The lazier the mother is at these 3 points, the more successful the child is!

No mother does not want her child to be unsuccessful, success is not about how much money can be earned, how high the status can always be, but every mother wants her child to have the right to choose life. So what should mothers do to make their children successful?

1, mothers do not want to do all the housework themselves

Colleague's child is four years old this year, once went to his house to play, two children piled up together, the development of colleagues' children's logical thinking ability is particularly strong, a thing that happened in the middle of the way made me even more impressed.

In the process of chatting with colleagues, I found that my colleague's children quickly built several independent modules, and then said to my son: Brother, I go to the toilet, you combine these modules together, and when I come back, I can test it. I was particularly surprised and praised, and the overall method was quite smooth.

Colleagues said that this has a lot to do with the usual children to help with housework, don't see the five-year-old child, has been able to cook noodles smoothly, including lighting fire, boiling water, cutting vegetables, putting salt and oil.

The colleague went on to say: At first, the little guy was busy, and after a few times, he knew that after boiling the water, he began to choose vegetables, wash vegetables, cut vegetables, boiled the water, and the dishes were ready, and the little guy jumped up happily when he found that he could make a meal faster.

Therefore, mothers must not help their children do everything, and encouraging their children to do housework will also have great gains.

2. Don't overly participate in your child's homework

There are children who have just entered primary school, and mothers have the most headache in the early days of their children's school days. From time to time, I also saw on the Internet that the mother was sent to the hospital by the explosion of blood vessels in order to help the child write homework, I don't know if it is true or not, but it can be seen that the child's homework really makes the mother break her heart.

In fact, I think that about the matter of accompanying homework, the mother does not have to be too nervous, first of all, to know that the child's homework is actually the process of learning a skill, the order of learning skills is to teach - learn - practice - test - learn, if not learned, then follow this process again.

Children have not learned, in fact, parents have not followed the correct steps, so, dear mothers, don't blame the child anymore, mastering the correct way to accompany the writing will make you more effective with half the effort.

3. Let the child get up on his own

I believe that many mothers have the urge to beat up their children every morning, why? Wake up countless times, the child is indifferent, it is not easy to get up, slow to brush teeth, wash face, slowly eat, soon to be late, still slowly putting on shoes, packing school bags.

At this time, mothers must not be in a hurry, you can try to do these things at a slower speed than the child, but tell him the time, and then the child will be anxious because he is afraid of being late, so he must be in a hurry, at this time, he must be calm, continue to slow down, and then deliberately be late, of course, to greet the teacher in advance, and work together to help the child develop the habit of getting up early.

Be late once, let the teacher criticize once harshly, and believe me, the child will not dare to sleep lazily next time. Because children generally care more about the teacher's opinion, they are criticized by the teacher, and the child must be the most anxious. So, dear mothers can try it, it is very useful, but remember to say hello to the teacher beforehand.

Dear mothers, have you learned these three tricks? Learn to use it quickly, and raising a successful child is just around the corner.