#山哥情感观点系列 #
(Shan Ge talks about emotions, picture from the Internet)
| Wen/Pang Fengshan
01
Chen Daoming said: Marriage will "run away", but it mainly depends on whether you will put it into action and whether you have self-control.
Whether in feelings or in marriage, we must learn to cherish those who care about us, love us, do not because of their kindness and tolerance, we can hurt them at will, it is unfair and immoral.
Feelings are mutual, love is equal. Respect, gratitude and cherishing are always the eternal keywords in the world of feelings!
Everyone's marriage will have a flat period, when the freshness is no longer there, when the passion slowly fades, we still have to guard each other's fate with our hearts, cherish each other's existence, and don't wait until one day to really lose each other and feel regret and remorse.
Elizabeth said that love is beautiful, but marriage is sacred.
Whether we are in the castle of love or in the siege of marriage, we should let ourselves not forget our original intentions, do not change our hearts, and do not easily hurt, the person who truly loves us.
The vast sea of people, the vast number of sentient beings, the heavens and the earth are so big, it is not easy for a person to fall in love with a person, it is also very rare, only by cherishing it well will it live up to the other heart.
Good feelings are the most beautiful pictures in the world. True love is the most precious wealth in life, don't take it seriously. Love, the most afraid of being disappointed, but also the most afraid of being hurt.
Meeting the right person in this life is a blessing that you have cultivated; meeting someone who loves you deeply is even more your blessing, really, don't hurt, the person who really loves you, okay?
She, the love for you, is worth your life to protect; his love for you is worth your life to follow.
02
Remember the beautiful and gentle and virtuous Liu Huifang in the TV series "Longing"?
She is so beautiful, and so good, so warm and kind, so loving, she thinks of others everywhere, she would rather wrong herself than let others suffer.
However, it was such a loving and beautiful woman, when she fell deeply in love with a man named Wang Husheng, what she did not expect was that in the end, she was deeply hurt by this man, hurt to the heart, and hurt to the bone.
Women, don't let yourself fall in love with someone who is not worthy of love; men, don't easily hurt someone who really loves you.
True love is priceless, please don't turn your face ruthlessly. However, in the relationship, there are always people who turn their faces faster than books.
Take Wang Husheng in "Longing", for example, when he was at his lowest point, it was Liu Huifang, the woman, who gave selfless care, help and love.
At the beginning, it was also his death begging for Bai Lai's pursuit of Hui Fang, letting Hui Fang be his good wife for a lifetime.
Huifang is of course a good wife, but Husheng has become a negative man.
He has deeply hurt a woman's heart with what he has done, and it hurts a woman who loves him so much.
In fact, many times, hurting others is hurting yourself.
When Wang Husheng, who is selfish and self-righteous, breaks Liu Huifang's heart, how is he himself? Did he live happily and happily?
No! Not at all. He also put himself in an even more painful situation.
He thought that he had abandoned the woman he "didn't love" and could hug the woman he loved again, and he could do whatever he wanted.
Where is there such an easy and beautiful thing in the world, the first love Xiao Zhuxin strictly refused, completely punching him in the face. It also made him understand from now on that a person's happiness should not be based on the suffering of others.
Otherwise, you can't have happiness yourself.
03
In this life, people still have to do more good deeds, be worthy of themselves, and do not hurt others, especially not hurt the person who truly loves you.
Even if you don't love her, don't hurt her, but be grateful to her.
Someone once said that husband and wife should know each other and understand each other, and then tolerate and love each other, in order to maintain a happy marriage.
In short, two people together, to tolerate and understand each other more, not to hurt each other.
Hurting someone who truly loves us will make our souls deeply uneasy and will make our hearts the most condemned.
The point is that when a person hurts someone who truly loves him, he will not have a good end.
In "Laughing proud of the rivers and lakes", Lin Pingzhi hurt Yue Lingshan so madly, what happened to him in the end, it was not that his fate was miserable, his martial skills were lost, and he became a living dead, more painful than the person who was hurt.
In "The Secret of the City", Wan Gui, the son of Wan Zhenshan, obviously through unscrupulous means, occupied Qi Fang, the fiancée of di Yun, who was honest and honest, and Qi Fang gave birth to a child for him, and also wanted to die with him wholeheartedly, but he hurt Qi Fang fiercely, and saved his life when Qi Fang thought of the love of the husband and wife, regardless of his evil, he viciously extended his poisonous hand to Qi Fang, and finally, Qi Fang died because of him, and he was also killed by Di Yun.
Man, don't hurt, the person who really loves you, your hurt, in addition to planting bitter fruits for the other party and making the other party feel pain, from now on, it will also plant hatred and sow bad consequences.
Between people, we should have more love, cultivate more love, learn to cherish the love given to us by others, and should not hurt each other, so that people who truly love you feel pain, coldness and helplessness.
May there be more truth in the world and less harm!
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