Schools should be places to learn knowledge, but recently several American parents have found that their children who are still in primary and secondary schools have been "brainwashed" in school and asked to change their genders and live again, thus causing a series of major chaos between families.
The Perez family lives in Florida and their 12-year-old daughter is studying at boarding school.
When she returned home every week, her daughter looked just like usual, but not long ago her father suddenly received a call from the hospital: her daughter had tried to hang herself twice on the school toilet and had been taken to the hospital for rescue.
Mr. and Mrs. Perez
The Peres were anxious and puzzled, their daughter had always been very cheerful, how could they suddenly seek death?
During negotiations with the school, the Peres learned of the infuriating fact that their daughter's teacher was forcibly allowing her to live at the school as a male.
According to the indictment, the Perez's daughter had some doubts about her identity while at school and went to the school counselor, Tinnie Washington, for counseling.
12-year-olds are still in the stage of vague exploration of gender and sexual identity, and it is normal to have such questions.
It stands to reason that schools should give their children advice and support, tell them not to be ashamed of being different or unsociable, and communicate with their children's parents. They should also tell their children that transsexuality is not an easy task, and they need to think carefully and make choices after they really have judgment and tolerance.
But the school's operation was simple and rough, and the consultant met secretly with several school leaders every week with the girl and directly began to formulate a new life for her after the transgender school.
Instead of informing the parents who are most entitled to know the child's psychological condition, they directly shake out the little girl's gender identity problems in school.
School leaders asked staff and other students to call the Perez's daughter a "boy," encouraged her, whose characteristics were still clearly girl, to go to the men's restroom, even named her a boy, and asked everyone at the school to call him by a male name.
Lawyer for the Peres couple
According to the descriptions of the family and people around the girl, before the secret meeting with the school, the girl did not show any signs of gender anxiety and crisis, nor did she have depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
The school may have made it obvious to the girl who was not yet able to judge at the meeting, so that she constantly doubted her true gender and faced the whole school with a new identity when she was far from ready.
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This is not what the little girl wants, she just has a little doubt about gender, hoping to be comforted, but the school forced the unprepared girl to choose between the two genders.
The school ignores her parents, is in a hurry, and thinks it is doing a great thing, but pushes the little girl into a situation that is difficult to control.
Sure enough, after being declared "transgender" by the school, the daughter of the Perez couple was seriously bullied in school, and the school did not have a good way to deal with bullying. Because it was a boarding school, the daughter had nowhere to hide from the scolding and ridicule of her classmates, and finally attempted suicide for two consecutive days on January 4 and 5.
Father Perez was furious because the school didn't tell them anything. They have no idea that their children have experienced difficult cognitive impairments, and they do not know that the school is treating their daughters in a simple and rude way.
Although the school argued that they did not inform the parents because they felt that the Peres were Catholics and might not understand their daughter, lest they get angry and hurt the children.
But the truth is that they have developed inappropriate transgender programs for their children without experts, allowing vulnerable children to involuntary exposure to gender perception issues in school.
The Perezs' lawyer argued that "gender perception is a serious mental health decision, and school staff are not qualified or empowered to make such decisions on behalf of parents and children, and at this stage this decision must involve parents." ”
Mr. Perez believes that some teachers think they are more knowledgeable than their parents, thinking they are enlightened and understand the LGBT community. It is certainly good to want to let the child do his own starting point.
But it turns out that inappropriate and professional counseling methods can easily hurt children in sensitive times.
In fact, gender perception is a very complicated thing
Netizens also discussed this, thinking that the original intention of the school may be good, but the practice is really not exquisite:
"If they're trying to protect a girl's privacy, why promote the child's new identity to other teachers and students so that her peers call her a man?" That's not right.
It is dangerous for them to intervene in this kind of thing without experience and knowledge. If a girl has identity problems, the school should inform the parents and find a qualified therapist to tutor outside the school. ”
"When children are still confused at this stage, they need school counselors to listen and explain them, tell them to be right, and tell them that they don't have to choose a certain gender right away before they are ready." Schools should not prematurely plan for gender for students. ”
Now the Perez couple's daughter has recovered her spirits with the right treatment, and there are similar cases in the chaotic United States that have not been resolved.
The 11-year-old daughter of California mother Corning was unknowingly "brainwashed" by two self-proclaimed advanced and enlightened teachers at the school. Two teachers, Caldeira and Baraky, are the heads of the school's "You Are You" Equality Club.
Corning and her lawyer
The club's intention is to support LGBT children and make their lives at school more comfortable. But the way the two teachers recruit students is somewhat extreme.
In the recording provided by the California Teachers Association, two teachers said they would use distance learning opportunities to track students' internet access, monitor their Google searches, Facebook forwards, emails, etc., target some elementary school students who may have "potential" (possibly LGBT), and absorb them into their own clubs to keep the club prosperous.
The school has no knowledge of the status and content of the club's activities.
In fact, Corning's daughter originally had some doubts about her sexual orientation, and after being pulled into the club by two teachers, under the enlightenment of the two teachers, she identified herself as bisexual and came out to her mother. Although the mother was surprised, she also accepted all this very well.
But what the mother, Corning, did not expect was that the two teachers further guided the daughter's gender in the direction of men without the parents' knowledge.
In the constant conversation, they tell the girl to "be myself", but in fact, they constantly give the girl the psychological hint that "she has gender cognitive impairment", and eventually make the child suspect that "she is actually a transgender man".
The girl was shocked to come to this conclusion, because she herself had never thought of it that way, but the two teachers seemed to be very experienced, so they were powerless to refute it. She told the teacher that she wanted to discuss it with her mother.
Caldeira
But the two teachers secretly called the girl's mother to a parent-teacher conference without asking for the girl's consent. In the conference room, they pulled the girl straight aside and told their mother, Corning, "Your daughter is a boy." ”
Corning was directly stunned, she was completely unprepared, and her daughter could not accept such a forced "coming out" and cried out on the spot.
According to her daughter's account, after brainwashing her into being a transgender male, the two teachers asked her to take classes in the boy's name, change into men's clothes at school, and even taught her how to corset herself to prevent the development of female secondary sexual characteristics. This is already promoting behaviours that are clearly harmful to the health of adolescents.
The daughter lived on campus for a while as the boy the teacher hoped, but she had a very unpleasant life and was very stressful.
The mother became more and more suspicious, and after investigating, she learned that it was two teachers who had planned everything, so she took them to court.
It is worth mentioning that during the epidemic, schools were closed, and the homeschooling daughter immediately chose to be a girl. It could also show how much the two teachers have induced traces of her gender selection.
Whatever the purpose, they didn't respect the child's true will, just talking to themselves stuffed her into transgender identity. Such a disturbance is not conducive to the natural development of children, but also throws dirty water on the real LGBT community.
This fall, american journalist Schreier, in his book "Irreversible Harm," slammed the increasingly radical transgender induction of children in the United States.
He found that the number of children describing themselves as transgender people has surged in recent years, and girls in particular are more susceptible to such inducements.
In the book, he wrote that many schools and online organizations guide children to make choices prematurely, and some doctors are increasingly prescribing hormone drugs to children, pushing them semi-compulsively into the anxiety of gender cognition.
Gender is a serious personal attribute, not a fashion trend that can be treated frivolously, and no organization should arbitrarily decide the future of its children...
Source: British Newspaper Sister