Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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I believe that many people think that after love, people who can still leave an important position in the heart of their predecessors should have a unique charm!
This is not the case.
Between people, there has always been a law of "one slap does not make a sound". The relationship between the two sides is harmonious and eternal. Any kind of feeling of one-way operation can only be a gradual cooling that cannot last too long.
Who you want to build a relationship with, you have been enthusiastic for a long time, but the other party has not responded to you, and all your enthusiasm will gradually return to zero.
Especially between men and women.
The phrase "what you don't get is always the best" is only a temporary appearance. As long as one party does not respond or gives the "back door" a chance, over time this appearance will completely fade.
In a person's lifetime, he will fall in love with multiple people. However, after meeting a person who loves each other deeply, the two people are willing to settle down for each other.
Those who have been fond of a person for years or who remain affectionate for many years after separation must be specific to some detail of their lives who have received or often received specific responses from people they like or love.
Or, there is a deliberate intersection with the person who was once deeply loved. Otherwise, one-way love will not only not last too long, but also gradually dilute the former love to zero because of the people in front of you in the current life.
A good ex should be as silent as death. Only this kind of silence will make each other 100% cherish the current life and the people in front of them.
If a person still has contact with an ex or someone he loves but can't, then that person must be thinking about it all the time. Like the tip of Song Dacheng's heart in "Longing", there is a predecessor called "Liu Huifang"!
Although Liu Huifang chose to abandon Song Dacheng for Wang Husheng, she always maintained cross-border ties with Song Dacheng in various names and without boundaries.
In the social background of such an inconvenient information exchange, all the winds and grasses of Liu Huifang, Song Dacheng can be present one by one. It can only be explained that the two of them have crossed the line and have long been unable to cover up the unbearable "brother and sister commensurate" in their mouths.
The misdeeds between men and women never exist at any time node, let alone the distinction between actual crossing the line and spiritual crossing, and crossing the line is crossing the line!
Crossing the line represents betrayal!
In particular, the two people who were once unmarried couples did not care about the feelings of the people in front of them, and their willful approaching behavior had long indicated that one was willing to fight and one was willing to be beaten.
It is precisely because of this that the marriage and love of Liu Huifang and Song Dacheng both ended in misfortune.
In the final analysis, the intimate interaction with the opposite sex that produces feelings is always in contact with each other and has no boundaries, which is a deliberate "broken connection".
Therefore, whether it is an ambiguous object or an ex, it is the sand that cannot be tolerated in the eyes of the people in front of you.
Smart people, who are best at themselves, must have cut off all contact with people who have moved their hearts. Only those who are not responsible for their present will drag on their past feelings, or in order to win a little comfort, they will change their identity to protect and pass on their inner love.
Song Dacheng of "Longing" to Liu Huifang is like this!
Initially, Song Dacheng and Liu Huifang got married in an instant, and the furniture that Song Dacheng personally beat was extremely joyful and excited in his heart. Until the appearance of Wang Husheng, Liu Huifang said "I treat you as a brother", as the tears slid down, Song Dacheng loved deeply and could not bear to "trap" Liu Huifang with his own affection.
However, in the face of such abandonment, Song Dacheng's heart was frustrated.
When Song Dacheng was disheartened and told Liu Huifang's girlfriend Yuejuan to be together, he should have completely put it down on Liu Huifang!
However, in the days that followed, Liu Huifang's various initiatives to come to the door, various people in front of and behind and Song Dacheng's limbs crossed the line and pretended to be weak...
These series of behaviors have made Song Dacheng's heart always retain her position and worry about her stomach at all times...
Among many predecessors, women like Liu Huifang, who make men remember, are not simple! The "charm" they possess is originally a fierceness that the current cannot reach:
1: Don't love you, don't let you go
There is a kind of woman who does not love you and will not let you go! When you love her, she either stands tall, says she treats you as a friend, or stays with the man temporarily in the form of emotion.
This kind of "love" that has nothing to do with love will eventually be truly abandoned when the person who really touches her "heart" appears. However, she only wants to give up one way, and does not want the other party to give up on herself.
In the face of the word "greed" and the "sense of charisma of self-achievement", some women do not want to lose someone who truly loves themselves, even though she does not love him.
Therefore, the reason why those women who are exs will be cherished by men to ignore the people in front of them is because they are good at leaving illusions for men after turning around and leaving.
In particular, for those men who can't love but can't, some of the ex's "help" will ignite their desire to protect, in order to prove their "ability" and prove that although they cannot stay with the ex, they are still indispensable to a woman's life.
Such a man who is "recognized" by his ex, the inner sense of accomplishment is the woman in front of him, and he can never be satisfied!
2: Can give men spiritual "satisfaction"
Some men like to find a sense of existence in the ex, and they prefer to be "stronger" than the current woman of the past.
In particular, I hope that my ex will give me more affirmation.
Therefore, for some men, the ex's encouragement, recognition and understanding of themselves, and even the advice given by them, are more easily accepted by him. And some of the current ideas and suggestions, he will mostly be skeptical.
It is because, in the days of constantly living with my predecessor, the only illusion in my heart is at work.
Yes, some men are "contemptuous" in their relationships with their exs. So much so that he is unwilling to break off his relationship with his ex, even if he is not so deeply in love, but he still wants to use a hazy ambiguous relationship to communicate as an "ordinary" friend, and take what he needs from it.
And as an ex woman, she will also be willing to deliberately show the hypocrisy of various glowing points in order to make men feel that they are "perfect".
Based on the attraction of the opposite sex, based on the former sentient beings, and based on the continuous exchange (even cross-border exchanges), it has caused men to have all kinds of foolish reverie about their exs...
It is precisely because of this that the word predecessor is always a thorn in the heart of the current.
The current heart is often hurt by this thorn and gushes blood, and the man does not pay much attention to it.
Ignoring it means breaking off contact with your ex. To be reasonable means to admit that you and your ex do not know the relationship. Ignoring this means endlessly "appeasing emotions" to the incumbent.
Either way, it will make men feel annoyed and tired!
Liu Huifang in "Longing" is a "white moonlight" that is very close to Song Dacheng and has crossed the boundary.
Song Dacheng has a wife and has a constant relationship with his predecessor, although it is scum. However, Liu Huifang's sense of no boundary as an ex took the initiative to approach, and green tea reached a certain realm.
Therefore, when we watch "Longing" again, we feel deeply embarrassed, probably because Liu Huifang's green tea and her "hypocritical" behavior in the name of her adopted daughter make people sick one after another!
However, whether it is Liu Huifang or other women, the only woman who can make her ex remember is "always in contact with men", which is a kind of woman who makes people disgusted!
If you are a smart person, you must not have any involvement with your ex after the breakup, which is a harmless thing for your current life and even the rest of your life.
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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