The key to naming your child is to invest in emotions

Recently, the "2021 National Name Report" was released, and the 50 words with the highest frequency of use in newborn household registration in 2021 are Ze, Zi, Zi, Yu, Mu, etc.; among male newborns, the 10 names with the highest frequency of use are: Mu Chen, Hao Yu, Mu Chen, Ming Ze, Yi Chen, Yu Ze, Yu Ze, Hao Ran, Yi Ze, Yu Xuan, Mu Yang; among female newborns, the 10 names with the highest frequency of use are: Ruo Xi, Yi Nuo, Yi Han, Yi Nuo, Zi Han, Mao Mo, Yu Tong, Xinyi, Yu Tong, Yu Xi.

The 50 most used names for newborns in 2021

Since the beginning of 2018, the Household Administration Research Center of the Ministry of Public Security has released a national name report for three consecutive years, and all sectors of society generally believe that the report is "extremely valuable for naming children". But if you pay attention to these three reports, you will find that the "reference value" has not been converted into "practical value" - the trend of naming children has not changed much in the past two years, and the words used look like "changing soup without changing medicine".

"Humble. My grandfather's name. "Shaoli, my grandfather's name." "Grandpa is Xi Ru, grandpa is Mu Qian." ...... This is the first time that the name report was released, netizens discussed the names of their ancestors. Pushing forward, Nan Huaijin, Xu Beihong, Naran Sexde, Lin Huiyin, Li Qingzhao, Zhuo Wenjun, etc., while making people feel that their names are "like thunder", they also sincerely admire their talents. Since the generation of their fathers, the names of Chinese have become arbitrary, and a 2014 data shows that the top four names with the highest rate of duplicate names in China are: Zhang Wei, Wang Wei, Wang Fang, Li Wei...

After the 10s and 20s, these two generations of children have appeared a large number of words such as "Ze, Zi, Zi, Yu, Mu", "Ruo, Nuo, Tong, Xin, Yu", etc., which have actually made progress over the names of the previous two generations. In Old Chinese, these words also have deep and beautiful meanings, but they can't be used in a hurry, and once the repetition rate is abnormally high, even if it is a good name, it seems boring. Some people criticize that judging from the situation of naming children in recent years, "having academic qualifications, no culture" is vividly reflected in the naming.

A generation of people have a generation of naming trends, 10 after 20 the parents of these two generations of children, is under the influence of youth idol dramas to grow up, Japanese dramas, Korean dramas, domestic dramas, these three countries of youth idol dramas, invisibly left a huge impact on them, from the TV series character names to take words repeatedly combined, or simply "take doctrine", become the generation of parents of the name of the secret book, seems to catch up with the fashion, but it is unaware of falling into the cliché.

Chinese names, even names and surnames, the vast majority of them are 2 to 4 words, and Chinese mouths are numerous, and it is indeed a little difficult to take a name that has both personality and culture. But if you can give up catching the trend, follow the trend of thinking, and give your child a good name, it is actually not so difficult. In the past, the reason why people's names sounded good was because they often went to the "Book of Poetry", "I Ching", Tang poetry and Song Ci to find inspiration, ancient Chinese classics are like mountains and seas, from which to choose one or two words as the child's name, there should be "weak water three thousand, only take a scoop" as easy.

But it is precisely this seemingly relaxed behavior that makes many people frown. First of all, looking for ancient books and classics, it has become a major obstacle, many people's homes, there is no such collection of books, even through the form of network search, found a few chapters, for how to choose the right word to use, will be helpless; secondly, lack of patience, do not pay attention to the name of the child, the purpose of naming the child is more to meet the urgent need to meet the urgent need of the hukou, rather than let the child have a "label" that can be used for a lifetime; there are also many people who want to worry, will spend money to ask people to name, but such a "please" name, Most of them appear to be "fake big empty", without the emotional participation of parents, such a name has no taste.

To avoid repeating your child's name, you must first give up the small space of idol drama character names. In addition, the immediate removal of ancient books such as the Book of Poetry cannot play a fundamental role. The most important thing is to change the concept, calm down, and inject more emotions and spend more time in the process of naming the child. I believe that as long as there is a higher pursuit of the child's name intention, it will inevitably bypass many name "traps" and leave a good name worth looking at and tasting repeatedly on the child's ID card. □ Han Haoyue