The big red lantern hangs high, one night even two years old, three more divided into two years.
In the eyes of adults, children must be very happy when they have new clothes to wear, snacks to eat, and they can receive money for the new year, in fact, children are difficult.
Children look laid back, but they will experience many "robberies" during the New Year, helplessly, parents often can't see the child's difficulties, but criticize him for not understanding things and being impatient. Adults live the Spring Festival, and children live the "Spring Robbery".
The last thing the post-90s New Year's Favorite Thing in the New Year is a strong sense of substitution
It is almost the New Year, every household is looking forward to reunion, but some post-90s are a little afraid of the New Year, it can also be said that they are a little scared from childhood to adulthood.
Sugar Mom saw an interview on the Internet some time ago, asking how the post-90s felt about the New Year when they were young, and as a result, half of the people who recounted good memories accounted for a small number, and most of them were complaining about their childhood experiences.
One of the things that impressed me the most was that a boy studied well when he was a kid, and he was the first in his grade in the final exam that year, and he also received an award. I thought I had the courage to face the questions of my relatives, but I didn't expect my parents' approach to make him more uncomfortable. If you use the current network word to describe it, it is probably "repeated social death".
During the New Year, relatives will visit to ask a few questions about the child's learning, and whenever this topic is talked about, the parents are very proud, and then let the boys take out the report card and award certificate and show it to the relatives. Since then, he has won an award certificate before winter vacation and does not dare to tell his parents.
There are many similar embarrassing things, and they don't just exist in the post-90s generation. With the development of the Internet and the improvement of life, children now have to experience more "spring robberies".
These 4 "spring robberies" make children very hurt, and parents should have a number in mind
New Year's day has children to be lively, adults are happy at the same time should also care about children's feelings, the following things parents pay more attention to.
1) Helpless talent display
Did you ever perform in front of relatives and family members when you were young? Are your children being asked to show their talents today? For this matter, Sugar Mom felt very deeply, and the little candy was different from what I imagined.
Little Candy is not afraid of the stage, if she is in a good mood, relatives let her sing and dance, she is especially willing to show her talent. But many children around Sugar Mother are very disgusted by this, parents should understand the character of their own baby, do not force him.
2) Damage from various firecrackers
Every year during the Spring Festival, there are incidents of children being injured by the explosion, the results are better, the children are only frightened to fall slightly, and some of the more serious results are that the children are injured and burned, and more seriously, the children lose their lives and fail to escape this "spring disaster".
Children's curiosity is strong and safety awareness is weak, small fireworks are lit and thrown out in time, and small fireworks are thrown into the well to cause an explosion, which is very dangerous, and parents must be strictly supervised.
3) Asked to "drink"
This is more easily experienced by boys, not only will relatives outside do this, but the child's father, grandfather and grandfather also like to let the child taste wine, and it is very happy to see the child's painful expression and slightly drunk look.
Adults do not know that children are exposed to alcohol prematurely, light allergies, heavy damage to the brain, excessive intake will be life-threatening, but it is not a joke.
4) The child is "stuffed" with various foods to eat
Some relatives are kind enough to feed their children, but they do not understand the child's situation and are prone to feeding the child's body out of problems.
First of all, they do not know the amount of food for the child, the child eats too much stomach discomfort is easy to accumulate food; secondly, the child may have allergic food, eating is very dangerous. Adults' Chinese New Year's Eve meals may not be suitable for children to eat, if you want to protect your child's stomach and body, please help your child reject inappropriate food.
When the child experiences the "spring robbery" parents should support him, the face is not as important as the baby
The above children may experience the "spring robbery", parents know that after not doing it, in the face of relatives to do so, but also remember to help the child refuse, rather than in front of the face of relatives to hit the child.
In the case of talent shows, introverted children, or those who do not have special talents themselves, do not like to show themselves in crowded occasions. Children will feel embarrassed, faceless, bored, and once ridiculed by relatives who do not understand things, they will hurt their self-esteem.
It is good that relatives often move around, and it is also important to get along happily, but the premise of a happy New Year is to ensure the safety and physical and mental comfort of children.
If there are relatives who disregard the child's feelings and make some unreasonable demands, the child does not know how to refuse, or the refusal is invalid, the parents can support the child. There is no need to quarrel but to show attitude, face is not as important as the baby. If the relatives are not spared, it is not our fault.
It makes more sense to keep children away from the "spring robbery"
With only a few days left before the New Year, every household began to be busy preparing New Year goods, cleaning, tired and happy. If you want your child to have a meaningful Spring Festival, parents can do so.
Ask your child what plans they have for the Spring Festival: dress up the room and prepare Chinese New Year's Eve meals for the New Year, and younger children may not be able to do well, but they can pay attention. Ask your child's ideas and help them realize, and your child will feel more engaged.
Traditional etiquette and customs must not be forgotten: if there are new year rituals or other customs for elders in the family, teach them to children as soon as possible. Nowadays, the taste of the year is not as strong as before, and if these customs are not passed down, it will be even more meaningless.
Let the New Year make a good impression on the child: wearing new clothes and taking the money can make the child happy, but let the child fall in love with the New Year, these two conditions are far from enough. Parents should not do anything about the "spring robbery", but also understand that they should not do what they do not want to do to others. Protecting the child from the "spring robbery" at a critical moment can make him have a good impression of the New Year.
Candy Mom has something to say:
One year old, one inch of joy, the traditional one year of growing up is not based on the birthday as the standard, but in the way of crossing the Lunar New Year. The child is one year older, and it is more meaningful to have time to talk to him about his impression of the previous year and what goals he has for the new year.
【Today's topic】Which "spring robbery" do you hate the most?