Zhou Bingyi was able to marry Hao Dongmei, and in the eyes of the Hao family, it was Zhou Bingyi who climbed high.
Zhou Bingyi was born in the "light character film", where it represents poverty and backwardness, there is a saying in the local area that "good women do not marry the light word piece", but did not expect that the daughter of Governor Hao accidentally became the daughter-in-law of the "light character piece".
Hao Dongmei's marriage, the parents did not have time to intervene, because when Hao Dongmei married Zhou Bingyi, the Hao family had not yet been "rehabilitated".
After the old couple was released from prison, they restored their identities, and it was a pity that their daughter made up her own mind and casually married someone.
Governor Hao had an "official shelf," and Zhou Bingyi had to deal with it carefully.
The Zhou family only has two rooms, and it is necessary to live in a large family, and Zhou Bingyi has no choice but to live in the small Western-style building of his father-in-law's family, and the taste of sending people under the fence is very uncomfortable.
Everyone else envied Zhou Bingkun, and his brother became the son-in-law of the governor, thinking that Zhou Bingkun could get a lot of light, but he didn't expect that Zhou Bingkun hadn't even boarded the door of the Hao family.
Zhou Bingyi had instructed his younger brother Zhou Bingkun not to cause trouble for Governor Hao's family, Zhou Bingkun was very knowledgeable, and he would rather ask outsiders than climb this powerful relative.
The Zhou family and the Hao family formed a family, but the parents of both sides had never even met each other, and the Hao family's lofty posture made Zhou Bingyi and his father feel very uncomfortable.
Hao Dongmei tried to be a good daughter-in-law, she seriously reconciled the relationship between the in-laws and the mother-in-law's family, but the result became worse and worse, not only embarrassing in the in-laws' family, but also chilling the heart of her mother Jin Yueji in the mother's family.
The kind Hao Dongmei, deeply in love with Zhou Bingyi, when the Hao family was in distress, it was Zhou Bingyi who did not abandon her, accompanied and supported her to go on; now that the Hao family has developed, they ignore the Zhou family, and Hao Dongmei feels that her parents' approach is too unkind.
In a marriage with the wrong door, it is easy to talk about how to get along as equals, Zhou Bingyi said it very correctly: arrogance is not their fault, it is the inevitable result of the status and gap between the two sides.
Zhou Bingyi once asked Hao Dongmei to ask Governor Hao once for the sake of Cai Xiaoguang's college studies, and Cai Xiaoguang was a good friend of Zhou Bingyi's sister Zhou Rong and helped the Zhou family a lot.
Governor Hao didn't say a word and helped get things done.
Zhou Bingyi and Cai Xiaoguang felt that no matter how difficult it was, Governor Hao solved it with a phone call, but Governor Hao still blamed his son-in-law Zhou Bingyi because of this matter.
Governor Hao did not have a good look for Zhou Bingyi, and Jin Yueji also believed that Zhou Bingyi's casual use of the power of the governor for a relationship of eight poles was a bend of the law for personal gain, taking the back door, and unhealthy trends.
Zhou Bingyi waited carefully for a long time in front of his parents-in-law, and the old couple finally had a smile on him again.
But is Governor Hao really that incorruptible?
The storage room was filled with all kinds of gifts, all kinds of exquisite pastries and drinks; one of his officials, when his private life was in trouble, Governor Hao knocked a few words and suppressed the matter.
Zhou Bingyi, who was serving tea and pouring water, overheard the conversation between Governor Hao and the official, but Governor Hao asked him to rot what he heard in his stomach, and said that he should give capable people the opportunity to reform themselves, and could not be beaten to death because of a little mistake.
Governor Hao's generosity toward officials and his meanness toward the Zhou family formed a sharp contrast, but Zhou Bingyi did not feel that his father-in-law had done something wrong, but humbly asked for advice and observed and studied.
Zhou Bingyi is a person who wants to take the road of cadres, of course, he must adapt to the "code of conduct" in the official field in advance, and after living in his parents-in-law's home for a long time, Zhou Bingyi has also changed.
Zhou Bingyi became sleek and had eyes, which is also a big reason why Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Bingyi clashed twice.
