Author: One flower
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The Soviet poet Schitbachev said: "Love is an eternal book, some people just go through a few fragments, others linger, spilling hot tears for her." ”
How different is everyone's understanding of love, some people pursue freshness and excitement, once they can't feel this feeling in the opposite sex, they immediately let go and look for the next target object, while some people think that the ultimate destination of love is family affection, love is sensational, after three or five years, it should be flat.
For the latter, middle-aged men and women should have a deep understanding. When you are young, liking a person is only a matter of moments, and the most important thing is the figure and appearance of the other party.
In middle age, what is more in line with the personality charm of the other party is that personal conduct has become the most critical audit criterion. As Described by Chen Yu in "Thirty Only", looking for a partner is to live a plain and stable life.
However, middle-aged women do not think so, the more middle-aged, the deeper their attachment to love, for them, love is more important than family affection, for love, you can always abandon others. However, middle-aged women do not love you anymore, will not directly use words to admit, but will use some behaviors to hint and force you to take the initiative to leave.
Once a middle-aged woman changes her heart and does not love you, she will take back the three privileges, no doubt.
The first: Don't let you touch her body anymore
When a woman loves you, she will actively approach your body, let you hold her hand, embrace her, kiss her cheeks and lips, and even give your first time to you.
Women are like this, once they like you, they will give you everything they have, no matter what you say or do, she will raise her hands in approval.
A female reader once said that for the man she likes, she is eager to immediately pounce. Many women agree with this, especially middle-aged women.
If suddenly one day, the woman no longer takes the initiative to contact you intimately, when you take the initiative, she instantly avoids, and does not forget to find bad excuses, for example, physical discomfort, recently very busy and not in the mood and so on.
The meaning she wants to express is already very clear, because the change of heart does not love you, so the privilege of intimate contact will not be given to you again, there is no doubt.
The second: the privacy secret is no longer told to you
The most significant feature of women is the love of nagging, but they are also screened for the object of nagging, and only those who treat their beloved men will nag non-stop.
In the face of the beloved man, the woman will be transformed into a nagging family, when the two people are together, the woman will take the initiative to find a topic, from Tiannan to Haibei, all the privacy secrets will be told to men, she can talk about the matter of wearing open crotch pants when she was a child to the current three meals a day.
Middle-aged women are even more so, in front of the people they love, they have no secrets to speak of, and the happy and sad things in the original family will also be told to men, and men will give reference opinions.
If suddenly one day, the woman is with you, becomes silent, and the things at work, life, and study are no longer shared with you, it means that she has become unloving of you, so she has taken back this privilege, and men should not ignore this signal.
The third: deliberately keep your distance from you
Middle-aged women love you or not, words and deeds have long given the answer.
When she loves you, she will be eager to be with you 24 hours a day, as soon as she sees you, she will pounce on you, either by your arm, or by your waist, or by your hand, in short, close to you.
However, once she changes her heart and does not love you, she will give this privilege to other men, and you will not be able to enjoy it. She will deliberately keep a distance from you, alienate you, have something, and will not notify you at the first time, no longer regard you as her dependence.
Through the distance of estrangement, gradually alienated from you physically and mentally, so as to pave the way for your departure.
Combined with the above, once a woman changes her heart and no longer loves men, she will take back the above three privileges, which is quite obvious, and men cannot ignore these details of changes.
Middle-aged women change their hearts, they will not give you the opportunity to save, even if men plead bitterly, it will not help. People to middle age, want to keep a love is really not easy, if the other party changed their hearts, no longer love you, should also stop the loss in time, can not guard an empty shell, self-deception.
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In addition to the withdrawal of the above privileges, women have become unloving of men, what will be the manifestations? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.