Recently watching the variety show "We Are Real Friends" was touched by the deep friendship of Big S, Little S, Aya, and Fan Xiaoxuan from high school to the present, more than 20 years later, which has not deteriorated, and also reminds me of you, my most precious friends.
Four sisters from 20 years ago
Four sisters 20 years later
<h1>Don't think about it, because you never forget</h1> it
BingBing was the first friend I met when I came to the north, and the friend I have known for the longest time so far. We met eighteen years ago in the summer, and then our fates intertwined.
The campus time we spent together was only two short years, most of which was still in the Cold War. Bing Bing loved to laugh as a child, and she had never seen her cry her nose. But the time we quarreled, I clearly saw her crying red eyes, and the time when I was standing cold was the most difficult time in my entire student life. When we reconciled, I secretly swore that I would never quarrel with my good friends again.
Because of my family, I transferred. A year later, we wrote letters to each other at both ends of the city, and whenever I read the poems created by Bingbing, I would think of her shallow smile and pear vortex, which was extremely cute. Before the major exams came, Bingbing and I would exchange phone calls, and every time Bingbing comforted me, you can do it, you can! With her encouragement, my grades really got better every time. When I encounter bad things, I am worried about talking too much for fear of affecting her, she laughed and said, I am your friend, it is your trash can, do not tell me who you talk to.
When I was in college, Bing Bing learned about my family's affairs, and while protecting my sensitive and fragile heart, she carefully told me that if I encountered difficulties or lacked money, I could tell her.
None of us are easy people who make promises, and if we make promises, we must treat them as vows. At that time, I was so strong, pretending to smile and saying, it was okay, my heart had already been touched by a mess.
After graduation, one of us is busy with family and one is busy with work. But it does not prevent us, even if we do not contact each other for half a year, one day suddenly think of each other, directly send an expression of thinking about you and do not feel embarrassed; when encountering things that want to talk, each other is the best candidate.
The friendship between us made me understand that the best friendship is to be busy with each other and care for each other, without deliberately thinking about it, because it has never been forgotten.
<h1>It's nice to meet you, no regrets about your departure</h1>
The demon once said that I was a special presence for her, and that the quiet me looked so different from her other friends.
When I was a student, I had my own set of standards for friends, did not know 2-3 years, did not experience anything together, did not have a long-term understanding, and would not be my real friend.
Demons broke that standard, and we became close friends after a few months of acquaintance.
Our friendship is not the kind of superficial inseparable, each other has their own circle of friends, and our intimacy is more based on trust and understanding.
Adolescent girls have a lot of little secrets, we share these secrets, found that we have such a similar experience, many views coincide, this rare understanding, this fateful fate makes us want to hold each other's hands all the way down.
I accompanied the demon to escape a snowstorm of love, and she pulled me out of a dream exercise.
We took the college entrance examination together, and because we took a taxi to the examination hall by mistake, we ran to get an ear piercing after the college entrance examination together to celebrate our graduation.
We agreed that the other would marry and the other would be a bridesmaid. We bless each other more than we bless ourselves.
We firmly believe that this friendship can last a long time, but we still lose to time. When I heard the news of the demon's marriage, I was both happy and sad, happy that the demon still remembered me, sad that I could not fulfill the agreement I had made. The demon's "it doesn't matter" makes us all understand that we are scattered, even if we used to be so good, just like a dandelion is scattered by the wind and scattered in the end of the world and never goes back.
Life is like a train, there will be many stops on the road, it is difficult for someone to accompany the whole journey from beginning to end, and the same is true for friends. So, it's not so important to connect now, it's important to have mutual involvement on the most important days, and it's enough.
<h1>You are a friend who can't steal time</h1>
One of us is as cheerful and enthusiastic as summer, and the other is as sentimental as autumn, because it is the fate of the same table, so that we with different personalities have gradually become good friends.
The music in memory is always a happy little sun, and wherever I go, I laugh and laugh; the mood is low, and it is Lele who has been accompanying me; every time I pull Lele to the bathroom, although every time she shouts not to go, she still accompanies me; I accompany Lele to watch the boy I have a crush on the basketball court, and she sends love letters to the boys I like; in the second year of high school, we wrote a whole diary together, which has secrets that we can't say, and now this diary is carefully kept by me on the bedside table; the third year of high school, Together, we agonize over undesirable scores.
After graduation, we were confused about stepping into society together, tasting delicious food together, punching in fresh and interesting places together, and going on a walking trip together. Originally, I liked to stay at home, but driven by Lele, I explored the interesting side of this world more and more, and became more and more curious about this world.
Sometimes, I ask Lele, why is there always a passion for the world? Le Le tilted his head and thought about it, saying, because life is one day less than one day, of course, you must be happy! In the difficult moments of life, when it is almost impossible to sustain it, the thought of Lele always ignites hope.
I said that Lele was still as optimistic and cheerful as she was in high school, and she shook her head in denial, saying that it was me who had not changed.
Over the years, we have never changed in each other's eyes, perhaps because we have always appeared in each other's lives, and we have never had a sense of distance, so that we have ignored the change; or perhaps, in the time of going around, we are as young as we were.
Thank you for the time and let us be friends who can't steal from each other.
Haruki Murakami said: "You must remember those who silently hug you in the dark, the people who make you laugh, the people who chat with you all night, the people who come to see you in the car, the people who take you around, the people who say they miss you, these people who make up the warmth of your life bit by bit, it is these warmth that keeps you away from the haze, it is these warmth that makes you a kind person."
How fortunate I have been to meet these people who have warmed me, whether we are in touch now or not, whether we still meet. For me, you are all my true friends, and each person is the most special being, the light in my life, illuminating my way forward.
Thank you, my dearest friends.