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Psychological research has shown that the production of love is accompanied by the secretion of hormones, so loving a person will produce a certain physiological response, which is an instinct and cannot be controlled by man.
In the same way, those who don't love you can't pretend, no matter what happens, he can always act extremely calm in front of you, even if you are angry and hysterical, he is still extremely calm.
It's not because he has a strong emotional management ability, but it may also be because he doesn't care about you at all.
Even if he has some kind of desire for you on certain occasions, it is only a simple desire and has nothing to do with love.
Love between adults has always been realistic, and love will make you feel it, and love will not be felt in any way.
To know if a man really has you in his heart, whether he really loves you from the bottom of his heart, you don't have to ask for verification, you just need to ask your heart.
If he has the following three impulses in front of you, most of them love you deeply, especially the third point, you must understand.
One: the impulse of the eyes, seeing you will make the corners of your eyes smile
Some people say that liking someone can't be hidden, and even if you don't admit it, it will run out of your eyes.
Indeed, anyone who has had a love experience understands that the eyes do not lie, and a person who loves someone will involuntarily look at her, even if she is in the crowd, she can lock in for the first time.
Because at this time, you only have her in your heart, so you can no longer tolerate anyone in your eyes.
In Margaret Mitchell's novel Gone with the Wind, the male protagonist Brad fell in love with Scarlett at first sight, at a ball, and there were many people, but Brad's gaze was hardly left.
Not only that, when he looked at Hao Sijia, the corners of his eyes were smiling, which was an appreciation and a kind of love.
After all, At that time, Hao Sijia was completely different from other women, she dared to be her true self, never pretentious, and because of this, she was always radiant and attracted the eyes of the opposite sex.
Two: The impulse generated by the body can't help but want to be close to you
Every relationship needs to go through a step-by-step process, initially unfamiliar, not too presumptuous, so whether it is speech or behavior, it will show extreme restraint.
Once you get acquainted, or confirm the relationship, you become bold.
Men in front of the women they like, always can't help their own desires, want to be close to each other, such as holding hands, hugging, kissing, and even further intimate contact, etc., this is an instinct, almost difficult to control.
But men who truly love you will respect your choices and will not offend you and force you in any way without asking for your consent.
On the contrary, if a man does not respect you and only cares about himself, most of them show that he is not sincere with you, and his character is problematic, and he may not be worthy of your love and trust.
Three: The urge to spend the rest of your life together, wanting to marry you and be with you forever
Some men ostensibly say they love you, but in fact they just talk about it and rarely do something practical.
And some men sincerely want to spend the rest of their lives with you, he wants to marry you, will take you to see his parents, will prepare for marriage with care, and will show his greatest sincerity to win your trust.
So many people say that if you want to judge whether a man really loves you or is playing a scene, just look at whether he wants to get married.
We have long passed the age of listening to love, and it is useless to say love words beautifully, only real actions can really make people feel at ease and at ease.
When a man says he loves you, don't be in a hurry to believe it, if it is true love, it will inevitably stand the test of time. He will carefully plan and create a future that belongs to you and him, which will make you feel down-to-earth and feel safe.
And the men who make you suffer and make you think wildly are either not loving enough or not loving at all.
True love may not be love at first sight, but it will stand the test of time and will endure under the polishing of time.
A man who loves you from the bottom of his heart will have certain impulses in front of you, but he will restrain his actions unless he has your consent. Such men are mature, sane, and at the same time trustworthy and trustworthy.
If you meet a man who treats you like this, please be sure to cherish it, after all, true love can not be sought.
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