Thirty-six counts of happy life and happy life

Legend has it that there is a drug that people will laugh at after eating it. We can't verify whether my magic drug really exists, let alone whether the "laughter" after taking this drug is intentional or unintentional, but "laughter on life" is the desire and pursuit of each of us. In the complicated world, setbacks, failures, sinking and depression often appear like the scenery on the side of the road, some people can laugh it off, some people are heavy, why is it? The whole line depends on one heart. As someone said, the happy remote control is always in your own hands, and whether your life is happy or not depends on whether you can accurately adjust the window of the mind to the happiness channel of the heart. The first plan is to break the otherworldly heroism and be a simple and happy ordinary person 　　Ideals are the driving force of life, but once people are too attached to it, they will become a kind of shackles of life, and your life will be heavy because of it. Finally, he withered and died in the burden of constant disappointment. Remember the adage "The ordinary is great." All great things are born in the process of "ordinary" accumulation. Count 2: There are no people in the world who are absolutely happy, only hearts that refuse to be happy 　　Happiness is your own business, as long as you want, you can always change the remote control in your hand, adjust the window of the mind to the happiness channel. The third measure is that experiencing adversity is usually a kind of luck for people 　　Some people say that people are born to suffer for their sins. This is an extremely pessimistic statement, but also an incorrect statement, in the Journey to the West, the Tang monks and disciples experienced eighty-one difficulties, large and small, in order to obtain the True Scriptures, and finally came to fruition, can you say that they are just suffering? Non also! The adversity of life is a rare refinement, just as the ancients said: "The heavens will descend upon the Scythians, and they will first suffer their hearts, strain their bones, starve their bodies, and empty their bodies, so they are moved to endure and act chaotically." "Remember that setbacks are often a good start. The fourth plan, smiling is a weapon to conquer difficulties, but also a good way to change the mood 　　Behind the smile is a solid, incomparable strength, a great enthusiasm and confidence in life, a high-style sincerity and open-mindedness, a wisdom and courage to face life. And. The realm is born of the heart, and the realm changes with the heart. Our inner thoughts can change our appearance on the outside, as well as our surroundings. The fifth count, if you can't eat the grapes, think of it as sour, maybe there will be good things 　　Many things are very good before they are obtained, and if they are carefully considered after getting them, it is inevitable that they will feel deceived because they find such flaws. So if you haven't eaten that bunch of grapes yet, imagine it as sour, and you won't have to worry about it. The sixth plan, failure is not a gratifying gain, what is not to be happy about? 　　Life is a road that no one has ever taken, and it is inevitable to get lost or get bogged down. At such times, we must choose to turn back or take a detour; the same is true of doing things, and every time we fail, we find an impassable path. For the loser is a different kind of harvest, since there is a gain, what is not to be happy about? The 7th plan is to take advantage of losses 　　Lu Xun's Ah Q has been the object of contempt and denigration by people since the day of its birth, but his survival philosophy is worth learning from modern people. He never dissolved the sad emotions and turned them into reasons for happiness; he regarded the excesses of failure as the result of success, and thus the joy of victory. Can such a life not be happy? Count 8: Chaotic happiness is simple, as long as you have a heart that is as easy to satisfy as a child 　　Children are the most innocent, they will cry bitterly because of an insignificant face, they will also be excited by a casual compliment, and the most valuable thing is their easy to satisfy character, which makes them always find happiness in people's gestures. 　The ninth plan is not tolerating imperfection, and you can only live in pain 　　Asking for perfection is a good thing, but if you overdo it, it's worse than imperfection. Perfectionists always strive to be flawless in their work, even if they are insignificant details. Such a person can only end up being lazy. Because what people do is an impossible dream. 　The 10th plan, don't dwell on the flaws, or concentrate on expanding your own strengths 　　As the old saying goes: Gold has no feet and bare feet, and no one is perfect. If a person is always unable to live with his shortcomings, then his unhappiness is purely self-inflicted. Hiding shortcomings in your pocket and actively expanding your strengths is the way to happiness. The 11th plan is to regard one's own shortcomings as the driving force for struggle 　　One's own shortcomings are often facts that are difficult to change, and any attempt to cover up or avoid shortcomings may lead to negative results. Try to look at the shortcomings and use it as a driving force for struggle, even if there are shortcomings, you can get the joy of success. The 12th plan is to exploit poverty as a soil with a happy reproductive age 　　Don't think that only rich people can get happy romance, and if the right way is taken, even if we are penniless, all this can still be obtained. The 13th plan is to learn to find happiness in self-satisfaction 　　People who doubt themselves are a major weakness of human nature, and those who doubt themselves are always unable to concentrate their energy on doing things, let alone think that they can do a good job. It is difficult for such a person to get rid of the entanglement of disappointment and not to be happy for life. Number 14: Don't worry about what you don't have, but take pleasure in what you already have 　　Now in your hands, as long as you take care of it, you will not lose it. What is lacking is always a vague mystery for you. Whether you can get it, how you can get it or how much you can get it is all a curiosity number. So instead of complaining about the lack of Ai Ai, it is better to have it all in letv. The 15th plan is to find a good omen in everything, and the heart will become happy 　　Everything is made up of two opposites, "good" and "bad", and when it is reflected on the mirror of our mind, due to the inclusion of many of our subjective assumptions, "good" and "bad" in most cases depend on the angle from which we look at it, and what we see with our back to the sun can only be your shadow. The 16th count, "If this is the case, there is nothing else", we can only be good at accepting it and dealing with it 　　Of course, what has not happened can be avoided through careful thinking to avoid some unexpected situations, but if it has happened, facing the problem and not deceiving the cover is the way to solve the problem. The attitude towards the problem is: try to solve it, nothing can be difficult for you. Number 17: Do not use your own misfortune to ask for mercy from others 　　In the face of their own misfortune, succumbing to fate, inferior to fate and trying to win the sympathy of others with this matter, such a person can only lie on his own misfortune forever and mourn, and there will not be a day to stand up. But failure does not mean losing everything, relying on their own struggle can eliminate the shadow of inferiority and win respect. 