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01. Preface
In life, we walk at different stages at different speeds. When I was young, I loved to run, whether there were thorns in front of me or not.
When people get old, the pace of life gradually slows down. Many things began to become inadequate, and the pace of life slowed down unconsciously.
William Lyon Philpo said: "It is a fallacy to believe that youth is the happiest time of life. The happiest people are the ones who think the most interesting thoughts, so the older we are, the happier we are. ”
Life, but a moment. When people are old, they must know how to please themselves.
Make something that delights your taste buds and play with something new and interesting. Go on a tour to see the most beautiful scenery and also be with people who make you feel relaxed and happy.
When people get old, they have to be nice to themselves in order to feel more happiness and happiness.
People are old, enrich themselves, and live happily. Don't have any burden on your thoughts, and don't worry about the future. Every day of life will have more happiness.
02, people in old age, rich to support themselves
When people are old, please learn to enrich yourself, don't always be reluctant to eat and wear.
Enriching oneself is also an attitude.
People take food as the sky, and eating well will make a person have a great sense of satisfaction and happiness.
When people are old, they can buy whatever they want to eat, and they don't have to think about whether others like it or not. For the quality of life, slowly improve a little.
Try to replace the furniture in your home with comfortable and tasteful, and change the close-fitting clothes and bedding to your favorite.
Try to convince yourself that it doesn't matter if you are expensive, and that you should spoil yourself in a situation where your economy can afford it.
In the old age, occasionally in the economy, a little indulgence, to please themselves, there will be a different happiness in the heart.
When people are old, they must learn to live out their ideal state.
If you like something, try to satisfy yourself. If you are unhappy, don't touch it again. If you don't want to see someone, just let him go.
When people are old, they must learn to treat themselves well and enrich themselves.
03, people are old, don't wronged yourself
In old age, people learn to let go of past things, do not please others, and do not always wrong themselves.
Nan Jianlong in the TV series "Little Shed", after getting old, has a lot of illness on his body, he does not want to live for anyone anymore, but to have a comfortable old age.
In his old age, he lives a good life and no longer thinks about the love and hatred he used to have. As his children grew older, he became more focused on his own needs.
He is very ruthless and selfish in the eyes of outsiders, but this kind of life state of not wanting to wronged himself and not wanting to please others is actually a life choice.
When people are old, they learn not to wronged themselves, in order to achieve no complaints and no regrets.
People are old, look at the open, don't embarrass yourself anymore. Enrich yourself, do not have to be too entangled, can protect their physical and mental health, is the most important thing.
On the road of life, in fact, you don't have to please anyone, and you don't have to live for anyone. You, it's yourself. In old age, people learn to live for themselves, that is the best way to live.
04, people to the old age, happy life
On the road of life, sooner or later you will understand: life is for yourself.
There are many kinds of happiness, some people like to write quietly and read books; some people like to sing and dance, live a lively life. When people are old, they must create conditions for themselves to be happy and happy, and live in the way they want.
It doesn't matter what others think and think about their choices, even if they are willful, what can they do. Living a life, such as people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge.
In old age, as long as they are happy, everything else is not important.
When people are old, they don't get entangled with troubles, they don't compare themselves with others, they don't listen to annoying gossip. To love yourself, you must listen to your own heart and do what you like.
Life is only a few short decades, don't always live in trouble, don't always care about other people's eyes.
On the road ahead, please start from your heart and live happily for yourself. Living for yourself, life will have a different meaning.
05. Summary
When people are old, please live well, do not treat yourself badly, do not wronged yourself, and learn to enrich yourself.
Bai Luomei said: "The years are quiet, urging people to weep, just so that they can't keep you, that wisp of fragrance." ”
People will grow old slowly, no matter what status you are, whether you have monstrous wealth or not. When you get old, you have to quickly adapt to your current life.
People are old, learn to see open, do not have to be too strong. You don't have to spend your energy and wealth on your children as you used to.
In old age, people learn to enrich themselves. Let yourself have a good mental state, a good body, can eat and sleep, can play and have fun, the psychological age is always young, and the days will be very warm.
Don't give up everything just because you're old. Using limited time to fulfill all your dreams and leaving fewer regrets is the most important thing to consider after aging.
Live well, enrich yourself, start from eating and wearing, and slowly create your own ideal life.
For the rest of your life, you only please yourself, live in the moment, and live up to every inch of time.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.