Why does the "Manuscript 11" dream look so perverted? Because the subconscious mind goes straight

Dreamer Background:

My girlfriend's grandfather was in a wheelchair due to a stroke, and at the same time, her grandfather's friend was bedridden due to a car accident. When she was young, her grandfather's friends often went to her house to discuss things with her grandfather, and she often played and joked with him, "like his own granddaughter."

Recently, Grandpa and Grandpa's best friend appeared in one of her dreams. It should be emphasized here that at the time of her dream, neither Grandpa nor Grandpa's friends had died.

Dreamer Narrator:

I dreamed that I looked up at the clock on the wall and was late for school, but I didn't have a bike to ride to school. I finally borrowed it from my neighbor's house, but it was still a new part, packed in a snow-white plastic bag. My sweat dripped down and it took a lot of effort to assemble it into a bicycle.

I said to grandpa, I'm gone. He was sitting in a wheelchair eating biscuits, and he looked up in confusion and said "Ah", his face was full of biscuit crumbs.

Suddenly, fireworks were set off on the other side of the river, and there was a scream, saying that Grandpa's friend had died.

Dream Analysis Process:

I first noticed a scene where fireworks were set off on the other side of the river and there was a scream.

My experience has taught me that such a scene should be a festive scene, and how can she be associated with the death of her grandfather's friend? To express my doubts, and to confirm, I asked, "Is such a phenomenon a celebration or a funeral?" She replied, "I remember it very well, the colors were brilliant. Later, someone told me that the dreams were all black and white silent, and I refuted it on the spot. ”

I'm sure she's taking the death of her grandfather's friend as a celebration. She was like his own granddaughter, how could she have made his death a celebration? This is counterintuitive.

Further understanding that her grandfather had suffered a stroke for five years, and that his health was secondary, she felt that the biggest obstacle was trapping his soul. In the eyes of my girlfriend's girlfriend, Grandpa was also a talent in our place: proficient in farm work, very beautiful brush writing, cooking is also a good hand, in the past the village weddings and funerals invited him.

Contact the front part of the dream, and the doubt can be lifted. "Borrowed from a neighbor's house, it was still new parts, packed in snow-white plastic bags. My sweat dripped down and took a lot of effort to assemble it into a bicycle" On behalf of my girlfriend's girlfriend, I hope that Grandpa will be well, love himself as before, borrow a bicycle for himself, and assemble the parts of the bicycle into a new bicycle. But , "he was sitting in a wheelchair eating cookies, looking up in confusion and 'ah' with cookie crumbs all over his face" meant that she realized that Grandpa's body could not look good again, could not be like before. As a result, the girlfriend's girlfriend had an illusion: "Fireworks were set off on the other side of the river, and there was a scream, all saying that Grandpa's friend died." Of course Grandpa was going to mourn, of course to help. Go help, of course, prove that you are in good health. However, the dreamer understands that it is difficult for Grandpa to get better, so the dream does not have the scene of Grandpa going to mourn.

The essence of perverted dreams:

Isn't that a bit perverted? Why do you have perverted dreams?

Not knowing the true and false, going straight to the point, this is also one of the characteristics of the subconscious.

This is because the subconscious mind is not controlled by morality, law, etc. Relative to the conscious mind, the subconscious mind thinks in every way it wants to do whatever it wants. But when we wake up and our consciousness comes into play, we will find that this conflicts with morality, law, etc., and only then do we feel perverted. That is to say, perversion is the evaluation of dreams by the conscious mind, and the subconscious mind cannot be evaluated in this way.

Secondly, the perverted dream is not malicious, and the object of the pervert is not this person, it may be another familiar one.

In my girlfriend's dream, if it is not my grandfather's friend, it may be my father's friend, my mother's friend, etc. But it wasn't that she wanted them to die, their deaths were just an adjunct to her subconscious. However, it was his close friend who was close to Grandpa, and she was close to him, and he was bedridden, so it was most appropriate to use Grandpa's friend.