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What is the concept of youth?
Who are the young people who are involved in the beginning of the world and the old people who are old?
In fact, maturity and youth, and age have never had anything to do with it! A person's true maturity is related to experience and family education!
Maturity is a person's willingness to accept the clarity of seeing the essence through appearances, and the wisdom of being willing to think in a different position.
Some people are still confused at an early age, and some people already have the "superpower" of insight into human nature at a young age.
Some people, who have lived a lifetime, are ultimately living in obscurity, so that they are paranoid about right and wrong, black and white do not understand;
Some people spend every day on self-growth and maturity, so they have gained a worthy life. In the long river of years, sober and transparent wonderful self, infected others!
Come to think of it, the biggest gap between people is embodied in the four words of "insight into human nature".
In the face of real life, the human heart and human nature have never been good and beautiful. It's just that in order to achieve their own goals, some people do evil deeds that paralyze people's eyes in the name of goodness and beauty!
When it comes to the contest between good and evil, it is really a struggle that has never stopped from ancient times to the present! It's just that some people look at things too superficially, so many things don't happen to them, and they don't have the ability to think differently and empathize, so they are paranoid that evil is good.
Take "Longing", which once caused "ten thousand empty alleys" because there was no program to watch, and because of the actor's appearance and acting skills online, the so-called good woman Liu Huifang was the "hypocritical" person who existed like the originator.
Unfortunately, a small number of people did not see how contrary Liu Huifang's "good" was!
In fact, only by seeing Liu Huifang's "good" clearly can you understand the evil of human nature! I can't see that Liu Huifang is "hypocritical", which can only show that you are too "young"!
In many previous articles analyzing the negative human nature hidden by "Longing", for the author to expound the fact that Liu Huifang's green tea and hypocrisy through human nature, there are a small number of people who "break their mouths" at the author. Even, some people say that the author is "too small"!
Some people also said: "At present, there are more and more people who are exquisitely egoistic, such as the black-hearted editor who writes articles..."
As I mentioned before the beginning of the article, when a person really has the ability to see the essence through appearances, he will be a truly mature and rational person!
Here, I would like to say to those readers who are full of insults: Come, let's talk about the heart calmly! Let's start with "empathy"! In this way, you will know what good and evil are
First: If you are Yuejuan, can you put up with Liu Huifang?
Many people stood in Liu Huifang's point of view and hugged her unevenly and said:
Yue Juan, she should not have married Song Dacheng in the first place! Song Dacheng loves Liu Huifang, and she herself has to marry Song Dacheng, so her misfortune has nothing to do with Liu Huifang, she is self-inflicted!
Is this really the case? If you were Yuejuan, would you still say that? Definitely not!
Who is Liu Huifang? Yue Juan's girlfriend, Song Dacheng's former fiancée!
Such a triangular relationship, no matter what, Liu Huifang should first consider Yuejuan's feelings, right? Even if you have difficulties, should you find your girlfriend to open your mouth at the first time and express your need for help?
If someone is willing to stand in Yuejuan's perspective, he must understand:
No matter what reason Yuejuan married Song Dacheng, it is not the reason why Liu Huifang took the initiative to "sneak" across Yuejuan to find Song Dacheng!
If, you are Yuejuan, can you tolerate your husband and his ex meeting privately? I guess you won't be so generous! If you are Yue Juan, you are afraid that you will tear Liu Huifang apart earlier!
What's more, Yuejuan was not thin to Liu Huifang from beginning to end! But where did Liu Huifang look like a qualified girlfriend for a moment, considering for Yuejuan?
Liu Huifang adopted her adopted daughter, which is the "goodness" that had to be formed by sending her away without success, but the money she spent, the time she consumed, and the energy she consumed, which one is not Yuejuan and his wife?
If, you are Yuejuan, do you allow your man to spend money on his ex and meet privately without any emotional waves?
As a woman, Liu Huifang, under the guise of "difficulty", held Song Dacheng with tears in her eyes and clasped Song Dacheng's hand tightly... Two people who were once unmarried couples, you said they were brothers and sisters, do you believe it?
Some people say that "people at that time were very simple" doesn't look like a cold joke? At that time, people simply did not know that there was a difference between men and women?
Even when marriage and love are open today, the opposite sex cannot cross the line with the hat of friendship, but some people say that in such a conservative society decades ago, it is normal for men and women to hug each other privately and frequently harass? Stop it!
Second: If you are Wang Husheng, can you tolerate Liu Huifang?
Wang Husheng in "Longing" is said to have been chased and beaten and scolded by the officials after filming that year. But is Wang Husheng really so unbearable?
Why is Wang Husheng, a literati who really has a bowl of ink in his chest, so warm as jade, knowledgeable and progressive, constantly improving, and transforming when he is with Xiao Zhuxin? Why did he choose Liu Huifang, and everything about him could not be compared with before?
