#情感点评大赏 #
Koko & KOKO
Marriage has never been a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.
The environment in which each of us lives from childhood basically determines our future three views, and also determines our way and attitude of dealing with people in the future.
Chinese marriages are exquisite, blessed by the elders of both sides, such a marriage is happy. After all, parents are deeply ingrained in our traditional conception, an inevitable and inextricable topic. Our marriage definitely wants to be approved by both parents, rather than just for our own happiness, which is too cruel for the parents who gave birth to us.
The two families of the three views will be happy after the children get married, and the two families will only be born to the sun in the future. And the two families with three wrong views, the last two people go against the grain.
When my daughter-in-law and I were getting married, my mother-in-law said to my daughter-in-law: "When you get married, don't think about divorce, the days are two people, and two people work together to live a good life." ”
Listening to my daughter-in-law relay the words of my mother-in-law, I was happy. Because the family I want to marry is at least three views positive, so that our future life will only be happier, rather than chickens flying and dogs jumping, smoke miasma.
After getting married, I went to my mother-in-law's house as if I were my own. I have to toss a little food and play at home, my mother will accompany me to toss, I am at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law will also accompany me to toss. I bought a soy milk machine that day, I wanted to make my own tofu on a whim, my mother-in-law knew and went to find me the salt brine of salt brine tofu, and then found me gauze, and then boiled soy milk for me, which made me feel like I was around my mother, and my mother also accompanied me tossing.
My daughter-in-law went to my house, and I said to my parents, "You don't have to buy so many dishes, you can't finish eating." My dad said, "You've been working outside all year, and she's coming to us, and it's just a few holidays, so I'm going to buy her something delicious." "Not much, and later I didn't talk about them, so they bought them."
When I was at home, the door to my room was useless, and they had to tell me to lock it. But I like to come home with me, they only enter our room except for something, and before entering, they also knock on the door in advance and wait for consent. They know how to respect us, and we respect them.
In the 2022 Lunar New Year, our two families celebrated the New Year together, went to my daughter-in-law's house for the New Year, and accompanied my daughter-in-law to give birth. My daughter-in-law bought all the change of clothes for my parents in advance, and my parents only needed to wear a set of clothes. My dad tried on the clothes my daughter-in-law bought and said, "This daughter-in-law is so nice, the clothes she bought really fit, just right." This is not the first time he has said this, my mother said to us: "Every time my daughter-in-law buys us clothes, every time she says this, your father is happy." ”
My daughter-in-law's father likes to listen to plays, and what he wants most is a big-screen jukebox, and the first one he bought was accidentally broken by him. I wanted to buy him another one, but my daughter-in-law didn't let me buy it, and I said, "The elderly are on this hobby, spending money to buy the elderly to be happy for a long time, I think this investment is very cost-effective." ”
My mother-in-law was annoyed with the guests at home because she didn't know much about cooking, which was too much trouble. In her words: "It would be nice if I could cook it." So, after having me, the guests came to the house, and she said to me: "You cook dinner, you cook delicious." "I readily agreed, she washed and cut my dishes, and I could do the rest."
My parents used to say to me and my daughter-in-law, "As long as the two of you are happy, don't worry about us." "My daughter-in-law was pregnant, and I didn't go back to spend three months with my parents, and I said, 'I'll go back to see you before I take vacation.'" My mom said, "What are you doing when you come back?" Can I help you? If it's okay, don't come back, just take care of my daughter-in-law. ”
Living in two families like this, I feel very happy, I think we are all happy.
Two families with the same view will make both families happy.
My mom used to say, "You're such a good mother-in-law." ”
My mother-in-law used to say, "You mother-in-law is so nice." ”
Two people who are not highly educated are saying the most practical things.
Well, tonight's Koko's story ends here, your story, I'll write it, I'm Koko. Good night, good dreams! Welcome to pay attention to the WeChat public account: the story of Ke Ke
