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A woman's whole life, forgetting these three types of people, can live well

In this life, people meet all kinds of people, some people make you happy for a while, some people make you sad, but as long as they are not around you now, it is the past.

And the people and things of the past, whether they get it or not, should now abandon them and go into battle lightly, so that it is possible to empty their bodies and hearts and reload new people.

If you are immersed in it all the time, you will only end up squandering the years and wasting your time, and when you wake up, it may be too late.

You can have many people in your life, but these three types of people, no matter what, must also forget that you may live well in the future.

Which three types?

First, forget about the people you used to love

If the person you loved in the past can still accompany you, it is a kind of luck, and it is a feeling that many people envy and cannot come, but it is impossible to find.

But more often than not, the person you used to love now doesn't know where the end of the world is, and you and him may only have those memories.

But some people will always be immersed in these doubts, can not come out, even if there are people who love her, she will miss the past.

Maybe you don't get it to miss it more, or you may really love deeply and can't forget it, but doing so will only make you lose even the love you have now.

Scarlett has always thought of Ashley in her heart, and she has constantly hurt Brad for him, feeling that she can't forget in her heart, and ignoring the things and tolerance that Brad has done for her.

It wasn't until Brad really left that she knew that he had already left an unforgettable love in his heart, but in the past he stubbornly thought that he could not live without Ashley, so he missed so many opportunities.

There may be an open ending in the movie, and there is a possibility of coming back, but what about life?

Maybe this walk is a lifetime.

For the past loved people, and ignoring the present will only be regretted once.

No matter how much love you have, since you were not together in the first place, then learn to forget the people of the past, be nice to the people around you, and the days will go forward.

Forget about the person you once loved, put him in a corner, let him out of your heart, in short, your world can not be only him.

Spending all your thoughts on today's lovers and lives is the right choice.

Always nostalgic for the past will not only make you lose the ability to be happy, but also lose love.

Love, that clean and honest love has blossomed, then now it is time to uproot and replant new seeds in order to blossom and bear fruit.

Forget about the people who have hurt you

Everyone wants their life to go smoothly, but it is inevitable that they will encounter different pains.

The pain of love is especially difficult to repair, but with the pain there is no way to love and live again.

Forgetting is not forgiveness, it's just that those people don't deserve your trouble, and they shouldn't take up your space.

If because of these injuries, there is no way to get rid of the pain, you can only say that it is unfair to yourself.

In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan was injured by the emperor, and if she had been carrying this pain, then she would not have had such a relationship with the King of Guojun.

Hurt doesn't need to be forgotten, but learn to make yourself feel better, because the person who hurt you doesn't care if you're having a good or bad life, and if you cry in the distance, I'm afraid he won't be half heartbroken.

I'm afraid that when I see you again, if you still look aggrieved, he will only be glad that he left.

Make yourself happy, make yourself strong, and your thinking will change with it.

Forget about people who don't love you

If the person you have loved still has a trace of nostalgia, then the person who does not love you does not need to be reassured.

Because everything you have is not worth mentioning in his eyes, you care about his words and deeds, but he is indifferent to the big things you do.

Unequal feelings are really useless.

A girl said that she liked a boy, waited for him outside every day, and sent him something, but he never accepted it, telling her that he didn't want to be in love, only wanted to work.

The girl thought, then I will wait for him to want to fall in love.

But she didn't know until one day she saw the boy and another girl talking and laughing, and giving her clothes and gifts.

It turned out that he didn't want to be in love, he just didn't love me.

Later, she went to study, improved herself, and met someone else.

If a person who doesn't love you has always been in your heart, how do you start a new life?

People who are too entangled in not loving you will gradually forget themselves.

There is nothing that cannot be let go.

As the time goes by, when you look back, you will find that the feelings you once thought you could not let go of are just a springboard in your life that makes you grow.

All feelings are only in the present, not in the past nor in the future.