Author: Alaya
If in "Dream of the Red Chamber", everyone recognizes the bad guys, then Madame Wang must be at the top of the list. But what kind of life made Lady Wang become Lady Wang?
(a) A loud man?
Re-reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", Grandma Liu described Madame Wang as a loud and fast person.
The meaning of this sentence is that the Wang girl who has not yet married is also a girl like Wang Xifeng when she is a girl in her own home.
However, from the beginning to the end, Madame Wang did not ring faster. In the years of marrying Jia Zheng, what did a woman experience, and finally look different?
Jia Wang Shi Xue Si, because of common interests, so they married each other. At that time, the Wang family had two daughters to be married, and the Jia family also had two sons to be married.
However, Jia Shu, who was the lord of the raid, did not marry any of the girls of the four major families, but hired one from the outside, and this person had no life in the book, so he was not a girl of the four major families.
It can also be seen that Jia Mu prefers the second son, and the daughter of the Wang family is hired for him. Although it is said that the eldest sister does not marry, the younger sister cannot be one step ahead of the sister, but if Jia Mu insists, it is still unknown who the daughter of the Wang family marries Jia Zheng.
Therefore, from Jia Mu's standpoint, this daughter-in-law is her favorite.
Jia Mu favored Wang Xifeng and liked Wang Xifeng's lively nature, so it can be seen that Lady Wang at that time was also this character, and only then did she get Jia Mu's blue eyes.
After marrying Jia Zheng, the lively and lively Lady Wang found that her husband was an extremely disciplined and rigid person.
Jia Zheng, who has such a personality, naturally does not like his wife to be too lively, in order to get her husband's heart, Wang Xifeng had to put away her original personality.
However, the personality of a long time cannot be changed overnight, so the original Lady Wang must be inferior in front of Jia Zheng.
It is precisely because of this that Jia Zheng only has respect for Madame Wang, but no warmth and smallness.
Time will wear away all hopeless feelings, and Madame Wang began to bet her feelings on her children, fortunately, the eldest son is eager to learn and is expected to obtain a meritorious name, and the eldest daughter is dignified and virtuous. These two people are Madame Wang's greatest hope in the Jia family.
It is also Madame Wang's greatest happiness in the days without Jia Zheng. Until the birth of Jia Baoyu, who was born with Jade, this son is more like a jewel in the palm of his hand, and Madame Wang can also be regarded as a winner in life.
But all the changes are for the so-called family continuation.
In order to observe the intentions, the Jia family must send a girl into the palace door. And the best candidate is the beautiful and talented Jia Yuanchun.
No mother would want her daughter to go to that man-eating place, and once she entered the palace, she would no longer be a lady, but a slave, and I was afraid that she would never see her in this life.
However, there was a mother-in-law Jia Mu and a husband Jia Zheng, and Lady Wang could not be the lord of her daughter at all, so she had to send her daughter into the palace door with tears.
In order to make her daughter Qingyun straight up, Lady Wang had to urge her eldest son to grow up and study, and only when the mother's family was confident, the daughter in the palace could come out.
Carrying his mother's greatest hope, Jia Zhu began to study day after day. But under strong pressure, there will be a rebound, and Jia Zhu died in her mother's night and day hope.
In the face of her daughter marrying away, her son leaving, and the husband and wife separating, Madame Wang finally lived as the wives of all the princes and ministers.
(2) A person who eats fasting and prays to the Buddha?
I was worn out by the deep house and began to chant the Buddhist sutras to pass the time.
Originally, Baoyu was Madame Wang's support, but this support was still in Jia Mu's hands. Originally, Madame Wang, who had both children and daughters, had nothing for a while.
At the beginning of the story, Madame Wang gave the image of eating and praying to the Buddha, and everything did not matter. Only when Jia Mu took the younger generation to play, Madame Wang would appear next to Jia Mu in a regular manner and wait with her mother-in-law.
And there are very few things that can shake Madame Wang's emotions, and the only few times are related to her only son, Jia Baoyu. Angry at Jin Jun, because Jin Ju seduced Bao Yu. Angry at Jia Huan, because Jia Huan burned Bao Yu.
Madame Wang had her own wrists, although she didn't care about anything, but the power was all in her hands, as long as she said a word, Wang Xifeng would hand it over. Pinching Aunt Zhao is to hold Jia Tanchun in her own hands and let the mother and daughter centrifuge. These means are the means that everyone's daughter should have.
However, the original appearance of the daughter of the Wang family can never return to the original.
In fact, in the Jia family, there has never been a Lady Wang, only Mrs. Jia Er.
The wang girl can be lively and delicate, but when she marries a wife, she must abide by the rules and live for her husband's preferences. As a daughter-in-law, you must serve your mother-in-law, and you must not make a splash in front of your mother-in-law and avoid her sharp edge. To be born as a mother is to plan for the life of her children.
Perhaps the grievances have been more, and the once naïve self has been shelved.
Madame Wang has never been a person who eats and prays to the Buddha, but in the Jia family, she needs such a person, she needs such a daughter-in-law, so Madame Wang must become such a person.
The former Wang Girl, after all, lived into the appearance of an ancient well without waves, like a pool of stagnant water, which is respectable and far away.
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