18th plan, do not complain about fate, but explore your own good fortune 　　Everything has its strengths and weaknesses, and when you encounter the bad parts, learn to think first, how to learn and grow in it is the most important. "Complaining too much to prevent broken intestines". The 19th measure, the best way to satisfy the mind is to reduce the desire of the heart 　　Greed can cause both energy and physical strength to be overdrawn. Letting go of greed and pursuing a plain and simple life is the easiest way to attain happiness. Count 20: Seek beauty from the bits and pieces of life, and your life will be full of flowers 　　It is easy to ignore the subtle things around us, but in fact, these details of the living environment often hide many beautiful truths. As long as you are willing to open the eyes of the mind and observe and think with a peaceful mind, people will find all this. And all this is bound to fill your life with touching joy. 　Plan 21: Live well today and don't worry about tomorrow 　　Don't be afraid of how difficult the road ahead will be, and don't worry about tomorrow's events, because if you can't focus on the journey in the moment, you will miss out on some beautiful life landscapes and special moments. 　Number 22: Don't lose your happiness when you envy others 　　Envying others often brings us more pain, but if we think about what we have, we will get more gratitude and happiness. Because all of your characteristics are innate and impossible for others to possess, why not accept with a joyful heart all these best and most appropriate things that God has given us? Count 23, life full of hope will not wither 　　Nothing changes our situation more than hope. When we are in bad luck, when we face failure, when we face major disasters, we should all put our lives on hope. Hope will make us forget the pain of the present and plant wings for our own lives. Count 24: Gratitude for loss, for it often hides the grace god has given us 　　"Saion lost his horse, is it a blessing to know?" Sometimes in the midst of suffering, there is often a great grace that God has prepared for us, so learn to be grateful for what you have lost! Count 25: Listen to your rumors as if they were other people's stories 　　We can only grow for ourselves, but we cannot grow for others; we can only manage our own mouths, but we cannot manage the mouths of others. So the best way to deal with rumors is to treat them as someone else's story. Plan 26: Take the ridicule of others as a good deed to help you correct your shortcomings 　　Ridiculed, do not be embarrassed, no place for self-esteem, just because ridicule often has a real component, the more true the facts, the more intense the stimulation, if you immediately rebel against you will inevitably see your narrowness. Think of it as a good deed for others to help you recognize your shortcomings and correct them. The 27th count, the acceptance of different voices, has benefited us a lot 　　Roland said: "The weak fear the opinions of others, the fools resist the opinions of others, the wise judge the opinions of others, and the clever induce the opinions of others." In our lives, you may also meet some people whose opinions and opinions are contrary to everyone else's. In the unanimous view, he always had unexpected opinions. Unless it is a clear violation of the truth, we should learn to be lenient and learn to accept these different voices. Count 28, patience is painful, but its results are sweet 　　In interpersonal relationships, forbearance is respect for the living space of others. This kind of forbearance is sometimes very aggrieved, very breathless, and very saccharine, but its effect is often beneficial to others, beneficial to the public, beneficial to the entire human living environment, and eventually gain a comfort. This is what Rousseau said: "Patience is painful, but its results are sweet." For this "sweet" career, it is also worth learning to endure. Plan 29: Stick to life seriously, and you'll be rewarded with happiness 　　Smiley face to people, recycling is the smiley face; bad words to people, recycling is bad words; take life seriously, life will also give you sincere returns. The 30th plan is to let go of the burden of psychological burden and live a simple and comfortable life 　　Zen masters believe that by purifying themselves and cleaning up the troubles, bitterness, greed, anger, etc. in their hearts, they can make their lives more energetic and more vigorous, just as there is a poem: "A thousand rivers have water, a thousand rivers and a thousand moons, and there are no clouds in the sky." ” Plan 31, fame and fortune can burn the body like fire, please keep your heart cool 　　As the saying goes: people leave their names, and geese leave their voices. No one wants to live a lifetime in obscurity, and this is what it means that everyone has their own ambitions. However, in the process of seeking fame and fortune, I still want to advise you: less desire, more detachment, when the time comes for you to become famous, you will be successful, do not look at fame and fortune. Plan 32: Be kind to your own faults and let it be a stepping stone, not a stumbling block 　　Socrates said, "To deny a fault once is to repeat a crime." "In life, it is inevitable that doing wrong things will lead to mistakes, but being able to lift your feet and walk in another right direction from the new is what you should do now." Count 33, looks can directly affect your income, do not be depressed 　　There is a little flaw in life that can inspire us to move upwards to the good. Don't be sullen because of your appearance, the skin hair is originally from the parents, we simply can't choose. Count 34: Don't ask about things you shouldn't know—it's a blessing not to know 　　Many of the sufferings in life come from "knowing," and many things in the world, when you "don't know," there is no such thing as suffering. "Things that should not be seen, words that should not be heard, secrets that should not be known, it is best not to inquire - I don't know whether it is a blessing." Plan 35: Seeing Death as a "nother place to go" 　　Some friends have emigrated abroad, and although it may never be possible to see each other again in this lifetime, we are still happy to bid them farewell and wish them a good day. Death, too, can never be seen again, so why not accept it as "somewhere else"? Don't forget that life and death have their own destiny! The 36th measure is to treat money reasonably, and troubles can become happiness 　　Money can bring happiness to people, but when we can't treat it normally, all it can give us is annoyance.