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"Do you dare to say that you and my husband have nothing to do with each other?" Luo Xiulian pushed and shoved Zheng Yingmei and threw a slap in her face with all her strength.
Zheng Yingmei has ever suffered such a loss! She couldn't care about the pain on her face and rushed forward to wrestle with Luo Xiulian, and the others saw the situation and hurriedly pulled the two away, and then Zheng Yingmei rushed out of the door with a sigh of relief...
In fact, Luo Xiulian is a Huaihua person, Zheng Yingmei is a Yongzhou person, more than 300 kilometers apart, they may not have had any intersection in this life, and the reason why the two people will make a big move is entirely because of a migrant worker who is more than half a hundred years old and even has some disabilities, he is Ou Guangyu.
Ou Guangyu
1. Ou Guangyu and Luo Xiulian
Honesty and hard work, this is the feeling that Luo Xiulian and her husband Ou Guangyu have lived for more than 30 years, in fact, before 2012, the life of these two people was quite happy.
According to Luo Xiulian, although Ou Guangyu looked five big and three thick, his heart was actually very delicate. Once whenever only the husband and wife were left at home, Ou Guangyu would suddenly hug her from behind, but she would feel a little embarrassed, blaming Ou Guangyu for being more than half a hundred years old and not yet in shape, but the sweetness of this was only known to herself.
In fact, for a woman, it is definitely a very lucky thing to have a husband who is hard-working and takes care of the family, on this basis, if this man can still have a little bit of romance, then this luck will be directly upgraded to the greatest happiness, and Luo Xiulian at that time was such a feeling!
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Therefore, Luo Xiulian is very satisfied with her marriage and the life in front of her, and she also deeply loves Ou Guangyu. The man has affection, the woman is intentional, the two people get along very well, and after marriage, 3 children were born, and the life of a family of 5 is not rich, but it is also very comfortable.
What is even more precious is that after having a child, Ou Guangyu still has no slackness towards Luo Xiulian! While loving her three children, she can still do her best to fulfill Luo Xiulian's wishes and create surprises for them. In this regard, Luo Xiulian even feels some self-blame, because she feels that her husband is too hard.
Especially the golden pendant on her ear, which her husband had bought for her by saving money for the dirtiest and most tiring work on the construction site! The disability on Ou Guangyu's leg was also the sequelae left by the accidental fall at that time, and thinking that Luo Xiulian could no longer control her sad emotions, she cried out with a wow.
Annette Luo
After that, she had already made up her mind that whether the man was healthy or sick in the future, she would definitely repay his feelings with unswerving perseverance.
The reason why Luo Anlian made this decision is not only because Ou Guangyu was injured in order to buy her earrings, nor just because Ou Guangyu spoiled her, loved her, and cared for her in her daily life, but because in Luo Xiulian's heart, this was the responsibility and obligation of the two people who were married.
She herself was willing to do this, and she believed that Ou Guangyu would do so.
In this situation, Luo Xiulian not only took good care of Ou Guangyu, but also took the initiative to shoulder the burden of life, although such a choice made her much harder than before, but at the same time made her feel more fulfilled.
In Luo Xiulian's heart, as long as the family wants to go to one place and make it to one place, it will definitely be able to get through the difficulties. Her 3 children are also very sensible, and after they have the ability to work, they all begin to feed the family, and their lives are getting more and more hopeful.
In the process, Ou Guangyu's body also recovered day by day, although he could not run between various construction sites to earn a high salary, but he still insisted on doing some work within his ability, such as showing people a venue, seeing a car or something.
Fast forward to 2012, when several people in the same village planned to go to Yongzhou, more than 300 kilometers away, because people who had been there said that the salary there would be slightly higher.
"The salary will be slightly higher", which made him feel a little moved after it reached Ou Guangyu's ears. According to Luo Xiulian, Ou Guangyu discussed going out to work with her the night he heard the news.
In fact, since Ou Guangyu had an accident, his heart began to suffer great frustration. Especially when he encounters an ignorant child on the road imitating his limping appearance, he will feel resentful, and gradually this emotion makes his personality more and more sharp, and he also becomes more and more inferior.
Affected by this mentality, he and Luo Xiulian began to have frequent disputes, some trivial things may become "the fuse that triggers the war", Ou Guangyu always felt that he could not make money and became unwelcome, for this Luo Xiulian's heart is a hundred wrongs!
So he wants to go out to work not only to make more money, but also to change the environment and stay idle.
Luo Xiulian, who said something about Ou Guangyu, felt angina, and the emotions of heartache and self-blame suddenly surged up. In fact, even if Ou Guangyu did not say these things, she had already felt them, so she expressed her full support for Ou Guangyu's ideas, and also comforted him not to have a psychological burden, no matter how much money he made, he should go out to relax.
But what she didn't expect was that Ou Guangyu never returned home. And a year later, Luo Xiulian actually heard from the people in the same village that Ou Guangyu had a rich woman in Yongzhou, and she began to realize that something was wrong.
