Two middle-aged men kept arguing, one of them even moved his hand, grabbed the other's ear with one hand, and then put it down and said, this is also their own child, what happened between these two people, what is the child they are talking about?
Among the two middle-aged men who just quarreled, one is Nie Yongqiang, an adoptive father who is not related to the child, and the other is his biological father, Jin Mantian. The adoptive father recalled the scene when he first picked up the child, when the child was dark but born Peugeot, Nie Yongqiang wanted to adopt the child the first time he saw the child, and later named the child Yuanyuan.
As the child grew up, the relationship between Yuanyuan and his father Nie Yongqiang changed dramatically, what happened to make this father-daughter relationship suddenly stop? Nie Yongqiang said that since the claim of fate, the husband and wife have not had other children, the two love this child in their hearts, treat her as a biological child, and have also thought of finding biological parents for the fate during this time.
However, one day 12 years later, Yuanyuan's biological parents appeared to take away Yuanyuan, and Yuanyuan's departure made his wife very unhappy, because this matter was going to divorce Nie Yongqiang. Remembering the bits and pieces of his life with his daughter, Nie Yongqiang regretted very much letting yuanyuan recognize their biological parents.
Now that his wife wants to make peace with himself and his daughter has been taken away, Nie Yongqiang is very remorseful for his previous actions when he sees this broken family. At first, the biological parents said that they just wanted to take the child home for the New Year, promising that Nie Yongqiang would send the child back, but the biological parents regretted that they would not send the child back.
The wife who lost her relationship was very sad, and she asked Nie Yongqiang to take the child back, otherwise she would file for divorce in court. Nie Yongqiang said that he would definitely bring the child back, and knocked on the door of his biological parents' house, but no one in the house responded for a long time. Soon after, there was a voice of inquiry from inside the house, and after we said our intentions, we did not see the door open in the house but heard the sound of locking the door, why were the biological parents so reluctant to see the adoptive father who had raised the child for many years?
Just as we were about to leave, we met Jin Mantian who was returning from outside. Jin Mantian was hostile to the uninvited Nie Yongqiang. Jin Mantian said that after Nie Yongqiang picked up his child, he did not take good care of the child, but abused the child, which can be proved from the neighbors and teachers around the child, so he could not bear it before taking the child back to raise himself.
Is what Jin Mantian said true, and is Nie Yongqiang's love for the child really disguised? Nie Yongqiang argued that if it is not good for the child, why should he put the child around to raise it, all Jin Mantian said is to take the child back to raise himself, when he adopted the fate by chance, he knew that the family living conditions were not good every day, he went out early and returned late, and he had been working very hard to make money to support the family for the child to study, save money for the child to go to college, and now the money is saved and the child is not around.
Subsequently, the neighbors who lived nearby also invariably thought that Nie Yongqiang was a competent father, and the family treated this child as a biological child, and it was not easy to pull the child up with painstaking efforts, and now the biological parents not only did not thank the Nie Yongqiang family for their kindness to the child's parenting.
In order to prove that the child is his own, Jin Mantian took out his own paternity test certificate with his daughter, which also legally recognized that Yuanyuan was his daughter, and Yuanyuan would be raised by Jin Mantian in the future. Jin Mantian talked about the unspeakable secret of abandoning the child in the first place, when the father-in-law did not agree to Jin Mantian's relationship with his wife, the father-in-law secretly gave the child to someone else under the condition of Jin Mantian's surgery, and that person gave the child to Nie Yongqiang.
After the child was sent away, during this period the couple looked for the child for more than ten years. Now after finding his daughter, Nie Yongqiang hindered the family's happy and happy life, Jin Mantian said that he was not an unreasonable person, and he also thanked Nie Yongqiang for his kindness in taking in his daughter, fortunately with their care, there would be a chance for the father and daughter to recognize each other later. Speaking of which, shouldn't Jin Mantian be grateful to Nie Yongqiang, and why is he now hostile to Nie Yongqiang?
