In this world, there are always one or two people who disgust you, or at least, make you feel uncomfortable. Sometimes, their presence is like a thorn in the thorn, and you have to find a way to get rid of it. But in this vast world, there are too many ways to solve problems, and there are too many options to take. After all, sometimes you need to be clever when dealing with relationships, and there may be a more elegant way to do it than to tear your face directly.
Ms. Leung, the editor-in-chief of a social and emotional magazine, has experienced many ups and downs in relationships. She has her own unique perspective and way of dealing with relationships. One day, she receives an email about someone she doesn't really like. She frowned, thinking to herself that maybe it was time to use her unique skills.
The person who doesn't like her is named Li Lei. He is a colleague of Miss Leung, and his work ability is average, but he is always full of negative energy, which brings unhappiness to everyone around him. Miss Leung couldn't help but think of his performance at the company's regular meetings, always scoffing at other people's ideas and ignoring the suggestions of colleagues. Such a person is really a headache.
Ms. Leung decided to take action. She did not choose to confront Li Lei directly, but started a subtle "mental game". She first chose a more subtle way to express her dissatisfaction. Every time she is in a regular meeting, she always deliberately puts forward some gentle and positive ideas, hoping to attract more people's attention and support. This made Li Lei feel a little challenged, and he began to work harder to express himself, trying to show more value in the meeting. Miss Liang secretly observed his changes, and secretly rejoiced in her heart.
However, Ms. Leung's plan didn't end there. She knows that it takes more time and patience to truly change a person's attitude. So, she began a series of small but ingenious actions. For example, in the company's pantry, she will take the initiative to talk to Li Lei for a few words, chat about some light-hearted and happy topics, and try to shorten the distance between each other. She will also give Li Lei some small help at work, so that he can feel her kindness and friendliness.
Time passed slowly, and Ms. Leung's efforts finally paid off. Li Lei began to gradually change his attitude and became more cheerful and positive. The relationship between him and Miss Liang has also quietly undergone subtle changes, from the initial estrangement to the current closeness. He began to be more willing to listen to others and to work with his colleagues. Miss Liang looked at all this and felt an inexplicable satisfaction and achievement in her heart.
In the end, the relationship between Miss Liang and Li Lei was reconciled, and they became friends in the true sense of the word. Ms. Leung understands that sometimes, you don't need to be straightforward in dealing with interpersonal relationships, but you need some patience and wisdom. She learned to use a gentler way to resolve interpersonal conflicts and disagreements. This not only made her life better, but also gave her a deeper understanding of human relationships.
This story teaches us that it takes not only courage and determination to deal with relationships, but also wisdom and patience. Sometimes, a soft heart is more effective than a sharp sword. In our lives, we might as well be more understanding and tolerant, and maybe there will be unexpected gains.