Zhou Bingkun is an ordinary worker, has not studied in college, Zhou Rong said that he is "simple-minded"; Zhou Bingkun is a sincere person, there are not so many twists and turns in his stomach, he is not accustomed to Zhou Bingyi's "hypocrisy".
Zhou Bingyi went all the way from party secretary of the military factory to secretary of the municipal party committee, and later transferred to the Central Discipline Inspection Commission, relying not only on personal ability, but also on the suggestions of his mother-in-law Jin Yueji.
But Jin Yueji is willing to take Zhou Bingyi as a son, but she has not seen her relatives until her death, and it is mentioned in the original book of "The World of Man" that Jin Yueji used the excuse that "light character pieces" were not good to enter the car, and her body was sick, so she shirked the meeting with Zhou Bingyi's parents.
Zhou Bingyi was able to capture the heart of her mother-in-law, and it was not an overnight thing, Jin Yueji heard that her daughter was married to a man with a "light character piece", so angry that she wanted her daughter to divorce.
Hao Dongmei was unable to have children due to physical problems, and even so, Jin Yueji still wanted her daughter to divorce and remarry, which shows how dissatisfied Jin Yueji was with Zhou Bingyi's family.
After seeing Zhou Bingyi himself, Jin Yueji lost her temper, saw Zhou Bingyi a table of talents, good character, Jin Yueji said "I didn't expect that the light character film can have such a talent."
Zhou Bingyi is humble and courteous, very pleasing to Jin Yueji, because he is close to his mother-in-law, his father Zhou Zhigang also has quite an opinion, saying that Zhou Bingyi cannot distinguish the difference between "mother" and "mother-in-law".
Zhou Zhigang had an opinion on the Hao family, feeling that his relatives looked down on the common people, and Zhou Zhigang never took the initiative to ask to meet with his relatives, let alone ask the Hao family to do things.
Zhou Bingkun had never been to the Hao family, the Zhou family had a large family, Jin Yueji had only seen Zhou Rong and her daughter Yue Yue, or Jin Yueji took the initiative to ask Yue Yue to live at home.
Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi have been childless and childless all their lives, Jin Yueji hates to be lively, and at first she does not think that it is a pity that the two children do not have children, but the older she gets, the more Jin Yueji longs for the fireworks in the world.
Jin Yueji's life went up and down, and in her later years, she began to reflect on her past, realized her problems, and a last wish before her death exposed her true attitude towards the Zhou family.
So, Dongmei's mother talked about Bingkun. She said that it was a contradiction among the people, not a contradiction between the enemy and ourselves. The complainant has died and the family is no longer prosecuted. Zhou Bingkun performed well during his sentence, otherwise his sentence would not have been reduced twice. Now, can you release him a little earlier? An early year is a year! Ordinary people's men serving more than ten years in prison are equivalent to the sky falling. ”
Zhou Bingkun was sentenced to 15 years in prison for "intentionally hurting people", and Jin Yueji was very concerned about Zhou Bingkun's affairs.
At that time, Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan married, Zheng Juan was pregnant with a child married to Zhou Bingkun, that child was Luo Shibin raped Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun promised to treat this son as his own, the result is not easy to do.
Thinking that his son Zhou Nan was the "evil fruit" of Zheng Juan's humiliation, Zhou Bingkun especially hated Luo Shibin, and Zhou Bingkun was very afraid that Zhou Nan looked like Luo Shibin, "a sharp-billed monkey cheek, a monkey face".
Fortunately, Zhou Nan inherited the beauty of her mother Zheng Juan, looked just right, and Zhou Nan was also excellent and sensible, and Zhou Bingkun put her mind at ease.
The appearance of Luo Shibin broke the calm of Zhou Bingkun's family.
Luo Shibin was imprisoned for "speculation", was injured in it, and there was no possibility of childbearing, Luo Shibin came out and leaned on the thighs of rich and powerful people, caught up with the tide of going to the sea, and did a very successful career and had a lot of money.
"No queen" became Luo Shibin's regret, so he thought of the ugly things he had done to Zheng Juan that year, and ran back to rob his son with Zhou Bingkun.
Luo Shibin bribed Zhou Nan with money, and Zhou Nan did not resist the temptation, recognized the biological father, and promised Luo Shibin to accept his arrangement and study abroad.
