It takes at least 21 days to form a habit. To let children develop the habit of loving books, it is not a matter of one day or two days, as a parent, how to cultivate the habit of reading children in daily life?
First, parents lead by example and demonstrate reading.
In recent years, "family education" has become a major educational buzzword, which highlights how important family education is in the entire educational process. I think many of the children's habits benefit from the family, if parents hope that their children can develop the habit of loving to read, then parents should also cultivate their good habit of reading books and newspapers in their daily lives. When a child wants to play games and watch TV, he sees his parents reading. When the child is not serious about doing homework, he sees that his parents are still reading. Once or twice may not work, but for a long time to let the child feel the reading atmosphere at home, the child will definitely change.
Many parents in life have made a negative "example" for their children, and most parents are very "double standard": on the one hand, they require their children not to play games and play mobile phones, on the other hand, they sit on the sofa and look at mobile phones. Think about it in a nutshell, do you really accept your parents' point of view in your heart?
Do not do to others what you do not want. I believe parents understand this truth.
Second, create a strong reading atmosphere.
A environment: a variety of electronic products at home
B environment, there are no electronic products at home, most of them are books.
Which situation do you think is easier to develop a good habit of reading?
People are always used to being able to get the closest thing around them without effort. If you had tablets and books around you, and the tablets were closest to you and the books were a little farther away from you, which one would you choose to pick up?
So I recommend that parents do not put too many electronic products in the room, or put away all these electronic products that interfere with learning when studying. Put more useful books, preferably at your fingertips.
Only then will the children find out: Wow, there are a lot of books at home. Slowly, he will try to turn over what these books are about, and gradually cultivate a good habit of loving reading.
Third, start with your child's interests.
The best way for a child to develop the habit of reading is to associate reading with what he likes. For example, if children like to watch movies, then parents can look for some famous adaptations of movies. When at home on weekends, parents can accompany their children to watch. Slowly children will find that famous books are not as difficult to understand as imagined, and famous works also have ups and downs of the storyline and small details that make people cry.
This process can make children change from the previous resistance to reading to the psychology of reading.
With this good start, then I believe that it should not be too difficult to develop a good habit of loving reading.
Although we have been emphasizing reading more, reading good books, good reading. But parents should not use bad ways to force their children to read.
Some children may develop late in reading, and parents cannot be anxious. Pulling up seedlings encourages, but children lose interest in reading.
For example, if you just turn 5 years old, you ask him to read 300 Tang poems every day.
A small number of children can do it, but some children can't. If a parent forces a child to do something he doesn't want to do, the reading skill will disappear as he grows up. Because he has been repulsive to reading since he was a child.
So, have fun reading, step by step!