Text/Flying Fish
Introduction, people to middle age, is a watershed in life, life has gone through half the journey, thousands of emotions.
When people reach middle age, they understand that life is not actually a long time in Japan.
After half a life, looking at the people who come and go around, I have made a lot of friends, but there are a few people who will always be with me.
After half a life, watching my parents grow old day by day, I realized how much time I had missed with my parents. When I was young, I always liked to go out and break in, and I didn't want to go home during the holidays.
Now that people have reached middle age, they have settled down and watched their children grow up, and they understand their feelings as parents.
When we are not careful, our parents have two sideburns and gray hair, looking at their old backs, only to find that the years are not coming to Japan.
The most regrettable thing in life is that the child wants to raise and does not wait.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, the deepest feeling is to cherish the present, cherish the people around them, and cherish the days with them. Be as kind to them as possible and get along with them so that you don't have any regrets.
When people reach middle age, they understand that in fact, saving money is a very reliable thing.
Ah Bao shared that when he was young before, he squandered 200,000 yuan in half a year, and now people think of their original self in middle age, they really don't want to think, there is a little money to spend randomly, if they think back before, they have already bought a house, but now they are middle-aged, still living in the old house with their parents.
When people reach middle age, they know how painful it is to have no money, and they also know how reliable it is to save money, do not squander money casually, learn to manage money, and when they encounter an emergency, they can take out some to emergency, and they will not look for people to borrow everywhere.
When people reach middle age, if they want to live a better life in the second half of their lives, they must also learn to plan ahead, learn to save money, plan reasonably, and manage their wallets, after all, the pension still depends on themselves.
When people reach middle age, they understand that there are not many friends, but truth.
When people reach middle age, in fact, the most gratifying thing is that there are three or two sincere good friends. True friends are better than thousands of nods.
Because sincere friends will really be good for you, and will also give you charcoal in the snow, and those friends who nod their heads will only add icing on the cake, but when you have an accident, they will hide far away and stand by.
When we were young, we all thought that we should expand our circle more, so that we have one more friend, one more way out, in fact, when you have gone through half a life, experienced a lot of things, and met many people, you understand that friends don't actually need a lot.
Therefore, after people reach middle age, they learn to clean up their circles, keep their circles clean, and their lives will become very clean.
When people reach middle age, they understand that to run marriage and family well is to manage their own lives.
Because people in this life, most of the time, still have to spend with your family, when you encounter things, only to find that the family is always your dependence and pillar.
Young couples come to each other, cherish your lover, because when you are old, ta is your best reliance.
Thinking of an old couple, they have come all the way, although they also like to mix mouths, but the husband has always let his wife, and never let the contradiction be put on the next day, always communicate and solve in time, in order to make the wife happy, will take the initiative to admit mistakes.
Whatever happens, the husband accompanies his wife to face it.
Therefore, in fact, those couples who can stay together until they are old are just the end of two people's careful management.
People reach middle age, have gone through half a life, there are people around you who stand at dusk with you, some people ask you porridge is warm, some people wait for you to go home, some people worry about you, simple life, but the deepest happiness.
Learn to cherish the present, after all, the next time you pass by, there is no self in the world.
Life is not a long day, to live up to all the encounters, cherish to deserve to have.
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Author: Flying Fish, deeply loves words, likes the minimalist slow life, holds a vegetarian pen, and writes about the warmth of the world.
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