Zhou Bingkun could not find his son, so he came to luo Shibin, in the process of the two disputes, both fell from the building, Luo Shibin became a vegetative person, Zhou Bingkun was not injured, but was sentenced to 15 years.
Zhou Nan knew the gap between his biological father and his adoptive father, and decided to recognize only Zhou Bingkun as a father in this life.
Knowing that Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned, Jin Yueji did not draw a clear line with the Zhou family, but moved around many times to let the prison side take care of Zhou Bingkun, so Zhou Bingkun did not suffer any crime in prison.
Zhou Bingkun did not know who the people who cared about him until he was released from prison.
Or Cai Xiaoguang listened to the nurses in the hospital talk about this matter and relayed it to Zhou Bingkun, who knew that Jin Yueji had always remembered him.
Before jin yueji died, she talked about the relationship with the Zhou family, she said that if it were not for the "Cultural Revolution", the two families would not have married at all, but since Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi were married and had deep feelings, there was no reason to break them up.
Jin Yueji confessed to the provincial and municipal leaders her dislike and resistance to this poor family, and in the last moments of her life, she wanted to make up for her apologies and guilt for the Zhou family.
"Afraid that her relatives often ask for her because of such and such troubles, she has never boarded the door of her relatives, and she has never seen them before her mother and father. As for the son-in-law's brother, she had never seen it either. Now that she was dying, she suddenly wanted to do her best to prove that she was still human. ”
"If the cadre's family and the cadre's family have become relatives, where is there any power that is not used interchangeably?" Isn't it true that your family's affairs are my family's affairs, and my family's affairs are your family's affairs, and it is safe to use each other's hearts? She said, don't think she doesn't know the current official atmosphere, she knows it very well. Because she knows it, she doesn't think there's anything excessive about herself making a little personal demand of the organization..."
At that time, Jin Yueji's body was already very weak, because she talked too much, she couldn't catch her breath, and tears fell from the corners of her eyes.
Not long after confessing his last wish, Jin Yueji died, and Neither Hao Dongmei nor Zhou Bingyi told Zhou Bingkun about Jin Yueji secretly helping him reduce his sentence.
Hao Dongmei is very good at taking care of people's emotions, always thinking about others, when seeing Zhou Bingkun, Hao Dongmei deliberately took off the black veil on his arm, and Zhou Bingkun even learned about jin Yueji's death later.
Cai Xiaoguang told Zhou Bingkun that Jin Yueji helped him say a lot of good things, and his prison life for more than ten years was not so difficult, and he stayed for one year less.
Zhou Bingkun felt that in order to let him come out a year earlier, the old man did not need to do this, it was better that when his parents were alive, she could take the initiative to meet him, which was more grateful to him than to help him reduce his sentence.
His son, Zhou Cong, said, "Dad, your words are even more wrong, it is not fair." As far as I know, Grandpa has never taken the initiative in his family relationship. ”
Zhou Cong's words are very objective, the Zhou family and the Hao family do not move around, it is not a family problem, but the parents on both sides, can not put down their own shelves, which has caused a situation of "old and dead do not interact with each other".
Cai Xiaoguang said to Zhou Bingkun: "She can be so significant for you, proving that before she died, she still admitted that your Zhou family was her relative." ”
Zhou Bingkun also finally put down the mustard and specially went to Jin Yueji's grave to pay tribute.
Jin Yueji's "recognition of relatives" before her death also made Zhou Bingkun reflect on herself.
Hao Dongmei is good to Zhou Bingkun, Zhou Bingkun takes this for granted, in fact, not all sisters-in-law can insist on visiting the little uncle who is in prison for more than ten years.
There was also Zhou Bingkun's brother-in-law, the Zheng Guangming who had become a monk in the temple, and Zhou Bingkun had even forgotten that there was such a relative.
Zhou Bingkun was touched by Jin Yueji and specially went to see Zheng Guangming, and this kind of true love and kindness between relatives is worth passing on.
Jin Yueji did look down on Zhou's family before, afraid that such a poor relative as the Zhou family would drag her hind legs, feeling that the two classes were different and it was too troublesome to get along with; but before she died, she understood that the most important thing in being a person is not money and power, but that "human touch".