Winter vacation has arrived with brisk and pleasant steps, it is the leisurely mood of parents humming small songs, it is the happy smile of children's eyebrows, it is the streets and alleys where the morning and evening peaks can finally breathe a long breath.
The holidays are here, and the kids really have a lot to do. Checking and filling in the gaps, expanding hobbies, broadening horizons, hands-on work, and strengthening the body, this day is very fulfilling.
Winter vacation is a rest in the combination of work and leisure, and it is also a good time to level up the ability in an orderly manner. How do you spend each day to get the most out of your holidays? Below, I will share with you the effective winter vacation plan of the pro-test.
Hatching a plan – Identify the right opportunities to make a plan
Parents take the initiative to create opportunities and make plans with their children. When the child talked about the hope that the school would have a new atmosphere, the parents took the initiative to make holiday plans. The advantages of making a plan are obvious, one is that you can change from passive to active, and grasp the priority of spending time; the other is to be able to properly arrange what you should do and want to do, and make full use of time.
When a child makes a wish for winter vacation, it is also a good time. When the child makes a winter vacation wish, it happens to discuss with the child the order of the importance of the holiday activities, and use this as an opportunity to make a winter vacation plan to ensure that there is a reasonable time for learning and entertainment.
Parents should know the winter vacation arrangements well before their children. When brewing winter vacation plans with their children, parents should do their homework in advance so as not to be led by their children's noses and forgotten important things.
Plan Pilot – Test the feasibility of the plan
Test that the total daily plan is reasonable. If the content of the daily plan is too full, the child will have difficulties and easy to resist; if the plan content is too small, the child has too much free time, and it is easy to breed boredom, and even be filled in by bad habits. Therefore, it takes two or three days to adjust the plan so that the child can both bear and feel more fulfilling.
Verify that the contents of the plan are reasonable. The content of the plan should include academics, interests, housework, sports and other aspects. In this way, the overall plan can be balanced. My child's plan is mainly divided into three contents: "learning, playing, and practicing". "Learning" is academics, "refining" is exercise, and "playing" is to remove other aspects of these two.
Test that it fits your child's habits. Each child has their own habits, some like morning reading, some like morning exercise, and some like to arrange more in the evening. These two or three days of running-in period mainly test whether the plan echoes the child's habits, and then decide what to adjust.
Fixed schedule – Cut the plan into modularity
After careful grinding and adjustment, the plan has been basically finalized. At this time, the plan can be divided into three modules according to the daily schedule order: morning, afternoon, and evening. The goal is for both parents and children to have a clear understanding of the plan. Of the three modules I give my child, each contains three parts: "learning, playing, and practicing" to ensure a balanced plan. Of course, parents can also set up a variety of modes such as "morning learning, afternoon practice, and evening play", how to facilitate the arrangement of how to set.
Plan Execution – Make planning simple and easy
Memorize the plan. No matter how good the plan is, if it can't be executed, it's empty talk. Imagine if we finished one thing and went back to the notebook to see the next thing, such a tedious operation, the plan is not easy to execute. Comparatively speaking, if the plan is clear, the step by step is smooth. As long as parents and children divide the plan into modules, they will soon remember the full content of the plan.
Do fixed things in a fixed place. Let children do certain things in a specific place, just like we sit on the couch and want to watch TV, and walk into the kitchen and want to eat. Tell the child to learn at the desk, watch TV on the sofa, exercise in the living room, let the child and the environment to establish a good conditioned reflex, the behavior is not easy to chaos.
Set a starting point and a stop for everything in your plan. Doing so will make the entire program coherent. For example, eat breakfast, chat with the child for 10 minutes, and then, hand him a cup of yogurt, and take him into the study to study. After 1 hour, Zhang Luo's children washed and selected dishes together and prepared lunch. Next, take out the yoga mat, jump rope, exercise with the child, and sweat happily. Then, give the children free time to play, and we also just go to cook. When it's time to eat, call on the child to eat, at this time, whatever you are playing needs to be stopped.
By observing the above series of planning events, parents can easily find out the starting point and stop point of each activity, insist on repeating these points, and the child will naturally become familiar with this plan like wearing a sugar gourd. The advantages of this approach are particularly evident in ensuring the implementation of the plan.
In short, it makes sense to make a full and interesting winter vacation plan. I share some of my own experiences and experiences with you, and I am sure you can create a more effective upgrade on top of me. If the child resists the plan, it doesn't matter, first try to fix one or two items on a daily basis, and slowly the child will accept it.
Winter vacation is a holiday for children after all, don't turn it into a burden for children. In this long holiday, if you can regain the children's interest in learning that has just been worn out at the end of the term, and cultivate children to learn a few small skills that can be bragged at the beginning of the school, it is very successful.