Some time ago, the Internet was discussing the mother named Zhang Lijun in "The Human World".
She risked her life to give birth to her daughter Xiaolongbao, so as not to make her husband too lonely after she left.
Is this thing worth it?
In fact, similar things have happened in Japan. Girls with colorectal cancer give up treatment in order to give birth to a healthy child and eventually leave to see the world.
The girl' name is Kazuto Endo, and she is optimistic and cheerful, full of fantasies about the future.
But at the age of 21, the sudden bad news deprived her of her originally peaceful and casual life.
She was diagnosed with colorectal cancer, still in an advanced stage, and there was no hope of a cure.
At first hearing the news, Endo and Kazumi were almost heartbroken. But fortunately, her boyfriend will not abandon her and have been around to take care of her, which has rekindled The fighting spirit of Endo.
Later, he proposed to Endo.
In 2019, Ichiwa Endo and Kazu officially married. Soon after, Endo and kazumi discovered that she was pregnant.
Because the situation at Endo and that time was not good, whether this child should stay or not, the husband and wife discussed for a long time.
Kazuto Endo said that his life was short, and it would be a very happy thing if he could give birth to a child and continue his life.
Eventually, Endo and Kazu decided to give birth to the child, and for the sake of the child's health, Endo and Gritted Teeth did not take painkillers that would interfere with the baby's brain development.
In the process of receiving treatment, in order to leave the children with the clothes and daily necessities they will use in the future, Endo carefully selects children's clothing from birth to 10 years old according to the children's height and weight reference chart.
At 28 weeks of pregnancy, Kazuto Endo had to undergo surgery for an early caesarean section because the cancer had spread. It is gratifying that after the unremitting efforts of the doctor, one day in July 2020, The daughter of Endo came to this world safely with hope.
However, because it was a premature baby, the baby lived in the incubator for a while.
The birth of his daughter made Endo and Endo feel very happy.
But childbirth also caused greater trauma to Endo's body, and she became weaker after being terminally ill.
Thinking of the illness that may come at any time, Endo and while taking care of their daughter, they wrote down what they wanted to say to their daughter in the form of a VLOG and a diary, and made a time capsule for her, which contained a bib she had made by herself, a handbag for the 357th festival, and a handkerchief she carried in elementary school.
In May 2021, Kazuto Endo's body deteriorated dramatically to the point where he could not eat or drink. The attending doctor gave her an ultimatum and told her family not to be surprised if she died next week.
July is my daughter's first birthday. Kazuto Endo said to his daughter:
"I want to spend my birthday with you next year, and I want to live well!"
Unfortunately, in September of the same year, Kazuto Endo died.
After The death of Kazu Endo, her husband shared her deathbed diary with the public and wrote the book "Even If Mom Is No Longer in This World".
The story of Kazuto Endo is also known to more people.
However, her affair has also attracted a lot of controversy.
Some people feel that knowing that their lives are short, but insisting on giving birth to children is actually a kind of adult "self-touch", and it is a very painful thing for children to grow up in a family without maternal love.
Some people also feel that this kind of maternal love is great, a continuation of life.
"It was so sad, I was in tears. Even though Endo was miserable every day, she laughed to the end for her children. What a great mom. ”
But anyway, it was Endo and his own choice.
As Kazuto Endo said, time is just an infinitely extending arrow for a person, and how to create surprises on it is more meaningful than prolonging it.
Finally, I would like to say that before the accident and tomorrow comes, we must cherish and strive to love everyone around us.