In fact, in Luo Xiulian's heart, she was skeptical about Ou Guang's raising of a rich woman.
Because from a subjective point of view, her husband in her mind would never do such a thing, the two have been together for 30 years, such a relationship can not be a little temptation can not withstand.
And if you start from an objective point of view, it is even more impossible, Ou Guangyu is already a little old man who is more than half a hundred years old, not only his appearance is not good, but also some disabilities, such conditions are really difficult to connect with rich women.
So what happened to Ou Guangyu after he moved from Huaihua to Yongzhou? Zheng Yingmei recounted her own experience.
2. Ou Guangyu and Zheng Yingmei
Zheng Yingmei has always been engaged in the cause of early childhood education, and is also a well-known strong woman in the local area, after her divorce, she can open two kindergartens with her children alone, and her own conditions are still relatively superior.
In Zheng Yingmei's recollection, Ou Guangyu came to work in her kindergarten around July and August 2012, and could only do logistical work due to limited work ability.
In her impression, Ou Guangyu is still very diligent in his work although his legs and feet are inconvenient, and he can take care of the sanitation and chores in the park in an orderly manner. However, because Zheng Yingmei was busy on weekdays, all her knowledge of Ou Guangyu at that time was limited to this, and the two were also a simple employment relationship.
As for how Ou Guangyu later entered her heart, it was mainly related to Zheng Yingmei's son Xiao Cong.
It turned out that Xiao Cong was a child with autism, and Zheng Yingmei's ex-husband also abandoned their mother and son, and she had been divorced for more than 10 years by the time Ou Guangyu appeared.
After the divorce, she was already exhausted from her career while carrying her children, so she also tried to contact some admirers in the hope of sharing some of the pressure for herself. But some of these people are for her wealth, and some people can't accept Xiao Cong, so in the end they can't come together.
Because for Zheng Yingmei, the people who rush to her wealth must be people with bad intentions, and the industry she is engaged in is related to the childhood of children, so she does not dare to have any carelessness in this regard, and must stop the loss in time.
And Xiao Cong is the whole sustenance of her life, it can be said that all these years of hard work in her career is also to provide a better environment for Xiao Cong, so she will not consider anyone who cannot accept Xiao Cong.
Zheng Yingmei
After a long time, Zheng Yingmei also got used to it, and slowly became less interested in the so-called admirers, she herself lived in the kindergarten with Xiao Cong, taking into account the children and career, and always directly refused to the overtures of others.
But after a few months of contact with Ou Guangyu, she found that the man was a little different.
Ou Guangyu has never disliked Xiao Cong, and even became a very good "friend" with Xiao Cong. Xiao Cong, who was originally unwilling to communicate with anyone, was able to smile in front of Ou Guangyu, which made Zheng Yingmei feel very surprised, and she unconsciously paid attention to this man.
In this case, the staff of the kindergarten even talked to Zheng Yingmei about the media for Ou Guangyu, which made Zheng Yingmei feel a little overwhelmed at once. Compared with the usual direct refusal, Zheng Yingmei actually hesitated.
The matchmaker advised her this way:
"Principal Zheng, I see that this Ou Guangyu is still quite good, doing things seriously is still ma li, on weekdays I see that he is also very good to Xiao Cong, I feel that you should have contact with him, at our age, don't you just want to live a simple life!"
This remark was speaking to Zheng Yingmei's heart, and she also agreed with the matchmaker's point of view and agreed to spend some time with Ou Guangyu for a while.
Later, Zheng Yingmei specifically asked Ou Guangyu whether he was good to Xiao Cong in order to get close to her, Ou Guangyu said that there was no such thing, but the people who helped her matchmaking him got along well with him on weekdays, and inadvertently learned that he had "divorced", so he enthusiastically said that he wanted to help him say a daughter-in-law, at first he did not expect that this media would talk about his boss!
As for being good to Xiao Cong, he simply felt that the child was pitiful, and he didn't have a playmate on weekdays, so he went to play with Xiao Cong for a while in his spare time.
Zheng Yingmei, who also experienced divorce, first thought of what was the situation of his children after Ou Guangyu's divorce, not because she was afraid of any burden, but because she was a teacher, she was worried about whether Ou Guangyu's children were also looking forward to their father to come home and reunite.
But when he said this, Ou Guangyu was very determined, he said that his children have grown up and no longer need her care, and the reason why he divorced his wife is because his wife's temper is too bad, he can't get along with her at all, and he also directly said to Zheng Yingmei that even if he is not with her, he will not step into the previous home for half a step!
Speaking of this, Zheng Yingmei is not convenient to persuade more, after all, after a period of time together, she and her son Xiao Cong have become dependent on Ou Guangyu.
And because Zheng Yingmei's influence in the local area is still relatively wide, she finally found a boyfriend This matter has spread quickly, becoming a topic of discussion for many people after tea and dinner, of course, this is also a mixed praise.
However, at that time, she did not expect that the "divorce" in the mouth of this seemingly cute man was actually a big lie he had told. She wouldn't have thought that another woman, more than 300 kilometers away, was fidgeting because her husband hadn't been home for more than a year!
