The background received a message from a reader:
"I've been with my boyfriend for a little over half a year, but I'm still not sure if he really likes himself.
Many times, I message him and can't get a timely reply from him;
I don't know if he's really busy and doesn't have time to come back, or if he's just too busy with me.
But sometimes, what I say, he will take to heart.
Such uncertainty makes me very insecure in this relationship. ”
It's not hard to know if a person really likes you;
Look into the details and the answer will be revealed.
In particular, the following 3 points expose whether a man's feelings for you are true or false.
The speed with which you can reply to your messages
Heart-stirring is a matter of emotion, and liking and appreciating is like sneezing, not covering your mouth, you can cover it up.
So, to find out if a guy really likes you, just look at how quickly he responds to your messages.
The more people you love, the faster you'll be able to respond to your messages.
Of course, there can also be special times, such as: he is really busy.
But even if a person is busy, he will not reply to you all day and all day.
He may be really busy, but after he is busy, he will definitely reply to you in time;
Moreover, he will take the initiative to explain to you.
The person who really likes you, he must understand you.
Know that you are insecure in your relationship, so he will respond to everything about you.
And if a man, he doesn't like you deeply enough, just shallowly likes;
Well, your message is not so important to him.
When he plays the game, if he receives a message from you, he will choose to turn a blind eye;
Your message will not reply to you until he finishes playing the game.
So, you see, love or no love, in fact, can not be more obvious.
Will there be no response to everything you do
When Tang Yixin recorded "Happy Base Camp", he once said a sentence that impressed me deeply:
"With a boyfriend, you have everything."
As we all know, Tang Yixin and Zhang Ruoyun are a loving couple in the entertainment industry.
When the two people were not yet married, they fell in love with hot search because of Grace.
Zhang Ruoyun's love for her is really enviable.
She liked to eat cherries, so he planted a cherry tree at home.
She wanted to eat a fried chicken burger during her pregnancy, but she couldn't get out because of the epidemic;
He had never been out of the kitchen before, so he personally went to the battlefield, reading recipes and studying tricks.
For love confined day and night and kitchen.
You see, the people who love you are always looking for ways to satisfy you.
For him, your things are no big or small, every piece has a drop.
Men like this who will demand to love you wholeheartedly the way you want, even beyond your expectations;
I must have loved you to the bone.
And if a person, he responds to everything you can't do, and even often feels that you ask for too much;
Well, at the end of the day, he doesn't like you enough.
Will not give you their preferences
Sanmao said:
"If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, then I don't want it."
It is not pretentiousness, but that love is inherently selfish and cannot be shared with others.
When we meet in love, we should regard each other as our own uniqueness.
If you treat me and other people equally, then why do you say you love me?
So, I want to get your favor, and I want to be your firm choice without hesitation.
Indeed, preference is what girls in love want most.
This is the unique good you give me, the exclusive that only I have;
It is you who give me the sense of security, the secret and tacit understanding between us.
Like the rose that the little prince carefully cared for, the little prince told others:
"My rose, others think she is like you, but she alone is better than all of you."
This is the one-of-a-kind liking, blatant preference.
So, if a person, he really likes you, then, he will not skimp on his preference for you;
He will use his own preferences, with his own double standards, to tell everyone around him that he loves and only loves you alone.
And if a person, what he gives to you, and what he gives to others are the same;
When you are angry about this and play small, he will also blame you for not understanding things, saying that you are unreasonable.
At this time, you stop fooling yourself, he really doesn't love you.