This Beijing Winter Olympics, the most brilliant, of course, is Gu Ailing's little sister.
Olympic champion, Mixed Chinese and American, explosive appearance, slender figure, sunny confidence, bright smile, academic intelligence, wide range of interests, sincere patriotism, three views are very positive, contemporary proud women, heavenly ziwei.
Of course, behind all this, there is a great hero, that is, her mother: Gu Yan.
In addition to inheriting good genes for her daughter, Gu's mother's personality, vision, pattern, and mind have an indispensable impact on her daughter's growth and success.
Gu Ailing came from a single-parent family, but her personality was cheerful, lively and smiling, and she did not have the appearance of a single-parent family child that we were accustomed to.
The reason is still the credit of Gu's mother.
Strong women from good families, highly educated, and in venture capital business are different:
Happy to take revenge, inappropriate marriage, when broken;
Raising her daughter alone, there is no bitter vendetta, from a young age to give enough children love to nourish, of course, grandpa and grandmother also have credit;
The daughter's interests and hobbies are all supported, and she uses her ingenuity to work hard to earn money and escort the growth environment of her daughter Youwo.
Then, it created the life of the daughter.
In other ordinary people's homes, there is no such pattern and open-minded woman as Mother Gu, divorced, dragging a baby, afraid that she will be like Xianglin's sister-in-law, mourning and complaining every day, miserable and miserable, living like a year, and then raising the child.
This reminds me of another single mother: Wu Qili.
In a trance, more than twenty years had passed since the last time she had publicly announced her unmarried pregnancy.
I wanted to borrow the belly to take the position, in the way of holding a press conference to announce, public execution, even if the scumbag did not recognize, a sentence "the world's men will make mistakes" will be left clean, more than twenty years do not pay attention to it, when the mother and daughter are transparent.
Women, just because of their own obsession, let their own beautiful life become dirty, career setbacks, upside down.
On the issue of the daughter's education, the situation is also full of situations,
Perhaps it is the suppression of life and the anger towards the scumbag that has shifted to the child, using the child as a punching bag and scolding when moving, making the already innocent child even worse.
Eventually, the daughter rebelled, called the police to arrest the mother, and went into exile with the girlfriend who came out of the closet.
Today, she is alone, and her daughter who depends on her for her life is like a stranger. The man was unharmed, and his fame and fortune were still doubled.
Such a life, I don't know if Wu Qili has regrets.
If only she could be like Mother Gu, simply and neatly, stop losses in time, adjust her mentality, and not pass on her resentment towards men to her children, but calmly live well with her daughter and raise her children well.
Even if there is no achievement like Gu Ailing today, as long as the mind is normal and the knowledge is good, it is still a success, and it is also possible to punch the scumbag father who raised a drug-addicted son in the face.
If you are lucky enough to cultivate a child like Gu Ailing, do you see if the father will hunch his head and come to the door to recognize his relatives.
Unfortunately, there is no way back in life, it can only be like this.
But we, the bystanders, must learn to learn from others to learn from experience and lessons.
Especially women, we must remember that men are not all, meet good, of course, good, but if not, do not feel sorry for themselves, bitterly forced.
Don't let yourself and your children's lives pay for irresponsible or unworthy men.
Gu's mother told us from her personal experience: how cool it is for a woman to live a life that does not have to be attached to a man.
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