Chen Biwu
Li Li's and Tingting's mother are good friends, and the children are girls, both just going to school. Every day they meet at the end of school to pick up the children together at the school gate. The children did not come out, they chatted together, talked about the children, talked about the husband, and the rare time when friends got together.
The child is also a pair of playmates, the two families are neighbors, and they are both girls, and they have played together since childhood. I went to school and happened to be in a class again. Sometimes one parent has an affair, and the other parent takes it back together.
The bell rang after school. Students from each class came out of the school gate in a neat line. See parents, flying like birds, chirping, telling parents about what is happening at school.
Li Li and Tingting ran hand in hand to their mother.
Li Li did not pounce on her mother, but ran to Tingting's mother and said, "Auntie, today Tingting was criticized by the teacher." ”
Li Li's mother pulled Li Li over and said angrily, "Little age, how do you learn to file a complaint?" ”
Is Li lily suing? No, she was actually telling her mom that I was doing well today and that the teacher didn't criticize me.
Children's language is a true reflection of her inner world. Their language expression is not the same as the expression of the adult world. When adults express themselves through language, they are more subtle and more tactful. For example, if an adult has an opinion about another adult, she generally does not tell the other person directly about this opinion.
Children are different, he will say it directly.
Every child wants her mother to say she is a good child. Li Li said today that Tingting was criticized by the teacher, and she was not suing or flaunting herself. She just wanted to tell her mom that I was doing well in school today and that the teacher didn't criticize me.
There are too many differences between the adult world and the children's world.
To understand children, adults must strive to enter the children's world, observe their behavior, talk to them more, and understand the way children express their language. In this way, we will have a better way of interacting with children than simply being rude.
Children are the most vibrant group in the world, and we need to learn to understand them.