There is a saying in the "Vegetable Root Tan":
"Water is low into the sea, and man is low into king."
Only when the water flows low can it flow into the great rivers and seas; only when people are low-key and humble can they go steady and far and achieve great things.
There is a hot topic on the Internet: "What kind of mentality needs to be deliberately practiced?" ”
The highest praise answer was, "Don't take yourself too seriously!" ”
Deeply believed that in life, we can only be low-key enough to gain the respect and appreciation of others.
In society, we can only be low-key enough to reap the weight and promotion of colleagues and leaders.
1: The water depth is silent
We will find that the shallower the water, the easier it is for people to see everything under the water, and the more noisy the sound of the water.
On the other hand, the deeper the water, not only can you not see anything under the water, but the sound of the water is almost inaudible.
Being a person should be like deep water, low-key, calm and quiet.
People with real strength are hidden deeply, and they are even more unspoken.
There is a migrant worker who has come to a big city and wants to have his own place in the city as soon as possible.
But after many years, I found that I was still a failed migrant worker, and I could only do some hard work at any construction site.
One day he took the initiative to ask a contract foreman in the field: "When is the head?" ”
The contractor looked at him and said, "Success and failure are not bad in nature with what they do." ”
The migrant worker looked puzzled, "Isn't it because my job is too humble that I will get worse and worse?" ”
The contractor said, "Then why are you living worse and worse?" ”
The migrant workers suddenly realized that they had always been so tall and far away, standing on this mountain and looking at that mountain, anxious, anxious, anxious.
Obviously, you can take advantage of your youth and strength to accumulate more energy for your own life and maintain a low-key and calm style to accumulate savings.
But I like to brag everywhere as soon as I make money, and as soon as I get a salary, I immediately squander it, and finally work at the construction site for a few years, my physical strength is not good, and my wallet is getting flatter and flatter.
Really smart people, real wise people, they all know that heroes do not ask where they come from, any place, any environment, any situation, can make a person strong.
Be low-key, calm, like water that always flows low, they seem to be humble, they seem to be weak in strength, but in fact they have been accumulating energy.
Lower your posture, lean down and do things in a low profile, wear water droplets and stones, thick and thin hair, is bound to be able to impress people.
2: People are steady
You will find that the more stable people around you are, the easier it is to get the recognition, appreciation and respect of others.
Have you ever wondered why?
In fact, as long as we carefully observe it, we will know that such people are rarely emotional, and even if they encounter problems and unexpected situations, they can adjust their mentality in time and deal with problems calmly.
Make friends with such people, and we will find that in the process of getting along with them, not only will there be no unreliable things happening, but we will not let each other fall into an embarrassing and torturous situation.
The biggest emotional intelligence of people is not to embarrass each other, even if they encounter problems, they can believe that each other will face and deal with them sincerely and responsibly.
Admittedly, a low-key and calm person is the one with the highest emotional intelligence.
Nietzsche once said:
"Whoever will eventually shake the earth will be silent for a long time."
Calm people, low-key people, mature people, they will maintain a humble charm from beginning to end.
This kind of charm is not the incompetence in the eyes of some people, nor is it the so-called rudder of seeing the wind, but a kind of cultivation, a kind of cultivation.
Learn to recognize yourself and examine yourself, and only then will you really find out where the real difference is between yourself and the excellent people, and where the gap is.
Actress Shirley McLean once said of this 20-40-60 rule:
At the age of 20, you are always worried about how others perceive you;
At the age of 40, after awakening, you will not care what others think about you;
At the age of 60, you will find that no one in this world cares about you.
It is a pity and a pity that a person lives, not more and more for himself, but more and more concerned about how others perceive him.
Living by someone else's standard, you will always be able to live as a puppet.
On the contrary, if you know how to live for yourself as soon as possible, you can gradually find your own life direction and live for yourself quietly and calmly.
3: Keep a low profile
A person, if he knows what he is living for, will take the initiative to restrain himself, return to his heart, and then live low-key and calmly.
Because when you already know what you are living for, you will naturally be able to let go of things about other people, and you will be able to let go naturally.
Dostoniewski said:
"There are thoughts, there are sorrows and ideals, this is life."
Any life is tinged with a kind of joy and sorrow.
Since we can't completely get rid of sorrow and happiness from beginning to end, it is better to be free and let happiness and sorrow coexist in harmony.
At this time, we can quit extremes, forget arrogance, no longer cling to it, and no longer be irritable.
When we recognize the essence of a thing, we will recognize it and accept it in our hearts, and as for the rest, why bother with so much.
"The Three-Body Problem" writes this passage:
"Weakness and materialism are not obstacles to survival, arrogance is.
Once a person feels that he has a sense of superiority over others and feels superior to others, he is not far from bad luck. ”
The world is infinite, knowledge is infinite, and wisdom is infinite.
Obviously, if we only live proudly and complacently, and treat life with empty eyes, then life will eventually make you lose everything.
Only by moving forward in a low-key manner, under the peak of the peak, being a pursuer and a low-key person can we see the beautiful scenery of this world more easily and smoothly.
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