Don't be a third party to catch up with people, treat and give gifts
Don't be an intermediary
Weddings and funerals, red and white ceremonies, birthday celebrations, New Year's holidays, treats and gifts, sophistication, the process of you coming and going, some people love to surpass the host and make their own amorous. As a result, mistakes, mistakes, missteps, and dishonesty can cause trouble, affect interpersonal relationships, and form emotional scars.
Yesterday, an aunt character took the initiative to invite her aunt's son to get married, but was rejected by the other party, with a roar "You eat too much, what do you want you to do, I can invite whoever I want, don't want your aunt to be idle"!
There are many similar examples, and there are many that hit a wall. People have their own psychological states in their interactions. When the host has no commitment, it is inconvenient for others (others) to replace Zhang Luo. Someone's daughter is sick and hospitalized. Her relative XX made it widely known and invited the relevant personnel to visit the hospital together. It's also complained about, if you have money, go there, I don't object, but don't tell me!
What does this mean? In terms of human affairs, each has nothing to say, and don't act as a third party. This move has become one of the default "rules of favor".
