On the Internet, I saw a passage, a woman with 3 children went to the aunt's house to visit the door, the aunt was sweeping the yard, saw a huge group of people, hurriedly closed the door.
There are exaggerated elements in the paragraph, but in life, there are really relatives who do not welcome too many people to come to the house, when we visit the door with children, if the relatives say these 3 kinds of "secret language", it seems to be retained, and really wants you to leave, you don't really stay and don't go.
1, "When it's time for dinner, stay and eat"
Li Juan's family has 2 children, which is the time to be naughty.
When I arrived at my aunt's house, my aunt returned from the magic capital, prepared a lot of delicious snacks, and specially took out a box of white chocolates to entertain the children.
The two children suddenly fell in love with white chocolate, ate a box but were not addictive, pulled their cousin outside, and asked the cousin to take some more out of the house.
The cousin said with embarrassment: "There is not much white chocolate, my mother explained that I will not let it be taken randomly, and some guests can only take some out." ”
"Aren't we guests?" Besides, your mother is my aunt, look at how close we are, she will certainly not say anything? At the instigation of their cousins and cousins, the 3 children carried the adults on their backs and quietly ran into the bedroom.
They pulled out white chocolates from drawers, sat on the ground and ate them, left wrapping paper in the box, and a few children had fun and ran to the bed.
If it weren't for a child falling to the ground, the adults wouldn't have realized that the aunt had entered the room, seen the mess in the house, understood what was happening, and criticized her own child.
Seeing Li Juan reprimanding the child, the aunt quickly stopped: "It's okay, the little child, they are very naughty, the big New Year's Day, don't talk about the child, I will give you the money for the year." ”
The 2 children took the red envelope and ran away happily, and the aunt said to Li Juan: "It's time for dinner, stay and eat, I have prepared a table of dishes." ”
If the children were not naughty, Li Juan really wanted to stay, but seeing the children running around, she was worried about causing trouble again, and found an excuse to leave.
If you have children at home, go to a relative's house, no matter how enthusiastic the other party is, teach the child some etiquette.
First, do not take the initiative to run to the room to play, the room is a private space, the child can run back and forth in the living room, but go to the master's bedroom, it is a bit inappropriate.
Second, do not ask for gifts and red packets, there are some passages on the Internet, shooting children to red packets, it looks very interesting, in fact, it is very impolite, the gift given by the host, you can appropriately want, if the other party does not give, do not ask for it, it is easy to be despised.
2, "Don't go back, there is a place to live at home"
On the second day of the Chinese New Year, Sun Hong took the child back to her mother's house, she and her sisters chatted in the courtyard, and her husband and brother drank too much wine and fell asleep on the sofa.
At four o'clock in the afternoon, the brother and sister-in-law prepared a meal and asked Sun Hong's family not to leave, and there was a place to live in the family.
Sun Hong looked at her husband who had not yet woken up from drinking, and really agreed, and her mother pulled her aside: "Hong, you can't stay, take advantage of the fact that it is still dark and hurry back." ”
Sun Hong had not yet understood: "Didn't my sister-in-law say that there was a room to live in?" Besides, I'm not skilled in driving, and it's okay to go back, and I can go again tomorrow. ”
The mother shook her head: "The sister-in-law is polite, but you are an adult, you should be measured in doing things, you can stop interacting with people, it is easy to offside if you don't grasp the distance well, there is a place at home, but do you think it is convenient for the family to live here?" Will it cause trouble for the sister-in-law? ”
Sun Hong understood this, shouted to her husband to quickly wash her face, and said goodbye to her sister-in-law: "There is a call from home, there are guests coming, we have to go back, thank you sister-in-law for hospitality." ”
The sister-in-law smiled, obviously relieved, Sun Hong felt blushing, and she almost caused trouble for her brother and sister-in-law because she did not understand things.
When visiting relatives' homes, pay attention to two points.
First of all, drink moderately, do not drink too much because of greed, it is easy to lose attitude after drinking, and it is also impolite.
Secondly, no matter how enthusiastic the host stays, you also have to leave, decent, is a person's cultivation.
3, "Don't go, I'll say hello to my friends and come back right away"
There are more people who visit relatives in the New Year, and sometimes, there will be several waves of people going to a family at the same time to visit the New Year, and I have met.
Taking the children to my cousin's house for the New Year, we came early, and my cousin talked with her for a while, and told me to stay and eat.
Just as we were chatting, my cousin's brother's family came, she quickly greeted her, sister and brother rarely got together, she was very excited, holding the child twice.
I know it's time to say goodbye, not because the place is small, but because the guests are far and near, and they must know how to give each other some space.
If you have been there, the cousin will have to allocate part of the energy to greet you, but it will affect the communication between the brother and sister, when we say goodbye, there are friends again, the cousin let us wait a little longer, she said hello to the friend and came back.
I gave her a hug and told her not to worry, to greet her friends and brother's family, I just happened to have a friend here, and I made an appointment to meet, so I didn't stay.
Give each other a step and both sides say goodbye happily.
Visiting relatives in the New Year, which seems to be a very simple guest, is actually a good time to teach children to get along with people.
1. Teach children to take the initiative to say hello.
Children may not know so many relatives, parents can introduce their children in advance, let the children know who to go to to visit the New Year, and take the initiative to greet the elders when they enter the door.
2, do not make loud noises at relatives' homes.
You can look around the house with an adult in the presence of an adult, but don't make a loud noise, and don't treat it as your own home, holding a pen and scribbling at will.
3. Politely say goodbye when parting.
The parenting of children reflects the cultivation of parents.
It is the duty of parents to teach children to be civilized guests, no matter how enthusiastic the relatives are, they must leave on time, the relatives are also very busy, keep you is a scene, you do not take it seriously.
Write at the back:
Walking with relatives properly can add points to your own image, and at the same time, you can enhance your feelings.
New Year is not only eating and drinking, but also a rare holiday, you can accompany your child, tell him about the New Year's fun when you were a child, and teach your child some etiquette, so that while walking and talking, the New Year will become more meaningful.
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