Then within the age of one year, the way you raise him, you see human nature, emotions, temper and words will also affect his dealings with people, sociality. And then later, you will find that there is also his way of knowing in the future, the way we know, you will find that some children's intelligence is in his dealings with people, and some children's intelligence is studying the numbers, symbols.
That anyone who deals with people, he must have come to a person in the early years, on the contrary, he was quiet, just now I said that his mother alone or grandma took him alone, what will happen to him? He would be quieter to do literal things and number things. Because what is because when the class is in class, the blackboard knowledge of the teacher in front of it is spoken out of the teacher's mouth, and then where it falls on the blackboard. Then you see, I said these two kinds of children, one is vivid, dealing with people every day, looking left, right, who he looks at in class, he must look at the teacher, and look at the teacher.
Eating eyes staring at whom, the teacher wants to stare at this side, he immediately found out why the teacher stared at that side, he also found out why? He is also enthusiastic, I just said well, he and people take the initiative to talk, talk dumb, so he wants to remind the reminder of this side and then remind that side, reminded of how the blackboard came out of the unknown. So there is a kind of child, he is not much contact with the teacher's eyes, he stares at the blackboard, you write a paragraph, he watches a paragraph, writes the same as watching a TV series, you watch from beginning to end, of course you understand, you go to the kitchen and then come back to the kitchen. You said hey, what did you just do, right? You're broken. So some parents have said, my child is quite smart, how can he not study well?
I said you don't have to worry, your child's father is suitable to be a leader, he looks at the six roads, listens to the eight directions, he is good at detoxifying people's minds, but it is not that he is not intellectually enough, he is not paying enough attention. So you will find that some children's learning and future development direction are also related to his early years. You like me, those comedy stars, you study them, they lived in ordinary housing in their early years, why?
Because usually a charge. He can deal with all kinds of people. On the contrary, the children of the property market and the building are generally more shy, because he rarely sees outsiders, so you see these things so that we can see the early years. Therefore, when I talk about this, it is not a question of teaching, it is all a matter of raising. Raising is breeding, so how do you raise it? Just now I said that raising should be personally raised, you don't want to give this process to others, if you want to give it to others, what kind of problem will it be easy to create? For example, some nannies take him with children is also very good, he takes children well, you can rest assured. But after he is two years old, are you going to quit the nanny, what will be the problem with the last class leader to quit this child? He sulked every time he was upset, because the man he remembered in his arms was not there, so he wouldn't tell his mother much. Well, if it's a child that the mother brought up on her own, he'll tell you.