Many people say that parents can never be a bowl of water flat, and if you think about it, this sentence really makes sense.
Just like the Zhou family in "The World of Man", Zhou Zhigang values Zhou Bingyi the most and loves Zhou Rong the most, but emotionally, the closest is Still Zhou Bingkun.
The reason for this kind of cognition is that when Zhou Bingyi returned home, Zhou Zhigang was busy cleaning up the house, which was completely a posture of entertaining guests, but when facing Zhou Bingkun, there was no such concern.
Many people say that Zhou Zhigang does not like Zhou Bingkun, and I do not agree with such a statement, for two reasons -
First, if Zhou Zhigang did not like Zhou Bingkun, he would not let go of his insistence and agree to the marriage of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, although there was an element of gratitude in it, but I think that if it was just gratitude, he would not overcome his prejudices, after all, in that era, except for the family that was too poor to marry a daughter-in-law, no one would accept a "widow" with a child.
Second, if Zhou Zhigang didn't like Zhou Bingkun, he wouldn't care so much about Zhou Bingkun's lack of organization, after all, in that era, having a compilation meant a lifetime of food and clothing.
It's just a pity that because of the New Year's Eve incident, Zhou Bingkun has an inferiority complex and believes that his father looks down on him.
Of course, this can not all be blamed on Zhou Bingkun, in other words, we stand in the position of Zhou Bingkun, our eldest brother is a famous university student or the governor's son-in-law, his sister is a famous university student and married a famous poet, but he is only a worker, married to a daughter-in-law with a child, it is estimated that he will have inferiority complex.
The most damning thing is that over the years, Zhou Bingkun has always been the person who has paid the most for his family.
Screenshot of the TV series "The World"
In just one day, Zhou Bingkun was first kicked by his brother, and then punched by his father, although Zhou Bingkun was at fault in this matter, but in his heart, he had long determined that his father did not like himself.
After all, according to popular cognition, Zhou Bingyi at this time was indeed much stronger than him.
Because of this incident, the grandfather and son were angry for a long time, and even when Zhou Zhigang was leaving, he packed up his things for Zhou Zhigang, and he was unwilling to consult with Zhou Zhigang, but passed on the message through Zheng Juan.
To tell the truth, if there was no Zheng Juan in their family, even if there was no zhou mother's illness, it might have been dispersed long ago.
In this family, it is estimated that only Zheng Juan can restrain Zhou Bingkun, and being able to share Zheng Juan's daughter-in-law is also a blessing for the old Zhou family.
The son has a knot in his heart, and his father actually can't get over it, so when he left, although Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong both said that they wanted to send Zhou Zhigang, Zhou Zhigang only wanted Zhou Bingkun to send himself, in order to take the opportunity to have a good chat with his son.
Having said that, even if Zhou Bingkun had more unhappiness in his heart, he had to reluctantly send his father, after all, there was no overnight feud between father and son, and after this period of reflection, Zhou Bingkun also realized some of his problems.
Along the way, Zhou Zhigang told his younger son about his attitude towards the marriage of his eldest son, and also told Zhou Bingkun that no matter zheng juan gave birth to boys and girls, they were the same for them.
Although many people dislike Zhou Zhigang and think that he is biased toward Zhou Bingyi, we have to admit that Zhou Zhigang was really enlightened, and in that era, most parents could not do this to equal men and women.
When I was very young, there was a family, because they could not give birth to a son, they were repeatedly rejected by their in-laws, and they ran away from home in the last breath.
When it came to the waiting room, the conversation between the two grandfathers and sons deepened.
Although Zhou Zhigang said that giving birth to boys and girls are the same, But Zhou Bingkun said that Zheng Juan did not think so, although Zheng Juan wanted to have a girl in her heart, but for the Sake of the Zhou family, she still wanted to have a boy and prove her value in the Zhou family.
"She has a low culture, no job, married over, and a little boy, if you say you can't do it in other aspects, then in our family, you may have even less face to stay." 」
Zhou Zhigang asked Zhou Bingkun to continue, but Zhou Bingkun was dumbfounded, and Zhou Zhigang immediately exploded.
At the beginning, I didn't understand why Zhou Zhigang was angry, but when I thought about it, I understood that Zhou Bingkun was ostensibly talking about Zheng Juan, but in fact he was also talking about himself.
