January 23. Taizhou, Zhejiang. The 5-year-old boy threw the garbage downstairs on the roof of the shed, and his mother dragged him down with a safety rope to pick it up. Ms. Deng, the mother, said that the garbage was not all thrown away by her son, but he had participated in it and wanted to make him realize that this kind of behavior should not be done through this kind of education. Ms. Deng said that the rope tied was very strong, and the roof was colored steel tiles that could bear the weight of her son. Ms. Deng hopes that her son will be able to take responsibility for her actions in the future.
Positive encouragement to make children understand the positive impact of "doing the right thing".
The famous educator Mrs. Cigra said: "Children must understand that their every move will have different consequences." The consequences of this also include what positive effects "doing the right thing" will bring, we must encourage children to think seriously before doing things, have good judgment and prediction of things, and let things develop in the right direction. Give your child more opportunities to try, whether it is a big thing or a small thing, so that he can cultivate his sense of responsibility in the process of "doing the right thing" and learn to be responsible for his own behavior.
When the child's behavior has slight flaws, do not blame too much, tell the child about the possible consequences, and let the child decide for himself.
When something your child wants to do is too dangerous, tell him what can't be done and what can be done.
Family education is an enduring topic, and in this vivid teaching, parents and children are growing together.
Children will observe and imitate the behavior of their parents, so as to slowly form their own world view, parents are the mirror of children, and every interaction between parents and children is affecting children.