only hope that they can be healthy and healthy, do not ask them to repay me in the future, only hope that they can become talents and struggle unceasingly." ”
epilogue
How unfair it was to Xu Zhenqin in heaven, she did not have good conditions for education, and it was difficult to have a happy family, but her husband left their mother and son and four people alone. The burden of the three children, the burden of the family, all pressed on Xu Zhenqin's thin shoulders. Sometimes, she felt like she was running out of breath, and she felt like she couldn't hold on.
But heaven is also fair, and the three sons gave Xu Zhenqin great comfort. They are confident, they are capable, they are well-behaved and sensible, and their study and life do not need Xu Zhenqin to worry too much, but they will also share the pressure of Xu Zhenqin. The existence of the three sons, for Xu Zhenqin, is the treasure that God has given her, and it is another window that has been opened for her.