My name is Li Qiang, I am 28 years old and I have just been discharged from the army. I was born in an ordinary rural family, and my parents were hard-working and simple farmers. I have had a military sentiment since I was a child, so I chose to join the army as an adult. During my time in the army, I developed a strong will and excellent skills, but I also missed a lot of time with my family and friends because of long hours of training and tasks.
After being discharged from the military, I returned to my hometown and started looking for work. Although I have a military background and skills, it is not easy when it comes to finding a job. Many units are more inclined to recruit experienced staff, and I, as a newly discharged soldier, obviously have no advantage in this regard.
Just when I felt lost and helpless, a chance chance made me meet a rich woman - Mr. Lin. Lin is always the owner of a large business in our town, she runs a variety of industries and is a well-known figure in the town. When she heard that I was looking for a job after I was discharged from the military, she approached me and asked if I would like to be her driver.
Considering my current situation, I did not hesitate to agree to Mr. Lin's invitation. In this way, I became Mr. Lin's full-time driver.
Although Mr. Lin is a strong woman, he is a gentle and considerate person in private. She would often chat with me in her free time and ask about my life and family. I would also share with her interesting stories and experiences in the army, and our relationship gradually became closer.
However, what I didn't expect was that Mr. Lin would call me "husband" at some point. At first, I thought she was joking or a slip of the tongue, but then I found out that she wasn't. Every time I was no, she would always call me with this affectionate name, which surprised and embarrassed me.
I don't know how to respond to her call, after all, our relationship is only that of an employer and an employee. I tried to remind her of our identity and relationship, but she always smiled and waved her hand, saying it was just a habit of hers and told me not to mind.
Gradually, I began to be troubled by this appellation. Although I am grateful for Mr. Lin's care and care for me, I don't want our relationship to become vague and ambiguous. I began to consciously or unconsciously avoid being alone with her and minimize contact between us.
However, Mr. Lin didn't seem to notice the change in me. She still treats me as usual, and even more intimate at some times. I began to feel conflicted and tangled, and I didn't know how to deal with this complicated relationship.
One day, I finally mustered up the courage to express my thoughts to Mr. Lin. I told her that I appreciated her care and trust in me, but I didn't want our relationship to become blurred and ambiguous. I hope that we can maintain a clear and unambiguous relationship and not cause unnecessary distress to each other.
After listening to my words, Mr. Lin was silent for a long time. Instead of getting angry or blaming me, she said to me in an understanding tone, "I know your worries and concerns, and maybe I really didn't notice how much this problem was bothering you. I will respect your thoughts and feelings and will not call you that again in the future. ”
Hearing Mr. Lin's answer, I felt very relieved and grateful. I knew she was a smart and empathetic person who was able to understand my thoughts and feelings. Since then, our relationship has become clearer and more unambiguous, without the embarrassment and distress of the past.
Through this experience, I deeply realized how people get along with each other. Whether it is between friends or colleagues, it is necessary to maintain a clear and unambiguous relationship to avoid unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings caused by some vague and ambiguous titles.
Looking back now, I'm glad I was able to express my thoughts and feelings bravely. Although this process may be a bit awkward and difficult, only in this way can we better protect our dignity and rights and avoid falling into unnecessary troubles and disputes.