Subsequently, Jin Mantian opened a photo from his mobile phone, the photo was his daughter wearing tattered clothes, as if he had been abused, Jin Mantian investigated and learned that his daughter had always been in boarding school, and in these three years Nie Yongqiang had never visited his daughter, and even did not give his daughter living expenses, and he said that the good father image was poor.
Jin Mantian, who knew the truth, was very angry, he definitely thought that the child would not take good care of the child if he followed Nie Yongqiang's words, seeing that the child had such a hard time, the biological parents were very distressed and decided to take the child back to raise. The biological mother also said that when she saw the fate, the child's physical condition was not good and she had been nosebleeds.
These seemingly ordinary small problems in the eyes of adoptive parents are not put in the heart, but for the biological parents, the child is after all a flesh and blood relative, the parents see the pain in the eyes, and the child is bleeding in the nosebleed parents' heart. Later, the husband and wife took their children to the hospital for examination, and the doctor said that if they did not pay attention to the condition in the back, it would cause nasopharyngeal cancer to be life-threatening.
After this incident, the husband and wife saw the true face of Nie Yongqiang, after all, the child was not born to the Nie family, and in many ways they could not take care of it, and finally decided to take the child back to raise him personally. If Nie Yongqiang does not cooperate, he will file a lawsuit with the court and follow them through legal procedures to the end.
Later, we consulted with the local government and learned that Nie Yongqiang's act of adopting Yuanyuan was not legally effective, because Nie Yongqiang never registered with the local government when he took in Yuanyuan.
Did Nie Yongqiang know about jin Mantian's poor health? If you know, why don't you take your child to the treatment, is the love for your daughter feigned? When I came to Nie Yongqiang's house to find out, I saw Nie Yongqiang's mother very reluctantly packing her luggage, and the luggage was full of clothes that yuanyuan had used before.
Nie Yongqiang's mother wiped her tears and tried to forget this granddaughter, you can see that this grandmother has truly regarded the fate as a family, and now for a while can not convince the granddaughter to become someone else's child, Nie Yongqiang took out a piece of paper on his mobile phone, this paper is placed in the child's clothes, on which the specific matters of the birth of the child are recorded in black and white.
The Nie family has never been able to accept the fact that the child has become someone else's family, and they are extremely sad about the departure of the fate, they know that if the child is raised by the biological parents, they will never see the fate again, and the Nie family misses the fate and wants to see each other again as a final farewell.
On this day, Nie Yongqiang still planned to talk to Jin Mantian again about the last time he saw the child. Can Nie Yongqiang see the last side of the child smoothly? This also happened at the beginning of the video quarrel, the two people who just met did not talk well, and then Nie Yongqiang was ashamed of being a father by Jin Mantian, not only did not take good care of the child but abused the child.
Nie Yongqiang never admitted to the abuse of the child, he began to accuse Jin Mantian dog of biting Lü Dongbing, not knowing the good heart, he worked hard to pull the child up, and now he took the child away and did not let him see the last side of the child. The two people did not speculate for more than half a sentence and finally broke up unhappily.
Nie Yongqiang's wife said that the child was scattered without the family, and it was because of this child that she was willing to stay in the Nie family and Nie Yongqiang to live a good life, and now the fate was taken back by her biological parents to raise, and since then this family has no fate, then this family has no meaning for her, and this family has no place for her to be attached to.
In the end, after this incident, the Nie family was left with only a mess, and the departure of fate made the family completely fall apart. When the Tyndal effect appeared, the light had a shape from then on, and when the fate appeared in the Nie family, the Nie family had light from then on.
For the practice of Jin Mantian and his wife, it is really impossible to agree, no matter how Nie Yongqiang gave the child a home when they abandoned the child, the family saved money and used to pull the child up, and the grace of dripping water was repaid by the spring.
Even if there is no merit and hard work, they do not remember family affection and old feelings, but in the end, the husband and wife did not give Nie Yongqiang and the child a good farewell. People always have to live with regrets, time is silent, let it be slowly released!