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Now is an era of looking at appearance, both men and women pay attention to their appearance. Appearance is related to genes, age, and self-discipline. It is not difficult for us to find in daily life that some men are originally very handsome, but the older they are, the longer they are, the more miserable they are. The 85-pound beauty married a husband who weighed 200 pounds, and she was so angry that she wanted to divorce: I couldn't get over it!
Ms. Lin's statement:
My weight is ten years like a year, 85 pounds at 18 years old, and 85 pounds at 28 years old. I'm not the kind of person who can't drink water and don't get fat, and I'm still a foodie, and I'm able to stay in shape because I have enough discipline for body management. I will eat good food, but I will control my calorie intake, and I will also insist on fitness and convert nutrition into my own energy.
When my husband and I got married, his figure was very standard, and standing with me was an eye-catching handsome and beautiful woman. At that time, it was too face-saving to take my husband out, women envied me for having a handsome husband with a good body, and men envied my husband for being handsome. Everyone thinks that if we have children, girls will definitely be as beautiful as princesses, and boys will be as tall and handsome as their husbands.
Unexpectedly, the years are a pig-killing knife. My husband and I have only been married for three years, and he has changed from a small fresh meat that is loved by everyone to a big belly, and the Mediterranean sea is getting bigger and bigger. All this is because the husband is too confident in his body and feels that he will not be fat no matter how he eats, so he allows himself to eat and drink.
So much food stuffed into the stomach, but not exercise, excess calories, become fat. Every piece of meat on my husband's body was eaten by him. When my husband was just getting fat, I reminded him to control his diet and pay attention to exercise. But the husband has various reasons, saying that it is impossible to socialize all day without eating or drinking, work is so busy, and there is no time to exercise.
We often quarreled because of these trivial matters, and then my husband became a 200-pound fat man out of control. Today's husband is full of flesh, big belly, less hair, and the praiseworthy appearance of the past is gone. I never dare to take my husband out again because every time people are ridiculed, he doesn't care that I feel embarrassed.
My husband is too fat, the 1.8-meter bed has been occupied by him, and with the problem of snoring, my insomnia is getting worse and worse, and I am about to be tortured by him. Also, when we had a fight, he was so big and the fierce look was terrible, and I became insecure. During the physical examination, all kinds of indicators were exceeded, and I did not dare to ask for children.
My husband and I have communicated countless times to make good weight loss. I was obviously for his own good, but he felt that I was abandoning him and arguing with me. We were so upset about it that I saw no hope or future in him. After thinking about it for a long time, I felt that there was no point in continuing such a marriage, and I filed for divorce, and this day really couldn't pass.
epilogue
Every family has a difficult scripture, and obesity is the fuse, triggering conflicts between husband and wife. This kind of thing can be big or small, and the question is whether the husband and wife can tolerate and understand each other, and make concessions for the happiness of the family and strive to run the marriage. Once the pursuits are inconsistent, the marriage falls apart. If you still want to save this marriage, both parties must communicate calmly and well and work together. If you really can't talk about it, then let each other be free.