Liu Huifang and Wang Husheng, the door is not right! Liu Huifang chose Wang Husheng, who was originally Gao Pan! Their spiritual world is not equal!
Some people say that Wang Husheng was not worthy of Liu Huifang. However, it is Liu Huifang who obviously has a fiancé Song Dacheng, but she does not understand the hot posts of avoiding suspicion with other men and using her heart and tricks, in exchange for Wang Husheng's "deep affection"!
Before Liu Huifang and Wang Husheng were combined, Xiao Zhuxin and Wang Husheng had already lifted the misunderstanding and reconciled (Xiao Zhuxin chose to leave with her parents temporarily in front of filial piety, but she kept writing to Wang Husheng to express that she would not let go, but was detained by the relevant personnel).
However, the "enthusiasm" that Liu Huifang has always insisted on has allowed Wang Hu physiologically to push away the real good woman Xiao Zhuxin!
Liu Huifang did not know that for Song Dacheng's consideration, she had too close contacts with other men, taking care of the Queen Mother, moving for Wang Husheng, making cattle and horses for the Wang family... This is the "devotion" of love.
As a result, after combining with Wang Husheng, there was nothing wrong with Song Dacheng, and he "met each other" in the open and in the dark...
If you are Wang Husheng, will you allow your wife to be involved with her ex continuously, and there is nothing to find an ex? You certainly can't do "allow"!
Although Wang Husheng is not good, he is also his own man. When encountering things, he did not consult with Wang Husheng to take advice, but it was like he could not live without Song Dacheng himself. Instead of this, why didn't you choose Song Dacheng in the first place and empathize with each other?
Song Dacheng did not have Wang Husheng's culture, no Wang Husheng was handsome, and there was no Wang Husheng's clever mouth...
However, Song Dacheng was dead set on Liu Huifang and never wanted Liu Huifang to suffer a little grievance... And Wang Husheng, who grew up like a young master, has his own edges and corners, has his own temper and stubbornness...
Therefore, Liu Huifang wants to treat the former and the current in the style of "east family eating west family living"? And get along with your ex as a "brother and sister"? If you are Wang Husheng, can you really tolerate it? Stop it!
Third: If you are Wang Yaru, can you accept Liu Huifang?
Wang Yaru of "Longing" has always been named "Freak Old Leftover Woman" by everyone. In fact, Wang Yaru is the truest, kindest, warmest, and smartest person among all people.
She seems to be bitter, but every sentence is sober in the world! She just forgot how to laugh because the man she loved was in prison and her own flesh and bones were missing!
Treating Liu Huifang, who is hot, she can't hide her eyes at all; she treats Wang Husheng's giant baby personality and always plays the role of "eldest sister like mother" very decently; and treats her father's filial piety, which few people can match...
Even Xiaofang, who once treated Xiaofang when she did not know that she was her own daughter, was also because she knew her own reasons that Xiaofang's legs were injured, and she would resolutely go abroad for further study...
She did not play a good role in the marriage of Wang Husheng and Liu Huifang, but if it were not for Liu Huifang's initial lack of self-love and excessive hot posts, her later intransigence from her predecessor, and finally her extreme selfishness, how could Wang Yaru be so tired of her?
Wang Yaru had already seen through Liu Huifang, saw through her hypocrisy for her own selfish desires, saw her hidden heart in order to let all men revolve around her, and saw through the evil that she didn't seem to say anything but actually wanted everything...
In particular, Luo Gang and Wang Yaru's lovers could not become dependents, and Liu Huifang's contribution was indispensable.
If it were not for Liu Huifang raising her own daughter, Wang Yaru would not have accepted Liu Huifang from her heart in her life.
If you were Wang Yaru who had experienced the capture of her lover and the disappearance of her own flesh and bones, would you not make any waves?
If you witnessed your sister-in-law only considering her own feelings and gains and losses in everything, and was extremely self-respecting, would you like her?
Don't see the world from your own perspective! A truly mature person will try to think differently so that he will not do anything to hurt others.
If you think that Liu Huifang is kind, then you may wish to think and feel it in a different position, and her evil will be clear at a glance!
If you think that people at the moment ignore Liu Huifang's goodness because they are highly self-interested, then you may have some misunderstanding of goodness!
There is a difference between men and women, which is a truth that was known hundreds of years ago, so do you think it has something to do with the time node?
True goodness will not take full advantage of the good name of "goodness", consume others, and hurt others! So do you still think Liu Huifang is great?
If you think Liu Huifang is kind, what did she do except let her adopted daughter call her mother for life?
In the ending, Liu Huifang is in a wheelchair, which corresponds to the lyrics of "Good people have a peaceful life", which is the most "perfect" irony! What do you think?
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