As a father, Zhou Zhigang knew what his son was thinking, and instantly knew the reason for his son's abnormality in the past few days.
"Your father and I, it is not easy to come back, the big New Year's Day, just because I don't understand this matter, hit you, said a few words to you, how, just like this to me?" Is this Bingkun, my son Bingkun was not like this in the past. ”
Zhou Zhigang understood that the reason why his son had such an abnormal reaction in the past few days was because Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, two college students, had returned, making his son mentally unbalanced.
In order to help his son untie the knot, Zhou Zhigang specially explained to his son that Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rongkai were really happy about going to college, but for him, their actions just proved that fate can change this truth.
Zhou Zhigang warned his son that if he could not change his destiny, he could also change his son's fate through hard work, and if one generation did not work, the next generation would not work, and the next generation would not work.
From God's point of view, Zhou Zhigang said very reasonable, but at this time, Zhou Bingkun did not listen to it (in other words, I guess I could not listen to it), and immediately cited counterexamples to prove that his father was wrong.
Hearing this, Zhou Zhigang was furious, because he heard it, and what his son wanted to say most was himself.
"The mother who takes care of the sequelae of cerebral thrombosis, the daughter with her sister, and the son of someone else", to be honest, Zhou Bingkun is indeed very difficult in these years, but I think that Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong who are outside are not easy to go anywhere, just because they are not the protagonists, and there is no detailed description of their experiences in the plot.
"When your brother and sister went up to the mountains and went to the countryside, they didn't let you go, and let you stay in the city, which was all for your own good." Many people are dissatisfied with Zhou Zhigang's line, saying that Zhou Rong went to Guizhou alone in pursuit of love, but I think that they wanted to leave Zhou Rong in the city, which is enough to prove that staying at home is the best choice.
Children who stay in the city can at least have a city hukou and a job, and from this point of view, Zhou Bingkun did get the best card at that time.
As Zhou Zhigang said, at that time, they really did not expect that the development of the times to the present would be such a result.
"Instead of envying others all day and complaining about the east and the west, it is better to grit your teeth and offer your next generation to the university, our old Zhou family, can not be in my life, the children are out of the woods, the grandchildren have the mud." 」
As a person who has come over, I have to admit that Zhou Zhigang's words are really reasonable, just as it is said in the barrage, Zhou Zhigang's words are not at all like what an ordinary worker can say.
But Zhou Zhigang's words are also the truth, like Zhou Bingyi is now fighting with himself, after all, it is not a solution to the problem.
Immediately after, Zhou Bingkun opened his mouth, saying that the root cause of his "jealousy" was because his father took their brothers and sisters to visit the New Year, just to show off the two college students in the family, and said that he had humiliated his parents.
Speaking of this, Zhou Zhigang also exploded——
"Say that you take care of your mother who has cerebral thrombosis sequelae, your sister's daughter, and raise someone else's son, that is your father and I, the steps you find." You pat yourself on the conscience, you ask, even if there is no such chore dragging you down, let you go to college, can you get in? ”
Murder, from beginning to end, Zhou Zhigang's words are the most hurtful, after saying this sentence, Zhou Bingkun turned around and walked back, Zhou Zhigang turned and walked to the ticket office, and the grandfather and son dispersed unhappily.
In connection with the plot of the first episode, we have to admit that if Zhou Bingkun is admitted to university, he may not really be able to be admitted, although he is nominally a junior high school student, but the real cultural level is indeed only equivalent to that of primary school students.
Some people say that Zhou Zhigang is too cruel, completely rushing to his son's sore spots, but I think that such "cruelty" is the most beneficial to Zhou Bingkun.
If you don't talk about it, according to Zhou Bingkun's stubborn personality, you don't know when to get tangled up, and at that time, not only will he be unhappy himself, but the whole family will not be much better.
After experiencing this file, Zhou Bingkun took the most critical step in his life, left the soy sauce factory, came to the restaurant opened by the magazine, and started his new life.
Although the overall situation of reform and opening up has been rolled out, the person who can become the first to eat crabs is absolutely different from the later followers.
Personal feelings, prompting Zhou Bingkun to make a decision, has something to do with Zhou Zhigang's words.
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