-01-
The Spring Festival of 2022, with a few days to go, is coming.
Perhaps, the Spring Festival in recent years, than the usual years, less festive, less reunion, some places, can only through video, telephone, through a sentence of blessings, a voice of entrustment, accompanied by the feeling of missing each other can not see each other, when the Spring Festival comes, to the relatives question mark, to the family to say hello.
However, the reason why life is beautiful is that it gives us hope from time to time; it is that when it is cloudy and sunny, there will always be a day that allows us to see the clear sky, the bright moon when the sky is empty, let us see the blue sky, the long white clouds.
Like, our lives.
People, the more they live, the more fragile they tend to be, but the more vicissitudes they have experienced, the more pits they have stepped on, and they have really become stronger and stronger, and gradually, they laugh without words, and they are in pain without words.
Every inch of time will have more understanding, and the landscapes and rivers you have walked through will have more cultivation.
In the past year, those who have been accompanied by others have given warmth; those who have been disappointed, the encouragement given; those memories that are as gentle as water... At the end of the year, it turned into a sense of gratitude and strengthened the road to the coming year.
There is no winter that cannot be crossed, and there is no spring that does not come.
Therefore, don't panic, don't mess around, simply live, let people leave as few regrets as possible in life, and live every day of the present with their hearts, so that everything is fine.
-02-
People always like to look forward to it when they are young, yearning to meet the beautiful, to meet the brilliant, to live warmly, and to love amazingly.
But the more I walk in the red dust, the more my heart desires to be indifferent, more and more to enjoy quiet, to yearn for tranquility, just to guard a corner of tranquility, in silence, quietly walking through the rest of my life.
Whether it is loneliness or timidity, it is a kind of fulfillment for oneself.
The Seven Heavenly Years once said: Many things in life are heavy and unspeakable.
Yes, in our lifetime, we will always let you experience some things, face some difficulties, be urged to exhaust the mountains and rivers, and then learn to downplay, learn to be calm and calm, and then, in the future experience, learn to smile and be quiet, learn to be quiet and peaceful.
Only because, if there is hope in the heart, it will give yourself comfort: after the wind and rain, there will always be a rainbow; walking through the mud, there will always be a kangzhuang avenue.
Yesterday's things, such as yesterday's death, today's things, such as today's birth.
Those who have suffered, those who have suffered sins, those who have been snubbed, those who have seen the sufferings... One day, it will be precipitated for your experience and achieve a better you.
-03-
Sanmao once said a sentence, very warm:
In fact, it is really a beautiful thing to be alive, not in how beautiful and spectacular the scenery is, but in who you meet, be warmed up, and then hope that one day you will become a small sun to warm others.
The road of life lies in the fact that in ordinary days, there are surprises in sadness, and warmth in bleakness.
Every day, we are eager to find the most beautiful fireworks in the chai rice oil and salt; every season, we want to have the peace of enjoying the flowers and the moon when we are idle.
There is a saying that goes well: you never know tomorrow and the unexpected, which one will come first.
When people are alive, don't always think about what tomorrow will be, what the future will be, because there will be tomorrow after tomorrow, as long as in the present, we have our own things to do, simply or, it is already very good.
Japan's ninety-year-old Grandma Hengzi once said:
Why do people feel uneasy? Most of the time, this uneasiness is due to thinking too much about the future. For the unpredictable future, when you think of "what to do if you fail", "what to do if something bad happens", you will feel uneasy, insomnia, do not know that the future may not let you get what you want, as long as you think clearly about today's day's events.
Yes, we always look forward to the future can be smooth, but the road, always take the current step by step steady, in order to have the opportunity to go smoothly in the future.
Therefore, thinking clearly about how to live today is already a success.
-04-
Li Bai Zeng Shiyun: Those who abandon me must not stay on yesterday's day; those who disturb my heart will be troubled on today's day.
I still remember when I first worked, there was always some confusion, some overwhelmed, facing complex relationships, facing problems encountered at work, and inner turmoil, indescribable.
But, man, when you lower your goal and just hold the idea of "making yourself simple to live", most of the time, you will no longer be obsessed with the problem of "working for what" and "where is the way forward", because you will simply simplify the goal - make money. Continuous work, there will always be a career that you like to do, and when you have the ability to raise yourself, you can have a better future.
The world is always changing rapidly, new things, cascading, few people will be lucky to do what they like to do, but we can improve our adaptability and get closer to our own likes.
If you can't even do a good job of basically raising yourself, why talk about dreams, let alone the future? Therefore, living a little simpler, doing a good job at the work at hand, supporting yourself well, raising your family well, and living a little more realistic is better than thinking about it every day.
The Buddha said that life is really hard, and the only way to cross is self-transit.
In this lifetime, people are a process of "going all the way".
Many of the things you are worried about at the moment, people who can't forget, looking back, are just a precipitated memory.
-05-
Life, don't live so hard, just live with your heart.
Li Bai Zeng Shiyun: Long winds and waves will sometimes hang directly on the clouds and sails to the sea.
People, always from impetuous, to gradually flat, gradually calm and sophisticated, from the young people stay up every night to late at night, three meals casually, to one day, start a regular schedule, regular exercise, plan a good time for themselves, be alone, or write, listen to music.
Only because when you experience some ups and downs in life, you will live more and more unconcerned, and more and more take some troubles as ordinary.
Just like Su Dongpo's life, all the way down sharply, but he is still happy to bask in the sun, still issuing "Who is afraid?" A smoke and rain for a lifetime" sigh.
Therefore, it is not that when you encounter difficulties, you have to live a twilight life, but the more you live, the more you have a normal heart, the more you live, the more you live out the joy of life.
After all, in our lifetime, there is no script to perform, and every second is a real life.
Therefore, even if there is no perfect ending, we can make ourselves as free as possible, let ourselves experience more beautiful, let us look back on our lives, and be able to smile and smile about the past that was sad.
Finally, at the end of the year, send a blessing, may everyone live their own brilliant life in the coming year.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!