Written after the netizens met: before writing a small essay to hand over the paper, the netizens who have known each other for more than ten years have met! The content usually narrates the whole meeting experience, many people are curious, why did not stay overnight, why did not eat together, did not look up, I am not attractive enough! In fact, everyone's curiosity and comments are very normal, maybe I did not explain clearly before, although we have known each other for more than ten years, but ordinary netizens, have not always been online dating, and only occasionally chat a few words, and do not understand each other in depth. There are also people who question that tens of kilometers are very convenient, the premise, I will not drive, there is no car, although we are close, but the distance between the intervals, we need to go on the highway. If dozens of kilometers of buses can be reached within the city, we can only take a bus between us if we do not drive. In fact, he had come to my city before and asked to meet, but I refused because it was too late. I have also asked him why he has been cold, he replied because it has not yet started, think of just ordinary netizens, never ambiguous, but also very normal. We said good to meet, because I divorced for many years, the child was raised, before I did not want to grievance the child has not been looking for this aspect of consideration, the child after the university to have the idea, and the son is very supportive of me to find again, I decided to meet with him, because the experience is similar, the nature of the work is the same, the agreement to meet if there is a feeling to develop, no feeling to maintain the previous ordinary friends. He did not come to see me, mainly his children are still in school, need him to take care of, and the work is indeed very busy, said good New Year holiday, he only took a day off has been working overtime, after meeting the third day to go on a business trip, yesterday weekend overtime to more than one o'clock in the morning, today overtime meeting, so I can understand. After the separation, he said that I gave him a solid and warm feeling, and he gave me the feeling of stability, warm smile, we decided to promote the netizens to online love, he and I are as serious and responsible for the work, responsible, I may have paid too much in the work before, now tired, can not move, just want to live a good life, and he is still in the golden age of men, the requirements for work are higher, I asked him we have this difference in the pursuit of work, he will not mind, he said that in fact, he is also very tired, but also hope to have a warm harbor. After separation, we chatted significantly more, the content is also richer, he may not reply to the message immediately when he is busy, but he will definitely reply when he is busy, and he still leaves a message after a little busy last night. This is the current state, and I hope to develop in a good direction! It's really not easy to remarry or meet the right person at this age! Just do it and cherish it!