The visitor, female, 35 years old, is employed
(First Consultation) (Personal Growth)
[Heart] Evening Peace of Mind [Heart]
Be awake and aware, and live yourself like a steaming heat
There are three key points in a person's life: the original family, the husband and wife partner, and the awakened self. If there is no superior family, a desirable partner, we must awaken the strong self and reshuffle the cards.
Deeply.
Not everyone is born with all the good cards, and if the door is closed, there is always a window to look for. Grasp the cards you can play, in order to move forward with confidence in this game of life.
I don't know when we started, we can feel more and more a lot of intangible things, such as emotions, time, unfinished language, the future of the future.
It may be in awareness, or it may be on the road to awareness, and this state can be called chaos.
Emotions are a double-edged sword that reminds me of existence all the time, because I have a relationship with the world, whether it is happy, calm, sad, fearful, sad, in short, I can feel that I am truly alive.
And sometimes, emotions can make people lose their minds. Feel good, know that you should not still do it, even if you know at the beginning that the last person to hurt will be yourself, or will believe, the world has never failed us; fear, or will still hide, do not want to face, and then become more and more numb.
Someone said to me, "There are no people or things that can stir my emotions now." ”
Perhaps the biggest difference between adults and children is that they will put away a lot of their emotions, will not expose, and will not let emotions dominate themselves.
But many times while we are learning to grow, we still stubbornly want to remain true, and when we can live with emotions one day, I believe that we will get along more friendly with the world.
I think the perception of time is because I miss too much time, and if I am not careful, it seems that everyone is urging to do adult things, and I am still stubbornly feeling that as long as I do not compromise, I am a winner, and I am different from them.
As everyone knows, confrontation and compromise are the same, not really fleeing, just falling into their own spiritual civil war, constantly consuming themselves.
Internal friction is like two little people living in your heart, constantly arguing and fighting, consuming your physical and mental resources, unable to cope with life. Obviously I didn't do anything, I just felt very tired.
If you let yourself continue to internal friction, you will only continue to lose confidence and fall more and more into the vortex of powerlessness.
Whether it is the entanglement of work, or the inner wandering, or the emotional entanglement, it is a kind of mental internal friction, and it is no different from deserting before fighting.
Musk said in a recent interview: "I never wanted to be pessimistic or optimistic, and I was done." ”
In fact, for each of us, there are still many goals that have not been achieved, if we do not take it seriously, how can we speak for ourselves when looking back on the past; I have no regrets.
2022 is coming, and there is a lot of uncertainty about the future. If there is one thing that can be adhered to for a long time, it is to have good intentions and live yourself like a steaming hot.
Goodness comes from one's own heart, one thought becomes a Buddha and one thought becomes a demon, and the instantaneous transformation is a completely different fate.
"Life is like a game, I draw the wrong lottery, whether I like it or not, I have to accept the rules. Since God is kidding me about this, I have a lot of fun. ”
As an ordinary person, there may be no way to resist the injustice of fate, but when it encounters setbacks, it does not fall, it does not have evil thoughts when it is deceived, and it does not choose to compromise when it is desperate.
Respecting others and having an account for yourself may be the greatest good thought.
Have good thoughts in mind and then stick to your passions.
In the after-life and work, choose to read or write, of course, writing does not have to become a writer, but whether reading or writing, can be seen as a self-redemption, is an emotional outlet. Only when the heart is full of strength can we have the strength to embrace the world; only a sober and aware life is a respect for life.
Each of us is born different, we are one in 7.5 billion, we are also 100% of ourselves, come to this world, if not to become a better self, how to return to dust with peace of mind.
The meaning of hard work is that every moment of life is not in vain.
The purpose of our efforts is that in the days to come, we will look around and see people and things that we like, and we will have a steaming self!
I love this wonderful world! Good night!
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