Author: One flower
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A relationship, the most difficult is to start, from two strangers who do not know each other, to familiar friends, but it is only three or five days, but from strangers or friends, it takes great courage to cross over to become lovers.
Especially middle-aged men and women, who have experienced too many emotional struggles, are more cautious about the transformation of gender identities. Even if you like a person again, you will not easily show love, you will think about the consequences repeatedly, and you will hesitate, because when people reach middle age, some costs are really unbearable.
However, if you are deeply in love with a person, how can you be indifferent and completely hide your inner love? Especially women, it is easy to express joy and sorrow on their faces, love or not love a person, you can directly see from her expression.
Mature middle-aged women are even more so, no matter how to cover up, there are some subconscious behaviors or betray themselves, in the face of love and do not love men, or will give a different treatment.
Middle-aged women decide to "cross the line", they will give men three kinds of "preferences", very accurate.
The first: lets you fit into her circle of friends
Sometimes, middle-aged women will also hold the mentality of "playing", they will not take the ambiguity between two people seriously, because if they do not pay true feelings, they will not be hurt.
But where will such things as feelings really be controlled? Some jokes, open to become true, with a wealth of emotional experience of middle-aged women, can not escape this spell. Moreover, once they decide to cross the line, they do not wait for men to ask questions, they take the initiative to let men integrate into their circle of friends.
For example, middle-aged women will open their social circles, let men check their own dynamics at any time, and will take men to parties between girlfriends, which is also considered to give men the identity of the main lord from the side, which is only for the beloved people will have a "preference".
The second: will help you in work and life
Compared with young women, middle-aged women know better how to touch a man's heart.
When they decide to "cross the line", they will send a signal to men to take the initiative to give them a hug, and the usual means is to give men some small favors.
In life, middle-aged women will help men wash clothes, cook soup for men, and also tell men not to stay up late, add clothes when it is cold, bring umbrellas when men are sick, and when men are sick, they will also put down all the urgent things in their hands and rush to the front of men.
At work, middle-aged women will also give men a lot of help, she will take the initiative to help men share the work, will also give guidance to men's programs, and will teach men how to behave in the world, and have a good relationship with colleagues and leaders.
The third: allow you to make physical contact with her
Middle-aged men are also very sensitive to physical contact in the process of interpersonal communication. If you are not interested in a man and don't want to have an out-of-bounds relationship with him, you won't let a man touch his body.
But if she decides to "cross the line", she will give men a unique "preference", not only allowing men to make intimate physical contact with themselves, but also sharing their most private parts with men, which is very accurate for women.
Falling in love is not an easy thing, especially when people reach middle age, it is difficult to meet a sincere emotion. Middle-aged women only pluck up enough courage and decide to "cross the line", will give men the above three unique "preferences", if you enjoy these preferences, you must know how to cherish.
If you don't love, don't hurt, make it clear to the other party, if you don't love, don't try to get preferential treatment from the other party.
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In addition to the above, what "preferences" will middle-aged women give men? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.