Qingwei | stick to himself

Young/ Stick to yourself

Text by Shizuka Tazu

The speed at which I grew up in the face of adversity was astonishing, and even more surprising to myself! In the face of adversity, the ability to learn to double enhance is also unexpected, playing iron also has to be hard, in order to work hard in the barren land to become a blossom brocade, I need to focus, I need to work hard, I need to go forward without stopping, I deeply understand that no one in this world can give me a full sense of security, the only person who can give myself the most solid sense of security is myself, nothing more.

I am glad that I encountered great hardships in my life when I was younger, and although my body experienced heavy pain, my young body was still able to carry these pains. No matter what kind of difficulties I encounter, I still believe that integrity and kindness are the long-term right path, maybe those crooked and evil ways will have a temporary scenery, I think it is doomed to be doomed to not last long, otherwise we open our eyes and look carefully!

In the world, in the real society, you want to be fair, how can you be fair? Only in the 10 months of the womb is fair, since birth, we have never been fair, what we can do is not to criticize this more unchangeable fact, in fact, the reality is not as bad and dark as we think, nor as idealistic and noble as we think. What we can strive to do is never complain, let ourselves be satisfied is the highest standard, within their own ability, let their body and mind be smooth and comfortable, do not have to care about other people's evaluation language and views, their standards are theirs, people have their own aspirations, adhere to their own standards, make themselves satisfied, and gradually make themselves strongest and most reliable.

The script of life is not static, and we have to constantly revise the script that belongs to us from time to time and place to make our lives wonderful. The wonderful thing about a woman is to stick to herself, no matter how busy and love can not be without self; no matter how busy and love, she must also have a ability to make an independent living and ensure that the quality of life cannot be too bad; no matter how busy and love, she must have her own interests and hobbies to maintain quality and quantity; no matter how busy and love, she cannot take others as stars. To be your own queen, to be your own master, to be your own star, this does not necessarily need to be publicized, only need the self, more need self-effort, but also more need the self's attention and care for the self.

Some people say that it is better to do a good job than to marry well, natural people have their own lives, and some wives are willing to put away their wings as caged birds that are raised, and enjoy them. But she did not have the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment of the struggle. A man can afford to raise you, but also can afford to raise others, the girl of this world stubble and leeks like never stop, as long as this man is excellent, he can never be an insulator, his temptation is everywhere, is a woman's energy to fight with these little girls? There is a good saying: tea is not difficult to drink as long as it is hot, and women are not ugly as long as they are young. Who can guarantee that their body will never be out of shape, and their appearance will never change. What can be guaranteed is my own strong heart, let you come and go, I am still me, a confident and self-reliant little woman. 20s fight for looks, 30s spell is personality, after 40 years old spell is their own wealth, material, spiritual, strong, let her be who? Who is he?

After everything I have been ruthlessly taken away, what I can do is to work hard to manage my barren land into a prosperous and exquisite forging, and carefully taste all kinds of true tastes after I have worked hard to get everything, it must be very hard, it must be hard work, but what I harvest is not only material everything, but also the real strength and growth in the depths of my heart. No one to replace, unique!

About author:Tian Jing:Female, born in 1979, graduated from the Chinese Department of Shan Normal University, vice chairman of the Boshan District Writers Association, national second-level psychological counselor, excellent psychology teacher in Zibo City, and teaching expert in Boshan District. There have been three-person collection "The Covenant of Landscapes" published by the China Federation of Literary and Art Publishing Houses, published primary school students' learning gardens, aesthetic education works, etc., articles have been published on the platform of learning to strengthen the country and the Qilu one-point platform for many times, won awards in departmental competitions at all levels for many times, and poetry, essays, and essays have been published in hundreds of thousands of words in major newspapers, books, public accounts, etc.

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