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I have watched "Gone with the Wind" and was touched by the heroine Scarlett. She lived during the Civil War, beautiful, courageous, strong, self-reliant, and an idol in the hearts of many men.
Her life, although she has experienced war, life is also full of twists and turns, ups and downs. But Scarlett has always been strong, and she has never lost faith in her life.
Reading "Gone with the Wind" can give people a positive energy and let you understand that even if you are in deep trouble, you can live a wonderful life.
Of course, the most touching thing is Scarlett's love story. It teaches us to face love and life correctly, even if everything is difficult, as long as we have faith, tomorrow will be a sunny day.
"Gone with the Wind" tells us: In addition to love, the really important things in life are the same.
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Scarlett before the war, proud and arrogant
Scarlett before the war, as the daughter of a farmer, her wealth and status gave her a strong sense of vanity.
She didn't like to read, and she wasn't interested in music or academia at all. Every day like a boy, riding a horse through the grasslands, attracting attention and making the most of the limelight.
Scarlett is self-centered at every turn, she is like a dazzling star, making other girls envious.
Unexpectedly, Scarlett fell in love with Ashley. Ashley was very ordinary, just a very ordinary boy. This really answers the saying that the power of love is the greatest.
However, Ashley is already engaged to Melanie, and he loves melanie, who is thin and small. However, Scarlett was not reconciled, and tried many times to snatch love in front of Melanie, but without success.
Scarlett's solipsistic personality makes her suffer on the road of love. Even after being rejected by Ashley many times, Scarlett still did not give up, because it was her first love.
Although rejected by Ashley, Scarlett maintains the same pride and beauty, and the same confidence in life. Scarlett always said that the things that could not be thought of would be handed over to tomorrow, and when tomorrow came, everything would be fine.
Some people say that Scarlett fell in love with Ashley because of the "scarcity principle".
Psychologists explain the "scarcity principle" that when something is difficult to obtain, people will feel that the thing is more valuable and want to get it more.
The same is true of Scarlett's affection for Ashley. She thought he was beautiful, and she wanted him. The more he was rejected, the more he felt that he was unique in the world.
It is said that love to a certain extent, the other party in their own eyes no one can replace.
But it has to be said that as long as you are excellent, at any time, people who love you will not be scarce.
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Scarlett in battle, strong and brave
After the outbreak of war, Scarlett went from a woman who coveted enjoyment to a shrewd and capable "family member".
Tara plantation has nothing, the mother has died, the father is delirious, and the family of more than a dozen people are waiting to eat. In the face of a series of blows and dilemmas, Scarlett did not flinch and survived strongly.
She was also in pain and despair. But she told herself that she couldn't give up and that she had to keep her family alive. She lost her identity as a young lady and began to work like her subordinates.
Tears, scars, humiliation, no less injuries, but Scarlett persevered.
Scarlett suffered a lot, there was no good vision or fantasy about the future, and the only wish in her heart was to let everyone survive.
Strong and beautiful Scarlett, even if she is so indomitable, but just as sad.
She met Charles in the war, met Frank, met Brad, all of whom were deeply in love with her, but Ashley was always Scarlett's "hard to reconcile".
Many times, even the most shrewd person will lose to the word "love".
Scarlett, despite her hardships, is still struggling to live. She let a large family of people not starve and freeze in the war, but greeted a better tomorrow with confidence.
Although Scarlett fell in love, she did not bow to fate, giving everyone the confidence and morale to live.
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Scarlett after the war, stubborn and self-reliant
After the war, Scarlett had a clearer understanding of money and a more rational understanding of reality. She paid for a sawmill and started her own boss.
To her, all of this may seem a bit outrageous, but it is Scarlett's thoughts, starting from simplicity to maturity.
With extraordinary courage, she resisted all kinds of public opinion in society, made one shocking move after another, and constantly adapted herself to the times and society.
Scarlett is lucky, her career is very smooth, every time she encounters something difficult, there is always someone to solve her mystery.
However, it is such a lucky person, but extremely unfortunate in love.
Scarlett is a realistic person, but she treats love romantically.
She loved Ashley, but she couldn't. Only Brad knew her and gave her love and money. She eventually falls in love with Brad, but it's too late, and Brad leaves her.
In the end, Scarlett is abandoned by everyone, both materially and mentally, and suffers an unprecedented blow, and she has turned herself into a tragedy.
In fact, not only Scarlett, but everyone in real life may get on the wrong love train, resulting in regret for life.
As Mo Yan said: "People who have loved desperately will always be separated; those who get along perfunctorily stay with each other, this is life." ”
In life, not everything can be done at will, especially in terms of feelings, sometimes you will miss many people because you wait for one person.
However, looking back later, it wasn't the guy you were waiting for that person you loved, but the guy you missed.
Just like Scarlett, who says she is a tragedy, she is actually the archetype of us in life. However, after reading other people's stories, we must learn to make ourselves live a better life, learn from each other's strengths, and make people's lives more brilliant.
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How can a person live a lifetime without regret? After watching "Gone with the Wind", I found the answer.
That is, never bow to life, even if you encounter more unsatisfactory, more difficulties, and even more heartbreak, you must be brave to face and live well.
In "Gone with the Wind", although Scarlett is not perfect, her spirit of facing life is inspiring and worth learning.
As Yu Xiuhua said: "Even if I am not perfect, or even I am not sound, my heart can be abundant and complete." If you want to live, you must have a strong spirit, and this is the only attitude to live. ”
May we all be like Scarlett, with a scrappy determination in life; the courage to thrive in our careers; and not to miss out in love, and to meet the right person.
Let your life be full of joy and let your days be full of sunshine.