Mr. Yang Dai said in the "Speech of one hundred years old": "In this materialistic world, life is really bitter enough. ”
"Life is in the world, there are nine times out of ten unsatisfactory things", when life is difficult, you may wish to read this book and rely on these 4 words to come out.
This book is "Gone with the Wind."
01 Tough
Gone with the Wind!
The beauty here is not only a beautiful face, but also a tough quality. At Scarlett's father's funeral, the neighbor's old lady, the stubborn old lady, spoke to Scarlett with an enlightening word.
The old lady compared two kinds of wheat, one was a quinoa and the other was wheat. When a storm comes, both the barley and the wheat fall. But the wheat will be broken and will never be able to stand up again, but the wheat will not, because it is tough, and when the storm has passed, it will get back on its feet and live better.
This is more like two attitudes to life!
And tenacity is an invaluable quality.
"I can be knocked down, but I'm definitely not going to be beaten."
People live for a lifetime, just a few decades, ups and downs, only tenacity, life will become more and more charming, more and more meaningful, the more alive the more there is a head.
Scarlett's tenacity is worth reading carefully and will always inspire us.
Her family was well-off, her father was a slave owner, and her mother was a bridesmaid. The original happy life was broken by the war, even if the loved ones were vague about her, even if they lost their mother, even if the father was insane, even if she wanted to raise a large family after the war, even if the war had left her homeland in ruins, she would still "stand up" and try all kinds of ways to hold the day in her hands.
02 Hope
"Tomorrow is a new day" is the most classic quote in the whole book, which is widely circulated.
Scarlett also relied on this sentence to give herself hope again and again, and struggled forward in the predicament again and again.
Because there is hope, the present day is temporary and more meaningful no matter how difficult it is; because there is hope, let him pass in the past, do not have to sink, let alone regret; because there is hope, so there is courage and motivation.
The war shattered the old system, and the beauty of the past will never be repeated. After the war, people like Vichy would only spend their days in nostalgia for the past and could not extricate themselves. The living of the walking dead has long lost any enthusiasm for life, and he cannot see the future, let alone hope.
But Scarlett is different, she lives vigorously, she lives in the present, she forgets the past, she has no time to think, she has too many things to do, she wants to have money, to have food, to live a good life, she believes more that such a day will come.
Whether there is hope in my heart or not, the thought is a world of difference.
Roman Rowland in his famous book John. There is a famous saying in Christophe, "Most people die at the age of twenty or thirty, because after this age, they are only shadows of themselves, and the rest of their lives are spent imitating themselves, day after day, more mechanically, more pretentiously repeating what they did, thought, loved and hated in their lifetimes." ”
As long as you live, you can't give up the hope of a better life.
Xiaojiao Heart Language:
Tenacity and hope are the two qualities that people need most in difficult situations, and with these four words, they will certainly be able to get out of the bitter cold and usher in the day of spring and warm flowers.