Text | Little Tree Mom
Source | Little Tree Mom
Since the women's Asian Cup won on the evening of the 6th, countless mothers in my circle of friends have been sending news about women's football.
I have to say, Chinese girls are so cool.
They deserve the loudest applause from every Chinese, not only because of victory, but also because of the tenacity and fighting spirit of not accepting defeat.
1/4 final reversal of Vietnam women's football team;
Eliminated defending champion Japan in the semi-finals;
Finals kill South Korea!
Chinese football, for a long time, has not had such a wonderful game and such a morale-boosting victory.
After the end of the competition, the entry #Always believe in Chinese girls was directly brushed on the hot search.
Some netizens joked: Chinese women will never let you down. Chinese women's volleyball team, Chinese women's football, Chinese mother, Chinese wife, you taste it yourself.
When the Chinese men's football team lost to Vietnam a few days ago, it was directly supported by fans to let the Chinese Haidian mothers out:
In fact, whether it is the Chinese women's volleyball team, the Chinese women's football team or the Chinese mother, there is really something in common - they will never admit defeat and never give up.
Resources, technology, tactics, physical strength, etc., we may have times when our skills are inferior, but once Chinese women are serious, the fierceness of the fight is by no means ambiguous.
This is particularly evident in the belt of the baby. If you understand the Chinese women's football team, you can understand why Chinese mothers have such a big say in their children's education. Why do most families have their mothers as the main backbone.
Kill decisively
Don't fight until the last moment and don't give up
The match between the Chinese women's football team and South Korea is particularly exciting.
We were 0:2 behind in the first half, and the start of the second half was mediocre, and many people felt that the women's football girls had lost.
I saw a girl on Weibo who gave encouragement to the Chinese women's football team and said: If it is a men's football team, I feel that there is no drama, but this is the Chinese women's football team, against the wind, can equalize, can win, and score three goals in the second half.
Below this Weibo, a group of men sneered and left a message saying that she should stop dreaming.
But the truth is, the women's soccer girls all fight until the last moment.
In the second half, he scored two consecutive goals to equalize, and in the last minute, he won the Asian Cup 3:2.
People's blood is boiling, and many people are directly in tears.
What the Chinese women's football team does is to make the impossible possible, and many mothers in this life are also doing it, and they are doing it equally decisively, equally resolutely, and equally amazingly.
The writer Changfeng Ohno wrote the story of his wife taking her son to attack Tsinghua Peking University, and the child's mother simply exerted the spirit of women's football not giving up to the fullest.
The writer's son, referred to as Xiao A, is a puwa with a mediocre IQ, who has no interest in learning, and has 58 classmates in the junior high school class, and he ranks 40th.
Laipi, greedy, bad grades, but the child's mother is not willing to give up, the child to high school, she set the goal at Tsinghua Peking University.
Everyone thinks it is impossible, but the mother of the child often hangs a sentence on her lips:
If the goal is set, there is nothing that cannot be achieved, and the key lies in implementation.
After making this determination, the mother paid more than 1,000 yuan a week to her son to ask a general teacher to make up lessons, but the effect of making up classes was not obvious, and the child's grades in Hunan University depended on luck.
My mother, who couldn't see any improvement, decided to teach herself.
Image source: The movie "The Whole City College Entrance Examination"
Graduated in liberal arts, 26 years after graduation, she will pick up the physical English again and be her son's exclusive tutor.
In order to grab time, she bought back all the mathematical, physical and chemical materials that could be bought in the country. Then do your own questions, summarize, compare, summarize.
She had to pick out the most representative question types and topics and let her son do it.
Where her son does not understand, she is responsible for explaining to her son, and then sorting out the wrong questions, printing them out, and letting her son redo them every few days or a week.
Every day at noon, in order to grab the time to tell the child 20 minutes of questions, the mother changed from the place of work to the subway and then walked, tossing and turning for more than 40 minutes to rush home.
Three years of high school, always.
The child's father said: One of them is like a military master who strategizes, and the other is like a warrior in a decisive battle.
The child's time has been optimized the greatest, the results have begun to improve by leaps and bounds, although the college entrance examination did not pass tsinghua, but was admitted to Wuhan University, the child's teachers feel that it is a miracle.
Many people say that the son's talent is average, why should the mother work so hard.
But people who are mothers will understand that if one thing is related to the future of their children, and they have the opportunity to hold up a hand, it is desperate to do it.
Even if the difficulty is an iron wall, it cannot stop the mother's attachment that is harder than steel.
Dare to fight and dare to fight
Adjust your countermeasures at any time according to the timing
When it comes to the Chinese women's football team, another point that must be mentioned is that they dare to work hard and dare to seize the opportunity.
The football passed, whether it hurt or not, also to pick up, when it was time to play the foot, according to the situation on the field to adapt.
The 3 goals in the final are all related to seizing the opportunity and fighting bravely.
Seizing the opportunity and being flexible should also be familiar to chinese mothers.
What mother has not adjusted the "baby policy" in time according to the status of the child?
For example, if the child is fascinated by Ultraman, the old mother will quickly take advantage of the child's enthusiasm and take Ultraman as an example to teach mathematics: 10 Ultramans are divided into 2 groups, which can be divided into 4 and 6...
Found that the baby suddenly began to say that the little friend who is sleeping on their own, will soon realize that it is a good time to sleep in separate rooms and beds.
The child learned to play a simple song, and the old mother quickly gave encouragement: You play really well, but you are too talented, is it okay to play another paragraph to your mother?
The child tries to practice pen writing, and the mother follows the child to choose a "pageant champion" for each line, or keeps counting "there are 3 more to write a full line, really fast" "You have written 4 words, really fast"...
Anyway, it is to try to let the children learn the knowledge painlessly, and try to make each subject clear.
You may see Chinese mothers in a mess, but you definitely can't see Chinese mothers retreating, as long as you can help your children grow or learn tricks, only you can't think of them, no they can't do it.
Let's say, who is more daring and flexible than Chinese mothers?
Excellent style
Peeling off the skin and meat is not left behind
Women's soccer girls once showed their abs in front of the camera when they were interviewed.
To develop such a figure, it is not an overnight thing.
The women's football team owner Wang Shuang revealed to the media that the girls' training volume is more than 10,000 meters a day.
With such a training volume, so in several competitions, even if the Chinese team is obviously behind, the girls have been actively running and waiting for opportunities.
The players will secretly compete with their opponents in their hearts: even if they run, they will run down!
I have to say that this attitude and spirit deserve 1000 likes.
Chinese mothers are even more unyielding in the "excellent style" area.
Some time ago, I saw a short video, and the teacher asked the children, what does your father like to do at home?
The vast majority of children's answers are: My dad likes to play with his phone, my dad likes to, my dad likes to go to the toilet.
What the children say is not necessarily the true state of all dads at home, but I have to admit that many dads are not so diligent at home.
On the other hand, mothers are different, most mothers are the best inside and out.
A mother tweeted that she was going to give birth, and the mother in the bed next door had just given birth.
But this pregnant woman is a second child, and while feeding her second treasure, she sends a voice to Dabao, reminds Dabao to pay attention to the time of online classes, and assigns homework to Dabao.
Educating a child well is never overnight, but bit by bit.
It can be said that every sensible and excellent baby has a mother who worries about day and night behind her.
Finally, you can not only believe in Chinese girls forever, but also believe in Chinese women forever, and always believe in Chinese mothers.