Happy but not obscene, mournful and not hurtful! The best way to manage emotions is to express your inner emotions just right

Zi Yue: "Guan Ju is happy but not obscene, mournful but not hurtful." ”

Confucius greatly admired the Book of Poetry, and today's sentence is his view of the opening famous passage of the Book of Poetry, "Guan Ju", a poem that everyone should be very familiar with:

Guan Guan Ju Dove, in the River Continent.

Ladies and gentlemen.

Jagged lettuce, left and right.

Ladies and gentlemen, covet it.

I can't ask for it, I can't help it.

Leisurely, tossing and turning.

Jagged lettuce, left and right.

Lady, Qin Ser yuzhi.

Jagged lettuce, left and right.

Ladies and gentlemen, bells and drums.

It is a poem expressing the love of men and women, in the season of spring and warm flowers, young men and women come to the river, on a sandbank in the middle of the river, ospreys croaking, fishermen fishing, young and beautiful, slender girls lift their skirts, roll up their sleeves, and pick spinach in the water. At this scene, the young lad saw the spring heart and longed to pursue these beautiful girls. A good girl is not so easy to catch up with, can't ask for it, go home and think about it day and night, and even toss and turn. Meet again, finally can know more, come to a piano meeting, find the piano in tune, each other are the right people. So the next thing was The Bell and Drum Music, eight large sedans, beating drums and beating drums to marry her into the house.

From a casual encounter, to tossing and turning to miss each other, to getting to know each other in the land of qinse friends, and finally happily cultivating positive results. The innocent and romantic love story of the ancients jumped on the paper, and reading it today still feels incomparably beautiful.

This sincere expression of emotion is highly respected by Confucius, so Confucius said that the poem "Ju Dove" is happy but not obscene, mournful and not hurtful!

"Fornication" means excessive, excessive, and excessive, similar to the continuous rain of lasciviousness, which rains too much.

"Injury" also means excessive, too easy to be injured.

Confucius expressed the emotion expressed in the poem "Ju Jiu" just right, there was the happiness of "Qinse Youzhi, Bell and Drum Music" and the joy of the marriage, but there was "sleepy thinking, tossing and turning" unavoidable mourning, but there was no excessive sadness, or depression.

Confucius told us that we need to sincerely express the emotions of people's joys and sorrows, men's joys and women's love, sorrow is sorrow, happiness is happiness, sadness is sadness, but it should not be excessive. "The joy and sorrow have not yet been developed, and it is said that it is in the middle." The hair is all in the middle, called the sum. If our inner emotions are sent out just right, we will achieve inner harmony, which is also the best emotional management.

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