"Children's blood pressure soars every day during the holidays" The special arrangement of this father can be called a life textbook
When it comes to the holidays, the children are like gods and beasts out of the cage
It really makes parents head-scratching, and parents must plan ahead
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A few days after the winter vacation began, many mothers whispered to me in the background
"Recently it is really a first two big, eager to go to petition for the school to start soon"
"After six or seven days off, I feel like my whole being is ruined."
"It's too hard, it's too hard, I thought I could take a break during the winter vacation, I didn't expect to be more tired, every day this blood pressure is rising"
Yeah, as a mother of a child
I myself have such an experience, as soon as I get to the winter vacation, it is like playing spy battles with my children every day, and every minute I need to fight wits and courage
The child is up in the morning and does not sleep at night
The homework in my hand drags the afternoon in the morning, and the evening in the afternoon, always thinking about playing with the mobile phone there
Not to mention running around the house and yelling as soon as he gets crazy
Especially with the landing of the "double reduction", this year's holiday is longer than ever
Looking at the calendar, it is really a bitter tear for myself
When will school start?
But think about it in turn, in fact, such a time also allows us to get along well with our children
Help them develop some good study habits, lifestyle habits, and so on
Therefore, as a parent, you must make a plan in advance
So that children do not watch TV every day, play mobile phones, and when they have free time, they either sleep or play games
The whole holiday was wasted on these useless things
Yesterday, I happened to see a "special" arrangement made by a father for his son on the Internet, which is simply a life textbook
I also share it here with all parents who are worried about the winter vacation, hoping to help you
01
Make a holiday schedule
Before the holidays, many teachers will arrange holiday homework in the group
My son's teacher sent out a large document full of all kinds of content
Children are required to punch in, do practical activities, and fill out various forms
And these projects require parental supervision
At this time, some parents reflected
"There is too much content, although the children are on vacation, we still need to go to work, can't we let everyone take a vacation?"
Indeed, for older seniors
They only need a reminder from their parents and will probably complete their homework on their own
However, for young children, this requires the personal participation of parents
In addition, too much homework can also make children too nervous to enjoy the joy of the holiday
So how do you balance your child's homework with playing?
At this time, it is very important to make a holiday schedule
If you think about it, it's true, in general, if there's no good plan
Even parents can forget about things because they are too busy, which makes their children's holidays chaotic and disorderly
In the end, it is not good to play, let alone study
So before the holidays, I pulled my son along to make a holiday schedule in advance
Not only the content of the vacation arranged by the teacher is arranged in a planned way
I also joined some of the projects that I had discussed with my children
In this orderly co-ordination, it seems that everything has a direction
02
3 points to consider in the holiday schedule
This winter vacation schedule is for children
Then the subject is naturally the child
Therefore, when we make a schedule, we must ask for the opinion of the child
And you can't arbitrarily follow your own ideas
When I was working on schedules with my son
I would ask him to express his ideas adequately, and then I would mainly give some advice and opinions myself
In the end, once the content is finalized, it must be my son's idea and my opinion
At this time, I will let my son fill it out himself, and then sign and seal it
In this way, not only does the child have a sense of ownership, but also improves the child's sense of responsibility for execution
The schedule is ready, and the next most important thing is execution
Many parents are more rigid in their thinking, and once they are done well, they will be implemented step by step
Actually, completion is one thing
On the other hand, we must also learn to adapt to the time and make timely adjustments to the plan
After all, many times "the plan can't keep up with the change"
Like my son, their teachers arranged a language recitation punch card activity
Previously, we scheduled this activity in the evening, and the free reading time for the children was separated
But after a period of execution, we found that in fact, the two activities are combined, and morning reading is more appropriate
So I brought the time forward
There are also times when the time comes, but the child may be unwell or not in a good condition
At this time, parents can also flexibly adjust and do not blindly force their children
Otherwise, it is likely to be counterproductive and cause the child to be bored
Finally affects the execution of the plan for the entire holiday
Not long ago, a friend told me
Originally, the child was assigned to write for 40 minutes a day, but the child was dragging on for an hour one day
As a result, the subsequent winter vacation work time is occupied for no reason
So she scolded the child a few times, but she did not expect the child to tell her very wrongfully at night
"In the afternoon, my stomach hurt a little, but I didn't want to renege on my word, so I kept trying to complete the plan, but I didn't expect my mother to wrongly accuse me."
In fact, many times, children are much more sensible than we think
Parents must give their children a little more trust in the process of implementation
In addition, in the process of implementation, we can also add some special arrangements according to the child's situation
In this way, it is possible to check the child's defects and fill in the gaps
For example, my son has not been very good at writing
So this holiday I arranged for him to practice for an hour a day
This arrangement is highly targeted and will be better for children
Finally, when making a schedule, parents must pay attention to the combination of work and leisure
Don't blindly think about making your child progress and learning
As a result, the schedule is too full, there are too many things, and the clockwork on the child's body is too tight
On the contrary, the effect is not good
When we plan, in addition to learning the plan, we must also make a plan for exercise and play
This is a proper relaxation, and the child will be more willing to execute
Like myself, every Saturday and Sunday, I arrange time for my children to watch movies
Let him choose whether to watch cartoons or movies
However, for the relaxation of playing mobile phones and games, I do not recommend that you arrange for children
Because this stuff is very addictive, once he forms this habit during the holidays
Even when school starts, it is difficult to change, so it will affect children's learning
If the child really wants to see it, it is strongly requested to have such an arrangement
Then parents should also strictly control the size in time and content
Online games such as Glory of Kings still need to be avoided
03
Give the kids a perfect holiday
Many people say that childhood is the happiest time in a person's life
But in fact, children in life often have heavy academics on their backs
Especially in recent years, although the state has called for a reduction in burdens, the competition has become larger
The children's stress also exploded
Therefore, it is rare to encounter a holiday, and parents must make arrangements
Give the kids a perfect holiday
Let the child neither delay learning nor delay play
In addition to learning, parents should also let their children relax well
You can take your child to sports, play ball, play games
You can also accompany your child to do parent-child reading
Or play chess, play blocks, board games, and more
Even simply going downstairs to play with other children will make you much happier
Parents with conditions can also arrange some family trips, which increases their children's insight and enhances the feelings between parents and children
So, what are you going to do with your kids this holiday season? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area below to interact, see you in the next issue