Early this morning, I saw the news of "Hebei looking for relatives boy Liu Xuezhou light life", and I also saw the long text he left in Weibo, and the whole person was not good.
At the age of 15, he should have no worries, and his biggest worry was just to cope with homework and exams, but his heart was stuffed with too many other things.
Liu Xuezhou seems to be much more mature than his peers. There is a saying in China that "a child without a mother is in charge of the family", but we never thought of it and could not believe it, some people have mothers, but they are more pitiful than no mothers.
A 15-year-old boy should not often lament the coldness of the world, and should not have tasted all the ugliness of the world. But Liu Xuezhou really experienced these in his short life.
Just a few days ago, he was a cheerful, sunny, and positive boy. The smile is bright, a little childish and a little mature, and it is a very cute student look.
Just a few days ago, he was still working as an epidemic prevention volunteer and received the honorary certificate of "the most beautiful volunteer".
Today, this teenager, with the title of "Born light, but also pure", sent a long article, choosing to end his life on his favorite seashore.
"The sun shines on the sea, and I belong to the sea. From here, he ended his life and took away the most beautiful scenery in the world. ”
I think it must not have been an impulsive, reckless decision.
This teenager, who seems to love life and respect life, also explains in the long text why he would rather choose to die than live humbly in the human world.
This long article is full of various encounters in his short life, which makes people really grit their teeth.
Such a young child, the label he put on himself is:
Student, a man who strives to shine, a strong boy, born sold by his parents as a bride price, four-year-old adoptive parents died, the second grade began boarding school, the victim of bullying in school, the male teacher molested, the boy looking for relatives, the second abandonment, the upside-down black-and-white Internet violence, the fake laughing boy...
It is these labels that force him step by step to the end of his life, even if he has been forcing himself to become sunny and strong in the process, but after all, he is still a child, where there are so many strong forces, not even a supporting backing.
So every label is the murderer of the teenager Liu Xuezhou.
Now that Liu Xuezhou has passed away, it is already very terrible and regrettable that a person loses his life, but if a life disappears like this and cannot trigger thinking and play a warning and educational role, it will be even more terrible and regrettable.
There are some questions that I would like and call on everyone to think about and ask:
1. If parents abandon their children and give them away in exchange for a bride price, is this an act of human trafficking, is there a crime of "abducting and trafficking women and children", and should it be punished with the same crime as traffickers?
If nothing else, in this matter, does Liu Xuezhou's biological parents need to be prosecuted for criminal responsibility, even if the prosecution period has passed, is it so fine, let them live a "life without being disturbed", what should they do?
If Liu Xuezhou had not gone to find his biological parents, he would have lived as a simple, calm, sunny, and positive orphan, and he would not have died so early. But he had a slight illusion of blood and affection, and only then did he experience secondary injuries and have all kinds of pain in the back.
His mother even blacklisted him on WeChat, viciously insulted him on the phone, and slandered the child in black and white on the Internet.
This pair of parents should be regarded as the "first murderer" of Liu Xuezhou. How to manage and punish such murderers, do they do nothing?
2. For Liu Xuezhou's "encounter with male teachers" in middle school, is it so unsustainable?
The behavior of this male teacher can be a very fatal psychological devastation for a teenager who has been bullied and helpless since childhood.
Liu Xuezhou described that "I collapsed almost every day during that time, did not dare to say anything, and arrived at his threat early, feeling that I had depression tendencies." "If such a person can't be caught, the scum who molested minors in the future will feel that children can't say it, and they don't dare to say it, and no one will be able to pursue it."
Although the person was no longer there at that time, at least to do an investigation, to deter is also to, in case other victims come forward? What if there is the next Liu Xuezhou?
3. Campus bullying, the lessons that have been exchanged for life many times, how to manage.
We now underestimate the dangers of school bullying by minors in many places. Children like Liu Xuezhou, who have no parents, are like orphans, and there is no special department in society that plays the role of "guardian" to be responsible for protecting the physical and mental health of these children?
Fortunately, Liu Xuezhou is a kind-hearted, sunny child; in case some children grow up in this environment, they will have a retaliatory mentality and a distorted psychology, and they will easily become a threat to society when they grow up. The growth of this part of the child should be particularly concerned!
School bullying, teachers do not turn a blind eye, this should be legalized, there is a law to follow, minors carry out school bullying, catch severe punishment, and parents should be jointly and severally responsible. Otherwise, this kind of campus evil is difficult to cure.
4. How to deal with the group of people who are in the Internet storm.
Online violence and all kinds of chaotic so-called "gossip" to engage in "reversals" do not need to be brain-thinking and actual research to deduct hats, humiliate, ridicule, and spread rumors. Every word they say is, die, disgusting... Let this 15-year-old boy see the distortion of human nature and the degeneration of morality, will he feel that it is still interesting to live?
These people who are internet rioters are accustomed to coming with their mouths open, regardless of the truth of the facts, do not need to think logically, and only rely on their personal anger to vent arbitrarily, are they not one of the "murderers" who forced Liu Xuezhou to die?
The fact is that this group of people who are good at Internet violence, not only The Internet violence Liu Xuezhou alone, they should be a group of social underclassmen, life losers, see a riot on the Internet, this group of people on the Internet is "murder" many vulnerable and lost "indirect murderers", are they not guilty?
Above, but when there is a link in which Liu Xuezhou feels warmth and love, he will not add weight to his "light life" thoughts layer by layer.
These are all evidence of "murder" left to us by Liu Xuezhou with his 15-year-old young life. Only when everyone takes every matter related to the quality of life seriously and deals with it seriously, there will be no next Liu Xuezhou.
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