So how will this deformed relationship involving three parties end in the end? What kind of conflict will erupt between them?
Zheng Yingmei, Luo Xiulian, the entourage and the police
Third, the choice of Ou Guangyu
In the summer of 2013, Luo Xiulian heard from the villagers that ou guang had a rich wife, so she took her daughter Ou Lian to Yongzhou to find out.
On the way to death, she shed tears many times because she could not hide her inner uneasiness, and Ou Lian was also full of sadness and could not accept such a fact.
After the mother and daughter arrived in Yongzhou, they did not immediately go to the kindergarten to find Ou Guangyu, but found Ou Guangyu's residence according to the address provided by the villagers in the same village, planning to find out first. First, because they were still lucky and afraid of hearing rumors and framed Ou Guangyu, second, if this really happened, they could also grasp some evidence first.
Nearby residents
But this investigation really frightened them, and also frightened Ou Guangyu's neighbors!
In fact, after Ou Guangyu arrived in Yongzhou, he has been claiming that his wife is dead with his neighbors, and after getting acquainted, he has expressed that he hopes that they can introduce another wife to himself.
Therefore, when Luo Xiulian introduced herself as Ou Guangyu's wife, the neighbors felt very confused, and even a little scary. Also horrified was Annette Luo, who never thought that her husband would wish she was dead!
Then Annette Luo took out her marriage certificate with Ou Guangyu, and the neighbors learned the truth of the matter. They told Annette Luo that Ou Guangyu no longer lived there, but had moved to the kindergarten to live with the director Zheng Yingmei!
When things developed to this point, Luo Xiulian no longer planned to be passive, and she and her daughter went to the kindergarten where Ou Guangyu worked that night to "arrest people", planning to question her face to face.
Because Ou Guangyu had not been informed in advance, she did not know about the arrival of Luo Xiulian's mother and daughter, so that when the two of them slammed the door at the kindergarten door, they startled her and directly ran over the wall.
Daughter Ou Lian chased after her and shouted: "Daddy, don't run, come home with me and my mother, let's just explain things!" ”
But Ou Guangyu did not have the slightest intention of stopping, and in the end Ou Lian could only return to the door of the kindergarten and take Luo Xiulian to find a hotel to stay.
hotel
That night, Luo Xiulian did not fall asleep all night, and the tears soaked half of the pillow, and Ou Lian looked really distressed, but she didn't know what to say to ease her mother's sadness. Summer was hot and dry, but Annette Luo was curled up on the bed under the covers, not turning on the air conditioner but trembling, maybe her heart had been cold to the extreme.
The next day, Luo Xiulian, who had not slept all night, took her daughter to the kindergarten early, and she thought that even if she couldn't catch Ou Guangyu, she must find Zheng Yingmei and ask for clarification!
And the meeting of love enemies is extremely red-eyed! Although Zheng Yingmei has always said that she can't get in touch with Ou Guangyu, how can Luo Xiulian, who has lost her mind, be willing to give up? She kept pushing and shoving Zheng Yingmei, and then there was the scene we saw at the beginning...
Zheng Yingmei was pushed and shoved by Luo Xiulian
After being beaten, Zheng Yingmei said that she was unwilling to communicate with Luo Xiulian again, saying that Ou Guangyu was only a temporary worker in her kindergarten, and her family affairs were not willing to participate too much.
But for such a statement Luo Xiulian is obviously unacceptable, she angrily stood at the door and scolded Luo Xiulian for finding a "three companions" nanny to take care of her stupid son, and also beat her chest and cried at the door, and for a while the onlookers gathered. Among the people watching the liveliness, there are alarms and circles of friends, and this matter has spread in the local area in a very short period of time.
The funny thing is that no matter what kind of trouble is outside, Ou Guangyu has never shown his head, but has already packed his bags and does not know where to move to live, neither stopping Luo Xiulian nor protecting Zheng Yingmei.
It was not until the third day that Ou Guangyu called his daughter Ou Lian and advised them to go back, saying that if they continued to make trouble here, he would only go to Yunnan to work, and he would not go home anyway, as for him and Luo Xiulian, he would choose to end up in a divorce.
Ou Lian answers Ou Guangyu's call
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In the end, Luo Xiulian also wanted to understand that Ou Guangyu's heart no longer belonged to herself, even if she continued to make trouble, there would be no good results, although she could not understand why this 30-year marriage would become falling apart in 1 year, but she would not continue to be humble.
As for Zheng Yingmei, although she realized that she had been deceived by Ou Guangyu, after seeing Luo Xiulian's "spicy", she actually felt that she could understand Ou Guangyu's "bad temper".
And after this period of time together, she and her son Xiaocong have become dependent on this man, and some of them cannot do without him. In particular, Xiao Cong became much more cheerful during the time he spent with Ou Guangyu, so Zheng Yingmei did not take the initiative to say that he would leave Ou Guangyu, and even said that he was willing to bear all this for Ou Guangyu, and also respected all of Ou Guangyu's decisions.
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